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Cherie 29-09-2022 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214691)
Not really what I said. I said they can't empathise truly if they have not lived it - they can sympathise but not empathise. The difference with Marcus is he has lived it so can empathise. He has also raised more than 20 million for charity that help child poverty so he is not just enjoying trappings of wealth, he gives an awful lot back.

I started by saying that it always seems hollow from those who have not experienced what they are talking about - that's it. I actually said I believe Kate truly means the sentiments and is coming from a good place but it seems a little hollow. That's it.

Is that actually true though? are you saying we can't emphatise with rape victims or domestic abuse or a child who has been abused because it is not our lived experience?

Cherie 29-09-2022 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11214680)
Marcus hasn't just spoke about it though, he's been really active in raising money and actually getting children fed

so you don't think Kate has raised awarenness?

Crimson Dynamo 29-09-2022 12:15 PM

If just 10,000 people gave £200 today to a foodbank then in one day

then 2 million pounds would have been raised

and all stemming from the generosity of the Princess Kate

Now that really is compassion in Action

:love:

AnnieK 29-09-2022 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11214737)
Is that actually true though? are you saying we can't emphatise with rape victims or domestic abuse or a child who has been abused because it is not our lived experience?

I believe it to be true. I can't empathise with a rape victim because i haven't experienced it. I can sympathise and feel truly sorry for what they been through but I have no idea real understanding of how that would make you feel

Doesn't mean I'm a bad person - but hand on heart I can't look at them and say "I know what you're going through" because I don't. I can say - "I'm sorry for what you are going through" - empathy / sympathy

Just my opinion

jet 29-09-2022 12:36 PM

This thread is nuts.

“How dare anyone who hasn't lived a dirt poor background show concern and support for those in poverty!” The patronising feckers!

Imo, as long as the person is doing it for the right reasons, are genuine and not doing it to seek attention and boost their own profile, then to me the extra injection of help and support a prominent and admired person brings to the charities coffers is a great thing.

I guess some would rather the charities lost out though! Listen to yourselves!

jet 29-09-2022 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214747)
I believe it to be true. I can't empathise with a rape victim because i haven't experienced it. I can sympathise and feel truly sorry for what they been through but I have no idea real understanding of how that would make you feel

Doesn't mean I'm a bad person - but hand on heart I can't look at them and say "I know what you're going through" because I don't. I can say - "I'm sorry for what you are going through" - empathy / sympathy

Just my opinion

You don't have to totally feel it to give up your time to visit and help out a charity or click on a donation button. You just have to care.

Cherie 29-09-2022 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214747)
I believe it to be true. I can't empathise with a rape victim because i haven't experienced it. I can sympathise and feel truly sorry for what they been through but I have no idea real understanding of how that would make you feel

Doesn't mean I'm a bad person - but hand on heart I can't look at them and say "I know what you're going through" because I don't. I can say - "I'm sorry for what you are going through" - empathy / sympathy

Just my opinion

We will have to agree to disagree on that one, I can imagine what it is like to win the lottery for instance I don't need to have won to know how it would make me feel :laugh:

Cherie 29-09-2022 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11214686)
I worked with her father at the Airport...Kates mother was a stewardess. It was their business that bought them wealth by which time I think their children were early teens...so Kate did start her life in a humble background.

Yeah I thought that was the case, thanks Rusti

jet 29-09-2022 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11214686)
I worked with her father at the Airport...Kates mother was a stewardess. It was their business that bought them wealth by which time I think their children were early teens...so Kate did start her life in a humble background.

Yep, I believe that Kate's mother came from a family of miners and builders. Her parents worked very hard to build their successful business.

Niamh. 29-09-2022 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11214739)
so you don't think Kate has raised awarenness?

Awareness of what? That poor people need food? Poor people exist? If you read those comments after the article you'll see people are very much aware!

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 11214750)
This thread is nuts.

How dare anyone who hasn't lived a dirt poor background show concern and support for those in poverty!” The patronising feckers!

