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Vicky. 25-01-2018 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by DemolitionRed (Post 9819968)
If I knew I was going to be given a black dress to wear, I would assume I needed dark underwear which wouldn't show through. If any asked, I suspect they were given that as a reason and it could of been a very valid reason.

It was clearly a night of sexual provocation and lewdness; why else would it be a men only event with only young slim scantily clad females. The company that employed these women need taking to task.

As for the men who attended, they probably did believe these women to be high class escorts. I'm sure though, some of those men were there solely for the charity event and didn't have any interaction with a girl in a black dress.

Well it seems every one of them who have been spoken to about this 'left early' and had absolutely no idea any of this was going on. Of course :hehe:

Kazanne 25-01-2018 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9818808)
Blaming the women for being groped bloody hell

I'm not blaming them :shrug: I said I wondered why they did it,first grope I'de be out the door ,I never blamed them at all:nono:

Kazanne 25-01-2018 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9819765)
The women were hired as hostesses, I'm not sure if I was hired as a hostess I'd be expecting to have my arse felt. I think once they were there, there was a pressure on them, they'd been paid (although not much in real terms) so there was a kind of contract. I imagine the girls were young... it must have been a scary experience. . If it was me you and Niamh, we'd have torn several of them them a new arsehole, I'm sure. But they were young girls out of their depth. And I'm sure a lot of the tossers that were there that night have daughters around the same age.

Thankyou Livia and you are right they would have had my size 5s up their arses:laugh::laugh:

DemolitionRed 25-01-2018 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9820324)
Well it seems every one of them who have been spoken to about this 'left early' and had absolutely no idea any of this was going on. Of course :hehe:

I'm not saying nobody was aware of what was going on but its not fair to say everyone revelled in it (though I could be wrong). Gay men wouldn't be interested in young sexy women and some men in loving relationships may of just gone along to make bids on the auction. What I'm saying is, we can't tar every bloke who went to that event as a sexual deviant. We can probably say it was quite a lot of them, but I doubt it was all of them.

DemolitionRed 25-01-2018 04:18 PM

Here's a question...

How would you feel if that was your male partner that had been to that event?
Would you tackle him about it?
Divorce him?
Lose trust in him?

Vicky. 25-01-2018 04:19 PM

Oh of course it wasn't every single one of them. Though, if they had been previous years they surely knew what to expect.

Just funny how they ALL seem to have left early and had no idea. Not predictable at all :D

Vicky. 25-01-2018 04:22 PM

How would you feel if that was your male partner that had been to that event? - Pretty pissed off with him.
Would you tackle him about it? - Of course.
Divorce him? - Bit much no? :laugh: if it turned out he had been the sleaze that asked one of the girls to take her knickers off and dance on the table though, most likely.
Lose trust in him? - Probably.

But I really really doubt my husband would stay at such an event. He has left stag dos early rather than go to strip/lapdancing clubs as he says its all just disgusting how some people think womens bodies are there to be sold :shrug: I agree with him tbh. I don't really blame the women for selling it, when its in demand and they are in need of a job, but I find it thoroughly depressing that there are so many buyers :(

Alf 25-01-2018 05:00 PM

I'd be delighted to get paid for getting slapped on the arse by a room full of women.

Where do I sign up?

DemolitionRed 25-01-2018 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Alf (Post 9820469)
I'd be delighted to get paid for getting slapped on the arse by a room full of women.

Where do I sign up?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYoa0Xi8qo4

arista 25-01-2018 11:03 PM

[Labour peer sacked from front bench over Presidents Club event attendance]

Lord Mendelsohn has been asked to "step back" as spokesman for business and international trade after his attendance at the event.

https://news.sky.com/story/labour-pe...dance-11222620

https://e3.365dm.com/18/01/1096x616/...20180125231200

Alf 26-01-2018 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 9822134)
[Labour peer sacked from front bench over Presidents Club event attendance]

Lord Mendelsohn has been asked to "step back" as spokesman for business and international trade after his attendance at the event.

https://news.sky.com/story/labour-pe...dance-11222620

https://e3.365dm.com/18/01/1096x616/...20180125231200

So what's his crime, attending a charity event? Or is there something else he's done?

It's sounding like a witch hunt.

thesheriff443 26-01-2018 02:25 AM

Like everything in life this story is not black and white.
Some of those that where there would be escort girls and would get hundreds even thousands for sex and thats why they where there.

Some women!will shag a stranger not for money but for sex just like men!

