I'm in deep doodoo then if that's classed as homophobic...crikey..

It would have been so much different if culture club were shite.

Who?

First of all, she’s a lesbian.

Second of all, if anyone in there fancies that cretin they need their head examined. He’s vile.

Gay people can fancy straight people, the same way straight people can fancy gay people. You can't help who you fancy at times. Doesn't mean it's gonna happen. But to say a person of a certain sexual orientation is immune to fancying someone of a different orientation is ridiculous.

Shes a woman first, and she can bloomin well change back anytime she wants. Are you, as a gay man going to deny this woman her right of choice?

She’s perfectly happy with fancying women. She’s stated she’s a lesbian, if she felt she could “change back” she would label herself as bi but she didn’t. Not everyone has to fancy Khaled the way you do, it’s okay.

What if he did fancy Khaled? Khaled is a good looking bloke. Bit of a narrow minded take honestly.

How many lesbians have you known that have suddenly decided they fancy men? If people of specific sexual orientations felt it possible they would label themselves as bisexual, bicurious or even pansexual. The way people on here are so fixated on her apparently fancying the men she’s found a dislike for just to use it as a way to invalidate her sexual orientation is what’s ridiculous. Do you go around saying to any straight person you meet when they tell you they categorically could not fancy someone of the same gender that they’re ridiculous for believing so?

She can still change back whenever she wants.:shrug:

Even in a pressure cooker atmosphere when emotions are all over the place.

What’s narrow minded is that he presumed my own sexual orientation because I defended a lesbian by saying she wouldn’t fancy someone like Marcello. Are you gonna call that out?

I dont think she fancies any men in the house, which i've stated elsewhere. But are you seriously saying a gay person is immune to fancying a straight person, or vice versa?

Gender and sexuality are 2 very different things. Stop attempting to blur the lines.

If she proclaimed that she was bisexual she could “change back” but she didn’t. She said it very clearly that she has never felt more like herself or right within herself until she discovered that she doesn’t actually fancy men but is a LESBIAN.

I didn't presume anything tyvm.

I don't think she fancies Marcello, no. I don't think she fancies Khaled either. She has said she was with men before coming out, so i guess you could ask the question in general. But yes, agreed, if you're a lesbian, you fancy women, that's fair. Just like in my previous reply to you, being gay, or straight, wont stop someone fancying you.

Tell me where I blurred the lines between gender and sexuality? I asked if you say the same thing about it being possible for a straight person to fancy someone of the same sex… which would mean fancying a man… therefore they wouldn’t be straight.

A straight person is very clearly immune to fancying a gay person, yes. Otherwise they wouldn’t call themselves gay. They can appreciate someone is good looking, doesn’t mean they have any sexual attraction to that person.

Edit: thanks for pointing out my mistake.

It's not about wanting to hook up with marcello anyway. It's just simply, a does she fancy him question.

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Absolutely no way is that true. A straight man can, and has been smitten with a lesbian in history. The same way a gay guy would be smitten with a straight guy. No, it wont happen, but we can't help who we fall for or/and fancy.

This is my point of you blurring the lines. You are saying gay guys are immune from fancying, or falling for straight guys, and again, vice versa.

I do apologise.

I totally mis read your previous post I quoted. First time I read it, I thought I and that other poster were the 2 old guys, but it was Schofield and hew.

I got a bit defensive.

Are you being serious? I have not once stated that a gay man can’t fancy a straight man. I said a straight man wouldn’t be straight if he fancies or is sexually attracted to another man. He is at the very least bi or bi curious

But you are :shrug:

You literally just said a gay person is immune from fancying a straight person.

It works both ways too, a straight person is fully NOT immune of fancying a gay person.

I think she is jealous of him far more

Straight people need to stay in their lane with this ****.