Imo, as long as the person is doing it for the right reasons, are genuine and not doing it to seek attention and boost their own profile, then to me the extra injection of help and support a prominent and admired person brings to the charities coffers is a great thing.

I guess some would rather the charities lost out though! Listen to yourselves!

Not one person has said either of those comments. That is just literally putting words into people's mouths on this thread.

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11214757)
We will have to agree to disagree on that one, I can imagine what it is like to win the lottery for instance I don't need to have won to know how it would make me feel :laugh:

Do you though? I honestly don't. I think it would make me happy but I don't know how that happiness will feel because I haven't ever won it :laugh:

Niamh. 29-09-2022 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214778)
Do you though? I honestly don't. I think it would make me happy but I don't know how that happiness will feel because I haven't ever won it :laugh:

I won €100 on a scratch card that my brother gave me for my birthday the other day (actually €108 over all but €100 on 1) I have to say it feels amazing :hee:

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 11214754)
You don't have to totally feel it to give up your time to visit and help out a charity or click on a donation button. You just have to care.

Again - who said you did have to feel it to donate? I am sure an awful lot of people, me included, make regular donations to charities that we feel strongly about. Don't understand your point there.

Crimson Dynamo 29-09-2022 01:07 PM

And note Rashford was conspicuous by his absence at that vital Welsh foodbank and being injured he had no excuse

:rolleyes:

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11214779)
I won €100 on a scratch card that my brother gave me for my birthday the other day (actually €108 over all but €100 on 1) I have to say it feels amazing :hee:

I remember though Pyramid years ago on here saying she had won a significant amount of money - and she hated it. She felt it was cursed money and if she had the choice she would not have won it.

I would worry that I would feel proper paranoid if I won big - even if you keep it anonymous, I reckon if I suddenly swapped my car for a supercar and my house for a mansion people who click on :laugh: I'd be paranoid someone would try and kidnap my family or something

Obviously - talking millions there. I'd be splashing the cash if I won £100 :laugh:

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11214781)
And note Rashford was conspicuous by his absence at that vital Welsh foodbank and being injured he had no excuse

:rolleyes:

He was probably at one in Manchester :fist:

Niamh. 29-09-2022 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214783)
I remember though Pyramid years ago on here saying she had won a significant amount of money - and she hated it. She felt it was cursed money and if she had the choice she would not have won it.

I would worry that I would feel proper paranoid if I won big - even if you keep it anonymous, I reckon if I suddenly swapped my car for a supercar and my house for a mansion people who click on :laugh: I'd be paranoid someone would try and kidnap my family or something

Obviously - talking millions there. I'd be splashing the cash if I won £100 :laugh:

I would move to Italy so no one would know the difference

https://media0.giphy.com/media/TJaGS...=200w.gif&ct=g

Crimson Dynamo 29-09-2022 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214784)
He was probably at one in Manchester :fist:

cheeky git he can easily afford to shop at even Waitrose

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11214788)
I would move to Italy so no one would know the difference

https://media0.giphy.com/media/TJaGS...=200w.gif&ct=g

If you suddenly announce you're living in Italy now - we'll all know. :laugh:

Niamh. 29-09-2022 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214802)
If you suddenly announce you're living in Italy now - we'll all know. :laugh:

https://media4.giphy.com/media/YWy8p...=200w.gif&ct=g

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11214803)

https://c.tenor.com/MkhhvzatJEAAAAAM...h-laughing.gif

GoldHeart 29-09-2022 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214778)
Do you though? I honestly don't. I think it would make me happy but I don't know how that happiness will feel because I haven't ever won it :laugh:

Exactly
And until any of us are in these situations,we will never truly know .

AnnieK 29-09-2022 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11214789)
cheeky git he can easily afford to shop at even Waitrose

Like we have Waitrose in Manchester :laugh:

jet 29-09-2022 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11214776)
Not one person has said either of those comments.

Not in those exact words, no. :think:


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