The difference of course is that you just wouldn't act on it because you're in a relationship

Exactly


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Apparently because someone made a pass at someone and then found that same someone oogling Pedo Pascal in the Hot Guys thread. :shrug:

aw I have a wee crush on Ben myself even though I am straight and married, its his chutney making skills that draw me in :laugh:

:shocked::shocked::shocked:

Same here. He's a bit of alright :blush:

Plus he has my number one quality in a person, which is humour.

Well you wouldn’t do that and upset your loved one ..


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Why can't you do that. You've all been sayings it's ok unless you act on it.

I guess the upstream question is...

are you in a relationship and when you masturbate do you think about other people?



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I haven’t


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Because ogling someone walking down the street is disrespectful and rude to that person and rude and disrespectful to your partner too

My Mom and Dad would never have stayed together if they got bothered by things like this.:laugh:

…yeah for sure, a relationship is built on trust as a foundation and ‘you can’t look at other people and appreciate their attractive qualities’ isn’t a mindset that places trust…it feels very much the opposite and placed on mistrust of a partner…

That's my belief too.

If you're in a really happy one, there's not much cause or opportunity to masturbate. :hehe:

It's extremely blinkered and a touch controlling to expect your partner to not find others attractive. Theor is certainly no harm in finding a celebrity physically attractive.....considering the chance of you ever meeting them is ridiculously low.

Agreed.

Stop flirting with me! :fist:


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not Ben doing a Nathan 360

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Don’t or I’ll get told off again.

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