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Originally Posted by REDCROP (Post 8011353)

Defended her too many times to bother again....she's just been voted the most honest housemate on here...you work it out

Because being 'honest' means you cannot be guilty of anything else. Right....

Just because I think you are a ****ing arsehole and have the balls to actually say you are a ****ing arsehole, does not make me a person who can be respected or admired. She's an honest mistake, and that's pretty much it.

FYI - I do not think you are a ****ing arsehole. Was just making a point.

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Originally Posted by sungrass (Post 8012742)

because she is already rich herself!!

I heard it on live - she has plenty of money already.

Why do you think she's rich? That's right, because she's a gold-digger. She either prances naked on cam, or demands money from sugar-daddy's evidenced by this http://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=2316320 (click on continue). Open your eyes.

Secondly, do you seriously think that anyone who is wealthy will stop pursuing money? You need to maintain your wealth as a £50 note isn't a freakin' seed that'll grow to make millions of other £50 notes. And guess who has a lot of money to help maintain or expand her wealth? That's right, you got it, Nick.

You're really onto something, well done!

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Originally Posted by DemolitionRed (Post 8012784)

I suspect Harry has wealthy parents too and from her accent I also suspect she was privately educated. We know she was homeless and that could of been self inflicted or because she fell out of favour with her parents. I certainly don't think her house and her horse/horses is being paid for by herself, I think mummy and daddy have dipped heavily in their pockets to ensure she's safe....to ground her.

If she comes from the same sort of world as Nick then its Nick she's going to feel comfortable with. Many kids that are privately educated have parents with high expectations. I doubt Nick or Harry have lived up to those expectations and so are bound to find comfort in each other.

I quite like Harry but I do think she has 'Snow White' Syndrome. She's not going to financially bleed Nick dry but emotionally I think she will. In the link that was posted she calls herself a 'princess'. I don't for one moment believe that's an act.

So basically you make a speculation, and then create a whole story based on the speculated premise that she has wealthy parents. Begin making certain that the premise is true, and then I can take the rest of what you said seriously. Until then, you could have literally wrote a whole load of false garbage. At least with my speculation that she's a gold-digger, I provided some evidence to back up my theory, regardless of whether it's true or not.

However, if what you said is true, her self-entitled, spoilt brat syndrome makes sense. But if the latter is true, in that her parents are not in her life (regardless of wealth), her behavioural response to that circumstance also makes sense as she displays very poor and maladaptive relationship skills and displays some really challenging behaviour stemming from negative self-perception. She hides and secludes herself exponentially when she feels upset, as a child who lives in a maladaptive household does because they haven't learned how to express and understand emotions in a healthy manner, she displays very needy and possessive behaviour towards Nick, and when she doesn't receive what she's pursuing, she resorts to emotional manipulation via victimisation. She's very self-destructive, and destructive to others. She reminds me of Succubus.

**** I need to get out more.