What has gay got to do with being a man.

People can choose not to be gluttons, stalkers, act like children, lie or be manipulative but someone who is gay hasn't the choice not to be so.

Why should that term be included as a negative as to being a man.

Eh? I assumed we were talking about choices for the ladies (which is why I put the bracketted bit on). What I meant was that a woman would hardly go for a gay bloke :S

Was answering 'Yes that's what we're all looking for in our men... lying, manipulative con artists.' rather than vanessas post about being a man D:

All I can say is I want thrilling,not killing so anyone BUT Dexter for me,I'de probably wake up sold to my next door neighbour:joker:

My reply was to the 'dexter is more of a man' comment....
I would say that any of the others even taking into account what you consider their flaws constitute a better man.... And dan? well... he is the man :laugh:

Well sorry to disagree.
I know of a great number of women who would go for a gay guy if they had any chance and many do strongly try to anyway.
Hazel for instance is strongly attracted to a gay guy in the house.

Still for me anyway, it doesnt alter of all the options that being gay is not a choice it is the way of life for those who are.

It's more of an emotional connection though, she see's him as a strong positive male presence than a possible conquest I think :)

skinny guys like Dexter are all the range nowadays, I think it may be a generational gap thing here. It is not all about the muscular guys anymore. I think alot of younger people would find Dexter attractive based on looks

Not really bothered about his physical looks (although I do like to jest) but personality wise he's a big fat NO.

Yes. I think he's gorgeous anyway. :hugesmile:

yea, but people are going as if he is ugly. I think a lot of people would pick him over Dan just based on looks and not personality

I understand not liking him for his personality though

Apparently Dexter shouts... unleash the trouser snake..... just before jumping into bed. :devil:

I like both his looks and personality.

And then the socks drop out:joker::joker::joker::joker:

Not sure as to that one,I think if he was to open a door and say he was willing to go for it,she would jump at the chance.:hugesmile:

I have seen it happen loads at Uni and especially after any drinking seeions.

:joker:sorry Joey,this made me chuckle,you'de have to be drunk to fancy Dexter:hugesmile:

:joker:Aah Kazanne,I was referring to Hazel and Dan,in response to Kizzy. Not Dexter.:joker:

Indeed. He is the only goodlooking one left. Has the personality too. The only ther goodlooking one was Daley, and look how that turned out :bored:

I kind of swing between thinking hes cute, and not. I am in a not stage right now. But skinny geeky looking guys are generally my type :blush2:

To each his own i suppose. I only like Dexter out of all of them. :hugesmile:

:worship: Dan a self confessed gay man is something and everything Slimy Dexter can never be

Lol,I he probably does'nt even know what to do with his little trouser worm.No third option for idiot?
As for being a man,Lol!He has the chest of a pigeon and the physique of a 9 year old girl.

Or maybe just wanker. Sorry I'm only having a laugh, couldn't resist. I never believed he worked as a dating consultant or was any good at chatting up women.

Me neither ,hes more full of BS than Farmer Giles field

You could be onto something there.

Muscular is out and metrosexual is in! Dexter would fit in well to the latter.

But I still think he would have more appeal to gay men than to women. And I doubt he'd object to that too much. ;)

I agree. I think he likes both males and females. ;)