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chuff me dizzy 01-02-2018 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by poppsywoppsy (Post 9841807)
Yes gay people have their difficulties

Old people have their difficulties

Disabled people have their difficulties

Mentally ill people have their difficulties

Cancer sufferers have more than their fair share of difficulties


But who are the ones making most noise about theirs?

:clap1:

joeysteele 01-02-2018 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 9841805)
Really Joey you are claiming millenials have closed minds? I think it would be very rare, we are talking about brothers and sisters in their 20s on this thread, not parents, bringing in an older generation is just muddying the waters on your behalf

Yes Cherie I am saying that exactly.
If you think it is still all a rosy experience for all,you are sadly mistaken.

As I said easy to scoff,and dismiss too it seems from your reaction.

Vicky. 01-02-2018 05:50 PM

Quite sure Amanda would not give a crap about being a 'LGBT champion'

hijaxers 01-02-2018 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by poppsywoppsy (Post 9841807)
Yes gay people have their difficulties

Old people have their difficulties

Disabled people have their difficulties

Mentally ill people have their difficulties

Cancer sufferers have more than their fair share of difficulties


But who are the ones making most noise about theirs?

OMG - a whole audience full of :clap1:

chuff me dizzy 01-02-2018 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9841820)
Quite sure Amanda would not give a crap about being a 'LGBT champion'

She's a nice lady she doesn't need a label to hide behind

Twosugars 01-02-2018 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9841820)
Quite sure Amanda would not give a crap about being a 'LGBT champion'

I quite agree. I think she is one of those for quiet life no matter what.

poppsywoppsy 01-02-2018 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 9841829)
I quite agree. I think she is one of those for quiet life no matter what.

Far better than throwing her toys out of the pram for any perceived slight

The lady is quite right.

rionablue 01-02-2018 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 9841607)
God knows what Amanda got an gay icon award for :shrug: A lesbian wet dream?

Andrew is not even gay, but he can see that gay rights fight is still relevant and worthy cause

Andrew's sister, Bex, has this to say:



Go Courtney, go Andrew! final push for the win :cheer2:

Trying to keep him relevant

Cherie 01-02-2018 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9841817)
Yes Cherie I am saying that exactly.
If you think it is still all a rosy experience for all,you are sadly mistaken.

As I said easy to scoff,and dismiss too it seems from your reaction.

I don't believe you

Vicky. 01-02-2018 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 9841829)
I quite agree. I think she is one of those for quiet life no matter what.

Amanda has lead anything but a quiet life :D :p

I think she would not want a label like this as labels are mostly bollocks tbh

I don't really find this tweet too shocking. Brother in sticking up for sister shocker? Really?

I find the language quite odd if I am honest. 'I identify as a lesbian' rather than just..'I am a lesbian'. What is it with youngsters today and 'identifying as' rather than...being.

chuff me dizzy 01-02-2018 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by rionablue (Post 9841835)
Trying to keep him relevant

After calling an OAP the word he chose too ,he has no relevance

bots 01-02-2018 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9841853)
Amanda has lead anything but a quiet life :D :p

I think she would not want a label like this as labels are mostly bollocks tbh

I don't really find this tweet too shocking. Brother in sticking up for sister shocker? Really?

I find the language quite odd if I am honest. 'I identify as a lesbian' rather than just..'I am a lesbian'. What is it with youngsters today and 'identifying as' rather than...being.

Because it means they can change their minds easier at a later date? That would be my thoughts. Or maybe that's the less "shocking" notification for relatives?

poppsywoppsy 01-02-2018 06:09 PM

Amanda has worked with the best drag queens over the years, I never liked Danny La Rue but he would make mincemeat of Courtney.

It is like Harrods being challenged by Poundland.

chuff me dizzy 01-02-2018 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by poppsywoppsy (Post 9841863)
Amanda has worked with the best drag queens over the years, I never liked Danny La Rue but he would make mincemeat of Courtney.

It is like Harrods being challenged by Poundland.

Couldn't have put that better myself !!

joeysteele 01-02-2018 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Jamie89 (Post 9841721)
Nice to hear, it's amazing how often family members aren't supportive when someone comes out. Guess he's not so bad after all :clap2:

It's so true Jamie.

I know a guy,his Brother won't visit the house of their parents because the Brother who lives there is gay.

I know another who moved out because of rows with his Sister after stating he was gay.

Plus another from an Asian family who has in effect been disowned because he is gay.

Think also about footballers and sports stars really scared to even hint they are gay, for fear of the reaction to same.

Some people who'd deny that could happen today,like to cocoon themselves away from reality as to how difficult it can be for some, to even just approach thinking of daring to say they are gay or lesbian.

