I think you put your point across well there, Sam... I just think you're wrong, you keep drawing parallels and claiming injustice, but theres nothing to back that up. you do not have specific examples, you are just presuming that there would be different rules for different housemates, when really, there has been like ten(?) ejections in history of bbuk - and none of them were ejected for their angry words alone, so your entire thread seems a bit futile.

Ask your hubby and his mates, but remember to tell them its not just a friendly comment. You might be surprised by the results. We cant run a poll on it for obvious reasons.

Sam, some of your post above is understandable but you're losing the argument by constantly bringing sexuality into it.

You're obsessed with this "darling boy" comment. That was not aggressive or intimidation. It was goading yeh but more fool Joe for falling for it.

By the way, I've asked my lads what they thought and they said that Andrew was deliberately pressing Joes buttons and Joe fell for it hook, line and sinker. Just like you have.

Anyone who would punch someone for saying that (which is what you're suggesting) is either homophobic or unsure of their own sexuality. Simple as.

I agree with you on a lot of the other points but this is simply not one of them.

I know my husband really really well, he's very comfortable with his sexuality, if a guy said that to him (gay or straight) he would find it funny.

Wasn't the "darling boy" comment more a dig at the way Joe refers to people?

And by the way, you're not helping your cause by only starting threads about Sue and Andrew.

After watching last nights show, what the fook was Sam at? He stood up and constantly told Sue to get into the house. What was that about? That was certainly aggressive and intimidating.

When I saw the clip yesterday I thought he'd stood up after she started on him but he didn't he stood up before she said a word to him. He deserved exactly what he got.