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Originally Posted by Niamh.
(Post 11571539)
Totally disagree here. Yes they're both flirting, the issue though is Segun was going around telling people that it's Hanah that's always coming over to him and he does nothing which isn't true at all. Hanah has never said anything like that about him. And she wasn't throwing him under the bus, I think she took, what must have been quite an upsetting thing to hear from people she trusts, extremely well. She was actually really nice to Segun when they spoke. It was his reactions that were a bit hilarious [emoji23]
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I think it's more complex than that. Hanah is,
rightfully, taking advantage of the prophetic ministries of her bestie. (Who sounded very interesting on L&L, btw. I've love to know more about their relationship.)
I'm sure Hanah knows after spending weeks with Segun that his highest form of English is literally waffle. No one seems to be confused about that re: Segun in the house.
He doesn't even deny their chemistry, but wants his private thoughts to remain speculative. That would be fair if the relationship were on the outside and progressing at a much more casual pace. However, he's a complete simpleton if he thinks that doesn't come across in any number of ways on camera.
He's ducking admitting anything to the speculation when being confronted about their relationship, because just like Hanah, the speculations were a convenience for the sake of camera time as long as they just stay speculation...
I don't believe Hanah wasn't conscious of how their relationship was coming across on the cameras, as if it weren't ambiguous. I don't believe that for a minute about Segun, either. I just think they were making the most out of the experience, whatever it ends up being. There's nothing wrong with that.
What's changed is they're at the end of it, Segun has won 10K in self-pity bucks fresh out of the prize fund, and the "showmance" has run its full course. So it's like both are tossing a ticking bomb back and forth hoping it won't blow up in their own faces because they're obviously both incredibly concerned how it makes each of them look, for whatever reason.
Obviously, if Segun had admitted feelings, that would've got her off the hook. But Hanah knew there was "another girl" on the outside and she's been rather physically affectionate with him, stroking his ear and the like, despite this (her choice whoever initiated it), so she doesn't want to bear the full responsibility for that. That's fair. But her behavior was anything but innocent... but it
was harmless... so for me, it's complex :shrug:
I think they're both talking crap atm. I don't think of Hanah as a mug or a fool. I don't think Segun is as confused as he portrays himself to be.
I think she's a very intelligent lady and is playing the game and giving Segun a run for his money (literally) and she's not wrong for that. It's complicated, but I'm not giving Hanah a full pass... I think she's well aware of Ali's popularity and personality as the victim wrangler and it's all too obvious to me that she's going for the win. I can't blame her, she could lose 90K all over a man who can't figure himself out... her friend's warning is basically that, put him and his waffle to the side and focus on why she is actually in there.