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MTVN 10-05-2012 12:09 PM

They're probably quite big meals really, but she goes and eats half of it first and then takes a picture

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by kizzy (Post 5128693)
Yes that is one soloution but its not really the issue niamh, It's hoodwinking parents who pay for meals by giving the child insufficient inferior food.

Indeed. Then this child tries to show people this and gets blasted for being greedy/selfish...

We had an issue slightly like this a year or so ago with gavins oldest son. he was coming in from school starving...while we were paying for dinners for him. He wouldnt talk to us about it so we asked the teachers, who told us that he was eating plenty at dinnertime and he must just be hungry because he played football a lot and was burning it off...which seemed a reasonable answer. The next term his sister started at the school. Thats when we found out what was going on...he wasnt eating ANYTHING at lunchtime. He was drinking his juice (and having his milk and biscuits through the day) but that was it.

Had we known this we would have put him on packed lunches...which he is on now. However the teachers blatantly lied to our faces about what was going on. Surely they must have noticed a child throwing their entire dinner away everyday. I cant say if it was the schools fault or not, gavs daughter LOVES the dinners there so it cant really be the quality of the food or anything, but they should have told us either way that he was not eating instead of leading us to believe he was and havin us continue to pay for meals that were getting wasted and having a hungry child.

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5128710)
I don't agree, they don't like the food that's been offered, give her a packed lunch.........Simples. It takes 5 minutes to make a nice healthy sandwich and pack some fruit in a lunch box. I think parents are just being lazy tbh.

Meh, I see your point but if you are paying 2 quid a day for hot meals you expect your child to get something half decent at least. not a burger that looks like its been dropped into a pile of sawdust, a couple of tiny croquettes and a token slice of cucumber :laugh:

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 5128755)
They're probably quite big meals really, but she goes and eats half of it first and then takes a picture

:joker:

arista 10-05-2012 12:20 PM

Vicky thats a shame that yours/Gavs child
had problems. Thats not nice

But this is about a 9 year olds Blog
thats making trouble
in hard times

Ch5's Matt Wright
said this morning
its enough for a 9 year old

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by arista (Post 5128763)
Vicky thats a shame that yours/Gavs child
had problems. Thats not nice

But this is about a 9 year olds Blog
thats making trouble
in hard times

How is it just making trouble though? All shes doing is posting photos of her meals. Noone would say anything if there wasnt some kind of problem with the meals would they :S

If she was posting a decent meal everyday...no-one would bat an eyelid.

Niamh. 10-05-2012 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5128756)
Indeed. Then this child tries to show people this and gets blasted for being greedy/selfish...

We had an issue slightly like this a year or so ago with gavins oldest son. he was coming in from school starving...while we were paying for dinners for him. He wouldnt talk to us about it so we asked the teachers, who told us that he was eating plenty at dinnertime and he must just be hungry because he played football a lot and was burning it off...which seemed a reasonable answer. The next term his sister started at the school. Thats when we found out what was going on...he wasnt eating ANYTHING at lunchtime. He was drinking his juice (and having his milk and biscuits through the day) but that was it.

Had we known this we would have put him on packed lunches...which he is on now. However the teachers blatantly lied to our faces about what was going on. Surely they must have noticed a child throwing their entire dinner away everyday. I cant say if it was the schools fault or not, gavs daughter LOVES the dinners there so it cant really be the quality of the food or anything, but they should have told us either way that he was not eating instead of leading us to believe he was and havin us continue to pay for meals that were getting wasted and having a hungry child.

Sorry Vicky but I strongly disagree with that. It is not and it should not be the teachers or the cafeteria staffs responsibility to check whether kids are eating all their lunch or not. Kids will be kids, I had war with my daughter for two years for not eating her lunch and throwing it away after school. That happens with kids whether it's a packed lunch or not and teachers have enough to be doing then to check who's eating what, in fairness.