Vanessa 01-02-2018 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9841869)
It's so true Jamie.

I know a guy,his Brother won't visit the house of their parents because the Brother who lives there is gay.

I know another who moved out because of rows with his Sister after stating he was gay.

Plus another from an Asian family who has in effect been disowned because he is gay.

Think also about footballers and sports stars really scared to even hint they are gay, for fear of the reaction to same.

Some people who'd deny that could happen today,like to cocoon themselves away from reality as to how difficult it can be for some, to even just approach thinking of daring to say they are gay or lesbian.

Yes, the thing i love most about Andrew is how open minded he is.

Vicky. 01-02-2018 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 9841861)
Because it means they can change their minds easier at a later date? That would be my thoughts. Or maybe that's the less "shocking" notification for relatives?

They could change their minds at a later date anyway though surely.

I am a lesbian. Oh, I have discovered there actually are men I fancy. So I am and always was really bi. Or so on.

Identifying as seems so...wooly :laugh:

hijaxers 01-02-2018 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9841869)
It's so true Jamie.

I know a guy,his Brother won't visit the house of their parents because the Brother who lives there is gay.

I know another who moved out because of rows with his Sister after stating he was gay.

Plus another from an Asian family who has in effect been disowned because he is gay.

Think also about footballers and sports stars really scared to even hint they are gay, for fear of the reaction to same.

Some people who'd deny that could happen today,like to cocoon themselves away from reality as to how difficult it can be for some, to even just approach thinking of daring to say they are gay or lesbian.

I feel very sad for these people , my daughter never told me but i knew for ages, she could have said i was there for her - but - she has always found it difficult to discuss , all i want is for her happiness , it really is !

Jamie89 01-02-2018 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9841869)
It's so true Jamie.

I know a guy,his Brother won't visit the house of their parents because the Brother who lives there is gay.

I know another who moved out because of rows with his Sister after stating he was gay.

Plus another from an Asian family who has in effect been disowned because he is gay.

Think also about footballers and sports stars really scared to even hint they are gay, for fear of the reaction to same.

Some people who'd deny that could happen today,like to cocoon themselves away from reality as to how difficult it can be for some, to even just approach thinking of daring to say they are gay or lesbian.

That's awful, one of my friends comes from quite a strict muslim family and he's actually considered allowing his parents to find him a wife just to not have to come out to them (even though he currently lives with his boyfriend :laugh: ) And another friend of mine's parents kicked him out onto the streets when he came out at 16. I know those are quite extreme cases but yeah it happens, not everyone accepts it. Your example of footballers speaks volumes about society sometimes not being as accepting as people like to think.

bots 01-02-2018 06:24 PM

I have to say that I could identify all the gay children at school with me easily as a naive kid, so it would be a big surprise if parents and siblings were not aware. So i don't see how coming out would be a big shocker for anyone close :shrug:

Paula D 01-02-2018 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 9841732)
so why you care to read and post in this thread? The title said clearly it was about lgbt. So we shove it down your throat and yet you come for more :shrug:
Just ignore it, mate. Or is it the problem that threads supporting lgbt exist at all?

This thread is supporting LGBT?????

By putting Amanda down? Give me a break. All talk of families turning on their siblings but you've no problem turning on Amanda because she's not the "right" type of gay?

Atrocious carry on, should be ashamed.

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hijaxers 01-02-2018 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Paula D (Post 9841897)
This thread is supporting LGBT?????

By putting Amanda down? Give me a break. All talk of families turning on their siblings but you've no problem turning on Amanda because she's not the "right" type of gay?

Atrocious carry on, should be ashamed.

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Thankyou Paula :cheer:

Withano 01-02-2018 06:28 PM

Always seems to be the same 5 or 6 people who get completely agitated at the mere mention of lgbt. Perhaps a show that is largely to do with social interaction isnt for you.

hijaxers 01-02-2018 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9841905)
Always seems to be the same 5 or 6 people who get completely agitated at the mere mention of lgbt. Perhaps a show that is largely to do with social interaction isnt for you.

Not me:fist:

joeysteele 01-02-2018 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by hijaxers (Post 9841881)
I feel very sad for these people , my daughter never told me but i knew for ages, she could have said i was there for her - but - she has always found it difficult to discuss , all i want is for her happiness , it really is !

That's the other side too hijaxers.

I also have come across people who never ever dared say,all their life, they've pretended not to be out of fear,founded or unfounded.
Often too denying themselves any real happiness in their life or relationships.

A little compassion and sensitivity from others rather than scoffing,ridicule and denial that people still struggle to be able to be themselves,would be nice to see and hear.
Sadly some would rather scoff, ridicule and/or deny such is the case.

Thanks for contributing your post to this hijaxers.


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