Porn is fine, we do that with my bf. Watch separately or together :shrug:
Pics/vids send from somebody you know only online is borderline. Depends where it leads. If it leads to sex chat then it is cheating. If it's just for a laugh, comparing etc, then it's fine, no different to a locker room.


This view of porn is a bit outdated. Big studios are losing to amateur porn where real people do it for fun and extra income. It's better, not as robotic and chances of exploitation are lower.

Yeah anything interactive and sexting is cheating /borderline . And obviously keeping rude videos and photo's of someone they know on their computer or phone is also immoral & weird .

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Ha. Yeah, that's definitely a more masculine POV. :laugh: "What are you doing with a picture of your friend's t!ts on your phone!?" "Oh, that was only for the lulz, honey..."

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1. No
2. Yes
3. Yes it's ok regardless :joker:

Far from unfaithful IMO. The only way it would be unfaithful to me is if the person had some kind of personal relationship with the pornstar I think... but even then ehhh it's only just bordering "cheating"

Eh it's kinda close but different. That would mean the person actually knows the one sending them nudes and has/had been talking to them in some form. Plus in porn it's acting out a script for media/entertainment as well - in a non-personal/non-private way.

Past history with someone - too distressing to talk about still.

You are incorrect there Riley sorry.

Lol ofc not.

Obviously if you're sat next to them and they want to have a bounce and you're like "Nah hun. Want to see this twink get gangbanged instead" it'd be a bit weird. But the concept isn't immoral in my eyes.

I don't mean to assume here 2S but I'm not sure how much "straight porn" you've actually watched? The main problems lie within amateur porn and that's where the vast majority of exploitation occurs. Studio porn was a career. Yes there were obviously addiction problems etc. in that industry too but the stars were paid very well and there were strict hygiene and health standards. In grainy amateur porn, most of the girls who are being ****ed on camera whilst looking a bit sad and uncomfortable and being paid a couple of hundred dollars at most for it are spending that cash on drugs, and often come from backgrounds of serious abuse. There are no regulations and its almost always without condoms.

There is a SMALL amount of ethical porn where the people doing it are genuinely happy and simply very open and extrovert for their own properly considered reasons but we're talking like 1% of the porn you'll find online here. The massive rate of ex porn stars talking about how unhappy they were should be a huge indicator. And that's the recognisable ones / big names... I can only imagine how the ones who already look like they're trying not to cry whilst one guy gives them a prolapse and another cums up their nose for a one off payday feel about it afterwards.

And THAT only goes into porn actually made in the US / UK etc... A huge amount of porn online is Southern American, Eastern European, and East Asian. Are we really going to pretend that these people are having fun?

Meh. Don't get me wrong I used to watch plenty of porn when I was younger. One day I just sort of realised how horrendously depressing it actually is.

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Screaming @ the amount of votes I didn't think there were even 30 people left on the forum

Like 20 of them are Nicky on other accounts. And three are Brillo.

You got any hard statistics to verify that statement?

I don't think it is. It's a bit silly to get upset by someone watching porn and ridiculous to act like it's cheating.

Thank the lord for porn!

Well, no both are stranger.

Swapping nudes on an app doesn't mean you know them.

But the apps are used to sift though who you do or don't want to meet. And there is the opportunity there to take it further... now if my partner reached out to a porn star they were obsessed with... that would also be concerning.

Yeah, agree with this :clap1:

Just sounds like rampant insecurity to me.

I think mixing up porn with sites where you interact with people via nudes or video is simply muddying the waters to falsely give the porn=cheating angle made up weight. Watching a video of porn stars going at it is not the same as pursuing someone and interacting with them sexually online.

To verify my personal opinion? :think: Yes actually I've just done an exhaustive poll. Every Toy Soldier from TiBB was asked to verify that this is Toy Soldier from TiBB's personal opinion, and 100% of respondents said "Yes" :omgno:. Pretty conclusive stuff there doc.

My point is that they are clearly two different things.... and that's where the line is drawn between cheating and not cheating

Yeah, but how far is someone with a partner going to take it with a stranger on an app. Sex/nudes concerning strangers, obviously porn is purely consumed through a screen, but so is a large percentage of the nudes culture who never actually meet. With the progression of technology I think the lines are blurring.