Niamh. 10-05-2012 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5128761)
Meh, I see your point but if you are paying 2 quid a day for hot meals you expect your child to get something half decent at least. not a burger that looks like its been dropped into a pile of sawdust, a couple of tiny croquettes and a token slice of cucumber :laugh:

lol, you wouldn't get a bag of crisps and a drink here for 2 quid not to mind a hot meal!

arista 10-05-2012 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5128765)
How is it just making trouble though? All shes doing is posting photos of her meals. Noone would say anything if there wasnt some kind of problem with the meals would they :S

If she was posting a decent meal everyday...no-one would bat an eyelid.


She is now going Worldwide thanks to the D.Mail.

Some of us see it as a decent meal for a 9 year old

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5128767)
Sorry Vicky but I strongly disagree with that. It is not and it should not be the teachers or the cafeteria staffs responsibility to check whether kids are eating all their lunch or not. Kids will be kids, I had war with my daughter for two years for not eating her lunch and throwing it away after school. That happens with kids whether it's a packed lunch or not and teachers have enough to be doing then to check who's eating what, in fairness.

Fully agree. However over the space of a month or so Im sure someone would have noticed that he was eating NOTHING at all

And if they didnt know, which would be fair enough I guess, why lie about it and assure us he was eating all his meals and blame his hunger on his sports etc etc...

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by arista (Post 5128771)
She is now going Worldwide thanks to the D.Mail.

Some of us see it as a decent meal for a 9 year old

Quote:

Martha, whose mother Rebecca is a GP, began the blog because she is interested in writing.

With permission from teachers, she photographed her £2 lunches and wrote about them.

Seems the teachers never saw her as a troublemaker either :spin:

Niamh. 10-05-2012 12:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5128772)
Fully agree. However over the space of a month or so Im sure someone would have noticed.

And if they didnt know, which would be fair enough, why lie about it and assure us he was eating all his meals etc etc...

I don't know, maybe they actually did think he was eating them and didn't see him binning them?

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5128774)
I don't know, maybe they actually did think he was eating them and didn't see him binning them?

If they didnt know, they shouldnt lie. Simple as.

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:32 PM

(Now feels the need to point out that the school is under a different headteacher now and has vastly improved in all areas. They do seem to know what the kids get up to now)

Not just slagging them off, will give credit where its due :laugh:

arista 10-05-2012 12:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5128773)
Seems the teachers never saw her as a troublemaker either :spin:


Yes Teachers Union.


Trouble Makers

Niamh. 10-05-2012 12:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5128775)
If they didnt know, they shouldnt lie. Simple as.

I said maybe they did think he was eating them......that's not a lie.

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5128779)
I said maybe they did think he was eating them......that's not a lie.

It IS a lie to make out as if you know he is eating them...when you dont actually know and its just a guess. IMO anyway

Niamh. 10-05-2012 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5128780)
It IS a lie to make out as if you know he is eating them...when you dont actually know and its just a guess. IMO anyway

We won't fall out over it anyway :laugh:

Vicky. 10-05-2012 12:52 PM

Of course not :love:

Kazanne 10-05-2012 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 5128749)

she doesn't look exactly starved and suffering from malnutrition,does she,lol.

Vanessa 10-05-2012 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by kazanne (Post 5128836)
she doesn't look exactly starved and suffering from malnutrition,does she,lol.

That's not the point. The meals aren't good value for money at all. There's hardly any food in them! :nono:

Kazanne 10-05-2012 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 5128839)
That's not the point. The meals aren't good value for money at all. There's hardly any food in them! :nono:

blimey how much does one want,she even got a lolly:hugesmile:

Vanessa 10-05-2012 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by kazanne (Post 5128842)
blimey how much does one want,she even got a lolly:hugesmile:

Kids need healthy food. Like meat and vegetables for example. And fruit. :pipe:

Kazanne 10-05-2012 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 5128843)
Kids need healthy food. Like meat and vegetables for example. And fruit. :pipe:

I have kids,I know they need healthy food,you can make a healthy meal from £2 a day,the school is being lazy or the parents.

Vanessa 10-05-2012 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kazanne (Post 5128848)
I have kids,I know they need healthy food,you can make a healthy meal from £2 a day,the school is being lazy or the parents.

I agree. I wouldn't want my nephews to eat that rubbish. :(


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