| Smeggypants |
12-08-2006 08:40 PM |
OK, as much as it 's tedious having to go over this sh1t time and time again....
First off Grace cares about no one but herself. She uses people to boost her own selfish ego by either impressing them or declaring herself superior to them. She did this in the house by creating a group around herself ( The plastics ) of which she could then declare herself the leader by default. She would bind this group together both by assertiveness and creating common ememies for them to bitch about.
When anyone new entered the house such as Sam, Ash and Suzie she felt threatened, and rather than give them a chance, or even make friends Grace immediately judged them as 'bad' so Grace could further retain control over her little group by further simulating the bitch sessions. People of lesser assertiveness in the group, such as Imogen, would agree simply to retain acceptance in this group.
Grace of course didn't give a toss about the people she immediately judged and bitched about. Indeed she even lied about them (Sam )in order to maintain her 'leadership' of this group.
Grace of course also didn't care about the people ( plastics ) in the group. They were only there to serve a purpose. That purpose being to create a group for Grace to Lead.
Where Grace went wrong however was that while she could fool the other HMs with her scheming and lying, she forgot about the cameras on her at all times recording her eveyr move. Viewers could see all this and began to hate her.
When Grace heard the 'get Grace out' chants during that particular eviction night, did you see how shocked she was? This really hurt her ( running to the toilet crying ) becuase she would never admit or realis how vile is was being.
The when Suzie nominated her and thus ensured her eviction her selfish ego was really bruised and she was compelled to retaliate in a childish way.
This brings us to the first of Grace's cowardly side. Someone with REAL GUTS would have thrown the water and then stood there waiting for the reaction. But no, Grace waited until the very last minute so she could escapewithout having to face upto any possible consequences of the water throwing. Total cowardice and really quite pathetic for someone who puts up such an assertive front.
OK, lets fast forward to Graces 2nd entry to the house. When she was around her group again, she was acting the big assertive leader, but when she was told she was going back into the main house for 21 minutes she shat herself.
You cannot have missed how nervous she was when she went back into the main house for those 21 minutes. She did everything to avoid a confrontation with Aisleyne, but couldn't really refuse when Glyn invited her to the kitchen area. Yes I Know aisleyne was nervous too, but least Ash contronted her about it.
All Grace could come back with was some crap about suzies secrets and that she was a stripper. As if that was some excuse for Grace's bad behaviour. When Ash pursued it further Grace ( as she coudlnt' use words this time) ignoered her and cuddled Glyn putting him in between her and Ash. ( That's when Ash rightly called her ignorant! )
And when Grace got back into the HND she completely changed from a cowardly squirmer into the big assertive, always in control, "yeah I sorted Ash out" person again.
And yeah she does laugh off the criticism, but not in a way that she doesnt' care. Grace doesn't care abut people, but she damn well cares about what people think of her, as her very existence depends on her popularity to fuel her selfish ego.
This what I Like about Big Brother. The way it is set up completely exposes people's personalities.
In real life you can be an arsehole and get away with it by lying and scheming ( As grace obviously has ), but in BB you cannot.
The general public ( including myself ) don't hate Grace for no reason, and we certainly don't hate her just becuase she threw water and was a bitch. Remember Imogen has bitched, Aidleyne has bitched, Lea has bitched, but they're not hated by the public like Grace is.
There you go, FWIW, some psyco-analysis as to why Grace is an arsehole. Take it or leave it
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