i also think everyone is judgemental. i don't believe this 'no one should judge anyone ever!!!!!11' crap because EVERYONE does it at one point in their life.

sometimes it's not even a bad thing.

for example, you need a babysitter. Do you go with the first aid trained, CRB checked teenage girl? Or the homeless old man who lives on your street?

pretty sure i know my answer. and i don't think that's a bad thing.

...also a nope from me..most people, if not all have an element of being judgemental about them..judging is a part of our characters, our life experiences, things we associate etc...but it's a balance thing and being 'open' to changing our mind etc if we've judged harshly ..but there are extreme judgemental people who never do that and I'm guessing that's what you mean...?...but no, not a good quality I don't think ..and interestingly in my experience, the 'most judgemental' are ones who themselves don't like to be judged....

..so, maybe more or less what Caitlin just said..she sneaked her post in there while I was still typing..Caitlin I'm judging you for that....

i also find that it's the 'love everyone no matter what!!!!!!' people who are the most judgemental...

**** off Ammi, I judged you WAYYY before you judged me!!!!

..but they don't love everyone if they're judgemental..but I think that generally 'judgements' are made on out own life experiences and maybe personality traits and stuff like that, that we may have been hurt by or had negative experiences with..?...I think with the 'appearance' thing though, rather than personality..maybe that's just a 'humour' I don't know or just another way of 'negative expression'...I have no idea on any psychologies if there are any/sometimes I suspect it could be 'deflection'....


..anyway, you cat loving/baby-sitting/GypsyGoth wannabee, get of a my cloud....I've just about had enough of your nonsense this morning...

:rolleyes: at this thread

..why the rolled eyes, Pete..?..

I think you're totally right. But yeah, I just dont believe people who say they aren't judgemental and I never will. Some of the people who say they aren't, are actually the worst... From my experience anyway

The funny thing about this is that people take your opinions so seriously...

Anyway, I best go now, you racist child punching bitch

..yeah, I agree, everyone is 'judgemental' to a degree but I think it's also a 'positive V negative' thing as to how extreme that is and what people 'judge' will differ from person to person..balance is good in everything but extremes in anything aren't etc...and someone might say..I don't judge because they don't have a strong enough opinion on that thing, maybe..?.but then on something else they feel strongly about, they can make 'judgements'...rather than opinions as in objective opinions because I think it's also impossible to always be objective with things that might have personal associations for you...


...oh and I have a day off/ha2/judge that....

Truth.

We all judge, whether we like to admit it or not.

We judge people on appearances and how they conduct themselves. We make assumptions about them.

It's perfectly natural to do that. It's not good if you stick with that original judgement though. Some of us get to know the person then our opinion changes. Others like to just continue making judgements whilst ignoring the facts.

lol,but you were judging people in the ,favourite Xfactor contestants thread for liking certain singers.:hehe:

Let me tell you that passive-aggressive people are far far worse......

I wasn't :s thats not me judging others

:laugh:

Hence why people like Nigel Farage and hate Ed Milliband

:hehe:

no I dont

that is still the best reply:joker:

I hate judgemental people.....







....so I'm gonna make a thread where we can all judge them :hehe:

It's no big deal Luke but I'm sure you posted "OMG,I cant believe at some people liking Chris Maloney" lol,is that not judging people on their musical tastes?:shrug:

no i'm not judging them for liking him, i'm just surprised, I don't think any different of them lol

That makes sense :love:

Ok then.just surprised at the OMG bit,lol

:joker::joker::joker:

Which means you've made a pre-determined judgement about the quality of said artist and those who like like his music.

The non judgmental answer would be...

Person: I like Chris Mahoney.

You: I have no opinion on that whatsoever

but i'm not judging them for liking him.

and i deffo don't judge people for being ugly,fat or gay that is just wrong