I thought dappy had a kid too.. :/

That was the most stupid part of the argument.

Reminded me of school. "Did you just cuss my mum doeee?!"

He has two

er...yeah if you say so:conf2:

Well guess who up next time.

Snow white slept with 7 and everyone loves her.

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Thas not what was said tho..

"Your mother would be ashamed of you" is what was Said.
Won't be shocked if you defend that aswell tbh.

Don't you think his mum would be ashamed of his sexist views?

He must have been ashamed of them himself as he backtracked.

Ah there we go.

She was also fed a poisoned apple by a witch for her troubles. Better keep an eye on Linda and the fruit bowl.

How can you call anyone a slut when you release your nudes for promo....

They are both parents, I honestly feel sorry for their children. Hate to sound like an angry old woman, but whatever happened to setting an example?

Because he is a hypocrite

Sis you clicked quote before I edited the post.

oh you and your old fashioned values :fist:

his nudes were released nearly a month before his first single, he must have been lying in the task the other day.

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Hilarious argument but of course Dappy was wrong, I mean how can there be a discussion about this? That's if we're talking about the actual subject of the argument of course, as far as I'm concerned their respective conduct throughout is a bit irrelevant to the discussion. If we're talking about what the argument actually transpired from, then there's no debate to be had to be quite honest.

Thinking that it's alright for a man to sleep around but if a woman does it she's a 'slut' is exactly the kind of misogynistic and sexist drivel I was going on about the other night. Completely hypocritical, bullsh*t nonsense.

Ok - I'm 57, Dappy and his opinion I disagree with. Women have every right to be and do what fits their needs just the same as men. Lee from Blue is as much a slut as Luisa. We are not all the same in terms of what we feel we need nor are we all the same in what we believe is right.

So the question is 'Why does Dappy feel so strongly about how many men a woman sleeps with?"

Perhaps behind this something else!

Perhaps Dappy was getting emotional about Luisa and now feels his affections have been betrayed because Luisa enjoys a less personal relationship with men but just likes to enjoy the bodily pleasure they can give her.

After all any exploration of what happens in the world would reveal that Dappy's opinions are irrelevant. People of the world will do as they like no matter what others think. So there is no argument outside of CBB whether what Luisa does is wrong or right.

Personally the stalking by Dappy to punish Luisa for lifestyle was unpleasant to see.

Welcome to the forum :love:

What I find interesting about the topic of conversation Dappy brought up is that it's rarely looked at the other way round... as in, there's focus on why is it that when a woman does it she's a slut but a man does it and he's a pimp... but why is it never looked at from the point of view of why do men feel no shame about sleeping around whereas women, whether consciously or not, are really sensitive to being criticised for doing the same thing? Why do men not feel any guilt for doing it? It's an interesting debate, but I don't think Dappy OR Luisa have the mental capacity to discuss such a topic, at least not without it getting personal as shown by tonight!

Because we live in a culture dominated by men and a belief system that perpetuates this idea that women must remain pure and only have sex within a relationship whilst men are celebrated and encouraged on a daily basis to look at women as objects and boast about how many they've slept with. Personally I couldn't care less regardless of gender as I addressed in the other thread, but it really pisses me off how sexist this idea is and how unfortunately prevalent it is.

I will say though is that women do go a long way as to perpetuating this belief themselves and it's sad, because it is mainly girls that you will hear every day discussing other 'sluts' and I find it so depressing to listen to, I just want to shake them and tell them to wake up and realise what's actually happening, how some men are doing exactly the same thing around them and yet no one's paying them any attention.

Great posts, all of these.

ok my opinion for what its worth is that neither of then won this argument and both actually did themselves no favours. Firstly both OF THEM said things in the heat of the argument that they shouldn't have. BOTH of them got personal her referring to his mother him referring to her daughter. Men sleeping with 5 women in a night is no different to Women sleeping with five men. Both are to be judged the same and not to be seen in any kind of good light at that. The one thing that I felt incriminated Dappy a very small bit more than Luisa is that he kept following her and continuing the argument and each time that happened it blew it up even more. it didn't look good for any of them and I don't think that either of their fans can really defend their personal favourite and say one was worse than the other cos in my eyes ( and I happen to like Luisa and moderately like Dappy) it was a stupid slanging match that should have finished in the first scene and not gone to scene 2 3 or 4