Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10370798)

'It's not that bad! He only got thrown to the floor! The totally-not-a-bully-because-i-say-so could have punched or stamped on him as well BUT HE DIDN'T!! It's obviously just two lads having a fight! The white person isn't to blame!'

I would never find you a problem, the problem is that you're vindicating the bully by making out that he isn't a bully and you're trying to push an utter bull**** story of this incident being a fight thus blaming the victim in part for his own abuse. All you've done is basically victim blame and normalise and when that's failed you've tried to erase the story by making out that it shouldn't be a story. It's a story, deal with it and stop defending bullying because at this point it's fairly obvious that is what you are doing given that you have not said one word in condemnation towards the bully's actions but you've done a lot to try to balance things using a ****ed up scale to put as much blame at the victim's feet as his bully.

It's ****ed up and I will call you out on it.