This was over 10 hours... if you are good looking then obviously someone is going to pass comment, I don't see the prob. The guy following her for 5 mins was different that was freaky :/

The problem. It isn't obvious, it's a learned behavior for men to invade women's personal space because they have the audacity to be in public or worse be in public and be attractive. We need to teach boys more respect for women and women more respect for themselves, this is totally unacceptable and the fact that most people are so nonchalant or even aggressively misogynistic about it is so telling about society. It may not seem like a huge deal to have men catcalling women but it shows that women in public spaces are there for men's viewing pleasure when they actually just have places to go and **** to do? This attitude contributes to rape culture and cannot be tolerated.

If you don't see that women (and the media) also objectify men, and fairly frequently, then you are part of the problem. Not the solution. The question that needs asking is, is it OK for a person - any person - to be objectified without consent. Which set of genitals someone happens to have is, or should be, completely irrelevant. THAT is equality.

When I was a student I literally can't tell you how many times I had girls that I didn't know grope my arse while I was stood ordering a drink at the bar. On one occasion, a completely random girl had two of her friends grab me and hold my arms while she stuck her tongue in my face.

If that happened to a girl... Well. Just saying.

Just because it hasn't happened to you, doesn't mean it doesn't happen?

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There are obviously problems that men face, but they do not compare to women's. I never said that men didn't face problems because of their sex, as I face PLENTY of discrimination as a male who doesn't conform to gender roles and yadda yadda. But good job exemplifying my point about men always making misogyny somehow about male oppression. Because I pointed out the blatant sexism this woman experienced, all of a sudden I'm discounting men's experiences? And lmao at me possibly being part of the problem of sexism directed against anyone, thank **** I exist to help point out this bull****.

Complete bollocks.

What makes the sexual harassment of women more serious than the sexual harassment of men? what a ridiculous thing to say.

" There are obviously problems that men face, but they do not compare to women's"

You are indeed sexist. Sorry.

i bet you hear this all the time:hehe:

I never said that it didn't. When men and women are sexually assaulted it is obviously equally heinous. The point is that women face a much higher risk of sexual assault and are often blamed for dressing or acting provocatively while the boys will be boys excuse is applied to the perpetrators. Rape culture as a whole is a much greater threat to women than it is to men, and if you can't accept that you're not living in reality. Even from school age on rape culture is ingrained in children (at least here in America) where girls are banned from wearing revealing clothing like shorts and skirts or even showing bra straps, because boys just can't help but be distracted by these seductresses :rolleyes: we are taught that women in public places are objects for men's attentions which is a big reason why we have rampant sex crimes against women... it is what everyone is taught since school!

You are indeed ignorant of the world in which you live. Wake the **** up.

If gay men did this to straight men everyday, if gay men harassed straight men the way that straight men harass women, all gay men would be rounded up and put into concentration camps.

I'm not saying all straight men should be put in concentration camps, but i would understand why if they were.

Think about all the straight guys that are paranoid about gay men in locker rooms, omg, they might look at me!!, meanwhile straight men are doing this to women everyday out on the streets. hypocrites.

Yeah I would prob support that

what do you mean IF it happened to a girl?

It happens to girls hundreds of times per day in this world. the difference is how threatened did you actually feel? how much terror? and did you actually feel that you were in real danger ever? no, so it's not comparable.

Stop comparing your tiny pea nuts to apples.

I wouldn't discount their experience based on their gender, that's just as wrong as minimizing sex crimes against anyone. Overall women are in much greater danger of sexual assault and are in a male-dominated culture with a lot of men that feel entitled to gawk at and objectify women (catcalling just being one example of this.) But that doesn't mean that when it does happen to men it is less threatening or traumatic.

That's a fair point.

And I would counter that you clearly have absolutely no concept of the forces in this world that truly fire the neo-feminist movement or their motivations, and just how little those forces care about everyday women, or men, or any hint of equality of any kind.

If I am asleep, you are blind, deaf, dumb and comatose. "wake up", indeed. You've barely even escaped the womb :facepalm:.

That it happens to women plenty was entirely my point. Perhaps I should have said "when" rather than "if" - my point being, WHEN it happens to women, people are horrified and I have no doubt any male perpetrators would be swiftly ejected from most clubs. When it happens to men, people find it cute / hilarious.

I can't say I'm bothered by people touching my arse but the latter incident was fairly unpleasant. I have recently, within the last year or so, been diagnosed with low-level asbergers and in my teens that essentially manifested as moderate social anxiety that I was VERY good at hiding behind a mask of false confidence / cool headedness. I laughed and joked all night with my friends about being face-raped. In reality it set off my social anxiety massively and I was indeed quite shaken.

But that's not "manly", is it? No no. Men don't mind random girls all over them. We love it, don't we? Because we're manly men who are brave and hypersexual! Arrrrr.


... And holding these beliefs are what makes you sexist. Against men. And me, as a teenager, playing along and pretending that it didn't bother me is what made me oppressed. Men are oppressed too. Men are handed sexist expectation, of ruggedness, of manliness, of bravery, by the bucketload every day. They are different sorts of expectations to those placed on women but anyone who believes it's all plain sailing is utterly blind.

Here's a conundrum for you: half of the men catcalling women on the street wouldn't be doing it if they weren't trying to impress their buddies or make them laugh / "for banter". Men (men of lower intelligence, to be blunt) feel like they are expected to do these things because of the sexist gender roles APPLIED TO THEM by the same society that simultaneously oppresses women and encourages militant feminism.

Ask yourself why. Ask yourself what happens to the entities that manipulate us en masse through their controlled media if we were all to ACTUALLY Unite under a banner of true equality. Ask yourself why they ****ing want us all at each other's throats distracted by petty pop-feminism.

Then you might truly wake up.

How dare that bastard say "Good morning". :fist: Sexist pig!

-gives up on society-

That's sexist! :mad:

Here's another fun fact: when polled with the question "have you ever been abused by a partner", hardly any men said yes, whereas several women said yes.

When the question is changed to "have you ever been struck by a partner hard enough to bruise or draw blood" the results are basically 50/50.

Men are under societal pressure not to admit to or report domestic abuse, even though it is a huge problem, because of the stigma that admitting that (even to themselves) would cause.

Most men also report being too scared to fight back or even properly defend themselves because of how that might be perceived.


Ignoring issues like these completely destroys any hope of true equality. Something that I genuinely believe in, by the way. Men and women are indeed unequal in many ways - to the benefit and detriment of both in different circumstances. That is what needs to be addressed. And that is why I despise the modern feminist movement and fully believe that all it will ever achieve is gender division and further inequalities.

Brilliantly said, TS...

If Fedoras had a smell this topic would reek of them.

Women are a lot more likely to suffer a sexual attack in their lifetimes then men which can make these catcalls a lot more intimidating for them. Granted most of them are innocent but it's still could be intimidating for the person involved. Victims of rape are often vilified too and are forced to fight for justice and, when they do seek justice, they'll be put on trial just as much as their rapist. When you look at pretty much all walks of life, women have it harder then men, women are often villainised while men are glorified for the same actions.

People who spout crap like 'lol women's rights WHAT ABOUT MEN'S RIGHTS?!' remind me very much of people in America who say 'If there's a black history month then why isn't there a white history month?' It's ignorant and self-entitled. As men, we are are lucky because we'll never have to deal with half the **** a woman has to deal with in their lifetimes.

Interesting reading through the opinions in this thread so far. I'm of the same opinion at TS .