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Okay, listen, QB, do you want to share some of these bad-experience examples re. Samaritans with us on this thread? I’m not interested in having another argument, even if we do fundamentally disagree on the distribution of certain information. We’re just going to have to agree to disagree on that one but I get the impression that you have stories to tell, and I’m piqued. I know Samaritans isn’t perfect and I wasn’t extolling them to superhuman standards anyway. Just talking about the importance of keeping things in-house but there’s obviously nothing I can say to get you to change your mind on that one.
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Not sure if my opinion would be valid here as I’m not married but if I were to tell someone a secret who was married, I would absolutely assume that they would tell their partner as well.
I think one key thing to a stable marriage is trust and the ability to confide in one another with the strictest confidence that it would not be discussed with anyone else other than each other. However I would feel very betrayed if I were to confide in someone who was married, about something that was very sensitive to me and not to be discussed with anyone else, for that information to be spread to other people. I would feel very hurt and be unable to trust that person again. I would like to think however that I’m a good judge of character and I’d think very carefully before I said such private information to someone especially if they were married. I think some couples whether they’re married or not, thrive on gossip and kinda get a kick out of making others feel miserable out of jealousy. |
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Like I say tho, some couples do thrive on jealousy. In this instance I wouldn’t say private things to these types of people because I would feel that they wouldn’t keep it between themselves and would use it against you. I would like to think that I’m clever enough to suss these people out but some people can be very devious and do things like this that you would never expect. |
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Not married but I'd most probably always tell my partner any "secrets" even if the friend asked me not to
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I tell him most things ,but wouldn't tell him secrets that my best friends have told me,unless it something where he is mentioned.
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