Of course the man should have a say but the over ruled answer should be by the woman because it is her body after all.

How does a man take legal action if the woman has the final decision? Or am I just reading it wrong

A lot of women do the same.
Does that mean we should tar everyone with the same brush? No.

Then again, you only said that to attempt some "controversy" anyway so moving on.

The whole "it's her body" doesn't sit well with me entirely neither. She's willingly shared her body with someone else and together they've created another person. As much his baby as it is hers IMO.

My first thoughts on this are that yes the father must have a say in his child's affairs , but legally the decision to abort the child must rest with the mother as , as I have said in an earlier similar thread, until that child is able to live without the mothers help that child does not have separate rights and up to that point the mother who is keeping the foetus alive has all the rights and legally no one can force her to continue with the pregnancy against her wishes...!!!