The former is a specific comment on a woman's sexual behaviour projected by Dexter onto an unwilling and uncomfortable individual and I personally find it more offensive than a generic statement that a horny young lad makes pertaining to not caring who he sleeps with as long as he sleeps with someone. It's akin to the equally self-deprecating line "no standards no regrets."

Have just realised that the uproar on here may be because "any hole is a goal" has been misinterpreted to mean "using the fire exit" as opposed to the explanation above. This is not the case.

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He did though, and others on here will attest to that. I'm not a prude and think that anyone offended could just tell him to buzz off, but my concern is with the double standards as Dexter fans commence a smear campaign against Sam.

I have no idea why there's an elephant in my last post, or what it's meant to mean.

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Unwilling and uncomfortable? Unless you're secretly Jemima or her official representation, how could you possibly make that assertion? Jemima was never been shy to speak about sex or acts of that nature, I really doubt she took offence. If you think she'd have a problem with that comment, surely she must then have an issue with someone telling her that she's making his "winky' expand. One is definitely a little more eloquent and respectful then the other...

To be honest I don't know exactly what that term specifically refers to. We don't use that in Canada and I've never heard it before. I suspect that it means he'll shag anything with a pulse, but I suppose it could mean he'll also go with whatever hole is available. Either way isn't not really a 'positive' thing lol

You seem to dismiss all Sam's comments as acceptable because he's just a horny young lad. Dexter is only 4 years older. What's the cut off?

For the record I think Dexter has a LOT of things he needs to work on, one of them being how he views and treats woman, if what his VT says is accurate. He's also made a fairshare of d**khead remarks. I'm just noting that Sam had made "sleazy" comments as well, in some cases a little more inappropriate. I hold them both to the same standard.

*chuckles*

See, now, I think at 23 he is a young lad :p

Well said.

What a bad mannered git. I hope he's no being protected by BB-that's not fair, but after tonight's show things may change; we saw a different side to him.

Fair enough Matt. Jemima was uncomfortable though as she replied with something akin to "you will never find out", then complained to ne of the other girls. I am very ashamed that this is taking up my brain-space. She may not have been uncomfortable if asked by someone she was attracted to, but Dexter is that awkward and asexual it must have felt like her son was asking her about her sexual preferences. Hopefully Sam will grow up a tad, and Dexter will fade back into nothingness.

This^^^^^^ I still say he played a big part in her getting evicted.

Yeah no worries, we obviously see it differently and that's perfectly fine. I think the question was posed to Dexter, it's not like he just went up to Jemima and made that claim on his own. They both certainly need to no a fair bit of growing up lol

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because he's cute and marketable for channel 5 obvs

Sam's turning into Anthony Hutton.:joker:

He's a floppy haired git!! :)

Dear Daily Mail,

I am outraged at the crassness shown by a young lad of 24 using phrases such as this and influencing our precious, God fearing youth in such a horrible manner on a national TV show.

Whilst on the other hand HM Dexter is such a fine young man, who every young person should use as their role model. He's run strip clubs, he has a woman for every occasion, he has a girlfriend who he has no respect for, he has a gambling problem. I could go on.

I shall be complaining to Ofcom regarding this outrageous objectifying of women of a young, single, attractive lad from Wales. Whilst a fine, upstanding member of society such as Dexter is painted to look like a misogynistic. horrible young man. Which he clearly is not!

Yours,

Disgusted of Chichester

The 'Dear Daily Mail' was a post-killer for me!
Didn't bother reading any further.:bored: