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JTM45 12-07-2015 06:14 PM

We'll have to agree to disagree then Jack.
I would have thought i'd been around this forum long enough and discussed such subjects directly with you in the past to the point where you wouldn't need to even insinuate that i had a single homophobic cell in my body!
Am i allowed to be offended ?

Jack_ 12-07-2015 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by JTM45 (Post 7993181)
We'll have to agree to disagree then Jack.
I would have thought i'd been around this forum long enough and discussed such subjects directly with you in the past to the point where you wouldn't need to even insinuate that i had a single homophobic cell in my body!
Am i allowed to be offended ?

I never once insinuated that you were homophobic, so please don't take it that way.

I just get a bit bored of speculation about people's sexualities which are, as I said, rooted in a belief that being camp = gay when that isn't the case at all. It's not just on here, but society as a whole.

JamesBond 12-07-2015 06:18 PM

So you won't answer the question?
:joker:

Gstar 12-07-2015 06:19 PM

Personally I think he is but whether he is gay or straight is nobody's business

Ant. 12-07-2015 06:42 PM

It's 2015 and people still believe that 'camp', 'feminine' guys must be gay LMAO

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Originally Posted by Jack_ (Post 7993075)
'Protective'? :umm2: I couldn't care less whether Joel is gay or not, actually I'd rather he like guys as well cause he's strangely attractive

The point I'm making is I am sick and tired of this outdated belief that being camp makes you gay, when it doesn't at all. And what's even worse is that it starts with an assumption that everyone is straight, where's the speculation about people being heterosexual? There isn't any, and it's ****ing appalling.

:cheer2: :clap1: :clap1: :clap1:

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Originally Posted by JamesBond (Post 7993077)
I'll go with what I see thank you, the signs are all there.

What signs? The only possible sign he is gay if he actually says "I'm gay". Unless you're talking about him acting 'camp', which you will find has no correlation to someone's sexuality and even more shockingly, homosexual men can enjoy activities such as football which defy the gay stereotype (because that's what they are, stereotypes, and the personality of someone doesn't determine their sexuality)

JamesBond 12-07-2015 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Lilbro (Post 7993351)
It's 2015 and people still believe that 'camp', 'feminine' guys must be gay LMAO



What signs? The only possible sign he is gay if he actually says "I'm gay". Unless you're talking about him acting 'camp', which you will find has no correlation to someone's sexuality and even more shockingly, homosexual men can enjoy activities such ash football which defy the gay stereotype (because that's what they are, stereotypes, and the personality of someone doesn't determine their sexuality)

Thanks for explaining the difference between camp and gay, as if I didn't already know.

I still stand by my statement, there are signs.

Marsh. 12-07-2015 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by JamesBond (Post 7993377)
Thanks for explaining the difference between camp and gay, as if I didn't already know.

I still stand by my statement, there are signs.

Why does it matter to you though?

Do you want to shag him?

Jamie89 12-07-2015 06:54 PM

I don't usually like threads like this because it shouldn't matter if he's gay or camp (which are two different things btw) but the speculation about Joel is interesting to me because it reminds me of my own experiences. When I was 19 I was also a virgin, and I still didn't know (or rather I didn't want to admit to myself) that I was gay, I had quite a conservative upbringing so it was hard for me to come to terms with it and I stayed in denial for a long time throughout my teens, and didn't come out till I was 20 (which was when I lost my virginity). So yeah I can see some similarities between myself and Joel, and so it wouldn't surprise me if he turned out gay, if he follows a similar path to me. But everyone has their own path and his might be completely different to mine, or anyone else's on this forum who think they can analyse Joel based on their own experiences so personally I'm going to chose to respect how he identifies himself rather than how he is perceived by others. If his self-identification as straight changes then good luck to him. If not, who cares? I've known plenty of straight men a lot camper than Joel. It's a personality trait, not a reflection of which gender you're attracted to.

On the other hand...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0kqobQRcUo

:joker:

JamesBond 12-07-2015 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 7993380)
Why does it matter to you though?

Do you want to shag him?

It doesn't matter.

If I was gay trust me I would have way higher standards, whether you like women or men your standards should be the same.

drantb 12-07-2015 07:00 PM

Maybe he's in the closet.
Maybe he doesn't know?
Maybe he's just confused.

None of it really matters. Either way, if he says he's straight, you accept he's straight.

Marsh. 12-07-2015 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by JamesBond (Post 7993419)
It doesn't matter.

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fitz2k2 12-07-2015 07:01 PM

slut drop says a lot lol

Vanessa 12-07-2015 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by fitz2k2 (Post 7993441)
slut drop says a lot lol

It was funny, because Cristian and Joel did it almost at the same time. :joker:

Will. 12-07-2015 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 7993461)
It was funny, because Cristian and Joel did it almost at the same time. :joker:

every comment of yours Vanessa includes Cristian lmao

Liam- 12-07-2015 07:07 PM

Until he says otherwise, he should be assumed and thought of as straight, end of story.

Vanessa 12-07-2015 07:12 PM

Chroel made the headlines! :cheer2:

http://bit.ly/1ITDdgY

MB. 12-07-2015 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 7993506)
Chroel made the headlines! :cheer2:

http://bit.ly/1ITDdgY

I'm confused, you mentioned "headlines" but posted a link to the Daily Star

Vanessa 12-07-2015 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by MB. (Post 7993511)
I'm confused, you mentioned "headlines" but posted a link to the Daily Star

:laugh: it's funny, because they would never show this on the highlights. It doesn't go with their script.

VanessaFeltz. 12-07-2015 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 7993506)
Chroel made the headlines! :cheer2:

http://bit.ly/1ITDdgY

"Are you two in bed together?," she questioned prompting a flustered Cristian to say: "It's not what it looks like, it's not what it looks like."

SCREAMING

Marsh. 12-07-2015 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 7993506)
Chroel made the headlines! :cheer2:

http://bit.ly/1ITDdgY

Where's the 'h' come from? :think:

Vanessa 12-07-2015 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by MelihV (Post 7993540)
"Are you two in bed together?," she questioned prompting a flustered Cristian to say: "It's not what it looks like, it's not what it looks like."

SCREAMING

:joker: Joel trying to spoon Cristian.

MB. 12-07-2015 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 7993524)
:laugh: it's funny, because they would never show this on the highlights. It doesn't go with their script.

Of course they're going to show it on the highlights. How else would the Daily Star know about it?

Vanessa 12-07-2015 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by MB. (Post 7993552)
Of course they're going to show it on the highlights. How else would the Daily Star know about it?

They have never showed it before. It's going into Craig and Anthony territory and viewers don't even know these two are close. :hehe:

JamesBond 12-07-2015 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 7993559)
They have never showed it before. It's going into Craig and Anthony territory and viewers don't even know these two are close. :hehe:

Omg Craig and Anthony lol.

Vanessa 12-07-2015 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by JamesBond (Post 7993578)
Omg Craig and Anthony lol.

:laugh:


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