Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 9552005)

Probably sarah phoning the press in her quest for the limelight.

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9551967)

Why did his wife kick him out this summer over it ?

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 9551267)

I don't like Sarah very much, but I think that this post is just a classic case of blaming the girl whilst excusing the man in the situation who is also playing up to the Showmance as only a few days ago he had feelings for Amelia, and was pissed off that she picked Sam over him. Chad is just in there for a Showmance and he will try with anybody in there, and I mean anybody.

Sarah is annoying, she does do the Showmance route, and the bias that she gets from the public is possibly even more annoying than the Showmancing as it's all because she was a background member of a girl group that was completely generic. But Chad is the biggest user out of the two imo as he is using her popularity to coast by with his pathetic Showmancing.

Originally Posted by the truth (Post 9552313)

classic misandtrist sexism there mock, im very disappointed in you. the man and woman are EQUALLY guilty when cheating goes on. sarah is a notorious love cheat

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552326)

I would say the person with the partner is more at fault though (obviously if the person who they cheated with thought they were single as well they shouldn't be blamed either)

Originally Posted by the truth (Post 9552355)

I disagree. Theyre both equally at fault. The only grey area possibly would be if he told her a pack of lies about his situation. we always seems to excuse the women on this site, the excuses are endless, she was clearly a home wrecker

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552326)

I would say the person with the partner is more at fault though (obviously if the person who they cheated with thought they were single as well they shouldn't be blamed either)

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552360)

It doesn't matter whether it's a man or woman, which ever one is actually in the relationship has to be worse imo they're the ones betraying a loved one but I agree that if the person they cheat with knows they're taken then it doesn't say alot about their character

Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9552361)

I disagree totally Niamh. If that was the case we could all just decide to go after whomever we want whether they're married or not just because we're single?

Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9552362)

So if your best mate went after your partner you wouldn't have any problem with her?

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552366)

You obviously aren't reading me posts fully. I said that the person with the partner was more at fault, I didn't say there was nothing wrong with going after a person with a partner



Of course I would, she's supposed to be my friend, god knows how you came to that conclusion from what I posted :worry: I kind of said the total opposite to that

Originally Posted by _baileys_ (Post 9552371)

I have to be honest I just hope she doesn't do the
(complaining) 'I am confused must back off don't want to hurt anyone'
kiss chad - get into bed with chad - snuggle with chad
(changes her mind again) then back to:-

(back to complaining) 'I am confused must back off don't want to hurt anyone'
kiss chad - get into bed with chad - snuggle with chad
and repeat .. if we have to listen / see her lead him on / toy with his emotions the show will become stale very quickly and she will loose fans

Other than that get in there girl give him a big Snog :D

Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9552375)

That's exactly what she did last night. About 3 times. Did you see the show?

Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9552368)

And I'm saying that there's no hierarchy of cheats. A cheat is a cheat is a cheat.

I don't even know why you would bother trying to put them on a table of blame unless you felt that a single person could do what they want.

Other than to defend Sarah of course.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552383)

oh my god I don't even like Sarah but surely the person who is actually betraying their husband or wife is worse than the person they cheat with who is single? I do think they're not very honourable people if they knew about the husband/wife but it's still not as bad as the one who is not only cheating but also lying to their partner too. Sarah said she thought he was single, if that's really the case then she's not really at fault, is she? But that could be a lie, i have no idea and neither do you really

Originally Posted by _baileys_ (Post 9552378)

yes I did thank you :) but what i mean and probably should have put on the post is 'hope she doesn't do what she did last night again'..

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552383)

oh my god I don't even like Sarah but surely the person who is actually betraying their husband or wife is worse than the person they cheat with who is single? I do think they're not very honourable people if they knew about the husband/wife but it's still not as bad as the one who is not only cheating but also lying to their partner too. Sarah said she thought he was single, if that's really the case then she's not really at fault, is she? But that could be a lie, i have no idea and neither do you really

Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9552393)

Yeah, I can't bear another night of roundabouts.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552383)

oh my god I don't even like Sarah but surely the person who is actually betraying their husband or wife is worse than the person they cheat with who is single? I do think they're not very honourable people if they knew about the husband/wife but it's still not as bad as the one who is not only cheating but also lying to their partner too. Sarah said she thought he was single, if that's really the case then she's not really at fault, is she? But that could be a lie, i have no idea and neither do you really

Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9552392)

We'll have to agree to disagree so, I like most others believe both are just as bad as each other.

I don't believe that she thought Danny Dyer was single, I'm not an Okay magazine reader and yet I've known about Danny Dyer for years. As people who mix in celebrity circles they would both have known the story with the other.

Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9552392)

We'll have to agree to disagree so, I like most others believe both are just as bad as each other.

I don't believe that she thought Danny Dyer was single, I'm not an Okay magazine reader and yet I've known about Danny Dyer for years. As people who mix in celebrity circles they would both have known the story with the other.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9552360)

It doesn't matter whether it's a man or woman, which ever one is actually in the relationship has to be worse imo they're the ones betraying a loved one but I agree that if the person they cheat with knows they're taken then it doesn't say alot about their character

Originally Posted by the truth (Post 9552548)

so by that logic, are you saying sarah is a bad person and far more responsible than chad for this situation, to kiss chad when she is in a relationship?