Women sell pussy men buy pussy, that wont stop.

the charities should of kept the money, the police sieze money and assets from the proceeds of crime and use the money to fight crime so giving the money back is stupid in my opinion.

Ammi 26-01-2018 06:18 AM

..thing is though, sheriff ..it feels that maybe the ‘hundreds or thousands’ may have played a part in it as well in that escorts weren’t hired...those who would be more experienced in the deflection of sleazy behaviour and such disrespect...many of the young ladies were students for instance.. and why would that be..?..because they were cheaper, maybe..?..£150 for all those hours, how lovely...so they didn’t have to pay those hundreds and thousands for so many hours ‘work’, so another indication of the low worth attached to it all as well...oh we want young attractive, sexy ladies but we want them As cheap as possiblel....actually that wasn’t their decision I have to say...that came from those who ‘employed’ them...but the whole thing obviously is just ugggh/sleazy/grim etc because some of those men in their men only charity event were prepared to pay high sums in the auction for things and yet they didn’t question how a young lady would be there../..how had that come about, ask questions etc and actually treat a young lady as a person to question these things, rather than just a sexual object wearing black.../...what do you do for a living etc...


...anyway, I’m not really sold on the ‘I had no idea’, maybe that was the case with some but I feel that many probably did know with an event that has been running for many years and especially with those who have personally attended many or most of those years...it feels more a bit like...well, I didn’t actively participate as such, but I was aware of or suspected but I just turned a blind eye or didn’t question because I wasn’t doing it myself...which would make them not really ‘innocent’ as such with their observance of such disrespect and low value that was being placed on these young ladies...and I’m sure that ‘blind eye’ would have been a bit more reluctant, had it been something similar with their own daughters or granddaughters....also the venue itself, surely staff may have oobserved over the years but it’s only been outed now... so maybe ‘blind eyes’ there as well...anyways, good it’s all been exposed but a shame the charities may suffer because of completely inappropriate and disrespectful behaviour from some who had felt more like ‘patrons’ and supporters to them...

thesheriff443 26-01-2018 07:28 AM

Taking big spending clients out of which most are men with families by middle management and again men with families using the company's credit card often include trips to strip clubs.
We talk about men with daughters and how would they feel if it was their daughters, but girls date men old enough to be their father.

More awareness in schools like lessons on this subject and mothers telling their daughters that it is not acceptable.

jaxie 26-01-2018 07:54 AM

Objectifying women at its best. It makes you wonder what other little clubs and events are doing this kind of thing under the surface.

I'd be appalled if Mr Jaxie went to such an event. I wouldn't be living with a man who was likely to behave in that way with women young enough to be his daughter. Luckily Mr Jaxie prefers to go out with me and spend time in my company.

Livia 26-01-2018 10:18 AM

I'm kind of surprised that David Walliams seems to have got away with this untarnished... while anyone connected to the political parties are, quite rightly, being given a hard time. He says he didn't see anything and left when he'd finished "presenting". Hmmmm...

user104658 26-01-2018 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9822672)
I'm kind of surprised that David Walliams seems to have got away with this untarnished... while anyone connected to the political parties are, quite rightly, being given a hard time. He says he didn't see anything and left when he'd finished "presenting". Hmmmm...

Well... he's married to a model who is 12 years younger than him. It's not THAT surprising ...

Livia 26-01-2018 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 9822677)
Well... he's married to a model who is 12 years younger than him. It's not THAT surprising ...

Was married... you mean.

Whatever.. he creeps me right out.

Niamh. 26-01-2018 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9822680)
Was married... you mean.

Whatever.. he creeps me right out.

me too, there was always something I found very off putting about him

Livia 26-01-2018 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9822681)
me too, there was always something I found very off putting about him

My Mum can't be in the room while he's on the telly. She's the same with Keith Lemon lol...

Niamh. 26-01-2018 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9822684)
My Mum can't be in the room while he's on the telly. She's the same with Keith Lemon lol...

I do find keith funny, sorry :laugh: But keith Lemon isn't a real person just a character, what's Walliams excuse?

arista 26-01-2018 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9822672)
I'm kind of surprised that David Walliams seems to have got away with this untarnished... while anyone connected to the political parties are, quite rightly, being given a hard time. He says he didn't see anything and left when he'd finished "presenting". Hmmmm...

Yes
TV and Radio have been pointing DW out
today.

But the after party "was reported"
to have real hookers (sex workers)
going in, much later.


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