There is no such thing as queer, it's a made up term to capture a slur from 20 years ago. "We can say this word but you can't"

:facepalm:

Lol

I can't recall her saying she was pondering her relationship, I recall her saying she thought she was non binary, but as I understood it leaving Kath made her realise how much she loved her and she was looking forward to her coming from Aus for the final....but I could have missed it

Not even waiting until they’re back at the hotel and doing it surrounded by everyone is diabolical, especially considering they’d flown for 24 hours to be there

Yeah bit disappointed that she would do that tbh, even if she was having doubts, quiet surprised as well as she came across as quite grounded on the show

Agree

It always involves a bit of projection, doesn't it. They're not the kind of people I would take life advice from.

How true Maru

Full video of her partner talking about being dumped:


Notes:


-Kath says she didn't expect that a reality show would be real (lol) and thought she was maybe watching fiction. Turns out what she was watching was truth.

-She felt unsettling, hurtful and felt betrayed by the things she saw.

-She got offline because she couldn't go to her partner.

-The messages she received throughout and before were constant video messages with Jojo having huge admiration and love for her, which "indicated a sense of solidness and trust I chose to believe and get clarify around"

-She thought she'd get on with Jojo in that moment and tell everyone "It's just a TV show. It's all fabricated!" (Wow...)

-She still decided to come as showed up for her partner and hold up her end of the bargain of being in a partner and "being a teammate"

-Instead of it working out as she'd hoped, she said she was dumped at the afterparty with Chris in the next room. She says this part was crazy and starts laughing somewhat.

-"A lot of the things that were depicted were truth.. and I have become collateral in that truth"

-She still chose to believe in her despite all this up until that point

-She says she experienced a version of love-bombing,... particularly being asked to marry them before the social experiment; Being adored throughout behind closed doors"

-She said she feels humiliated... she's not sure it's fact, but that's how she feels... :spin::spin::spin:

-On being dumped; "There were confused feelings there and they had realized in the house they weren't the one they wanted to spend the rest of their life with in the foreseeable future.."

-She didn't see any of this coming

-It took Jojo less than an hour to follow through with dumping her

-She has opinions about Chris but won't say it yet

-Says Jojo said she wants to explore independence and "certain feelings"

-Says she is very tired from all the negativity online, etc. She wasn't "met with love" and it wasn't appreciated that she'd made the effort to fly 24 hrs to be there, instead got lots of anger around things like the letter and not wanting to be on TV... "but it's fine, everyone wants what they want from their relationships"

Pure comedy... she guaranteed it :spin:



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Did I understand that correctly? she was receiving videos from Jo Jo during the show?

Jo Jo has not covered herself in glory here, and anyone still denying that Chris is part of the break up needs to listen to the video ...poor Kath...she has been monumentally betrayed

She was all over the place with some of the descriptions, but I think she meant throughout their relationship she was getting daily videos

Yeah. She's so suspiciously calm though. I'd be worried if I were Chris :laugh:

How on earth does this prove that Mickey was "right" and validate his comments in any way :skull: even if she has dumped her girlfriend for Chris and realised she's bi.

He didn't say "Oh I think you might still be interested in men" he said give HIM four days and he'd turn her straight. Not that 4 days with Chris or another male she liked would catch her interest.

Now don't get me wrong. I don't like Chris much or trust his motives. I think at 32 he's too old for a 21 year old.

But fk me...

He's not a rubber-faced horror show 70+ year old whose taken ten too many blows to the head :skull:. This doesn't vindicate Mickey or his comments in the slightest. Yuck. Gross. Etc.

A word from the past, for sure.


Other youngsters are using that word as a term,
a report on Times Radio DAB, a week back now

Maru
Kath must have said the wrong thing to Jo Jo.
That 13mins video is really sad.

But I would need to know what she said to Jo Jo
then it could make some sense.

On the show I believe Jojo was potentially tipping Chris off at some point about what happens after... can't remember if it was the 48 hour thing or not, but it was something she said and I want to say there were at least two points something suspicious was being said... the breakup was guaranteed, imo.

Was her partner rude to Jojo? Probably. She was disrespectful to her throughout her time in the house with the way she was behaving with Chris. I wouldn't have flown back to the UK at all after having been put through that. Kath was taken for a fool in any number of ways, I think, because she puts a loyalty test over the consideration of whether the relationship is even worth pursuing at that point. I would've congratulated them on their good time with the other person and told them good luck... left it at that.

I hope that Jojo doesn't regret that decision.

She's shockingly playing up to that stereotype.:laugh:

I honestly am dumbfounded.:joker:

You didn't love Chris telling Jojo to "lick it, you freak" because there was a stain on his shorts?

That moment was reminiscent of Romeo & Juliet.

I've never heard of it as a stereotype personally, but some right wing media have picked it up on aspects of it (there are others):

Late to the game here as I only just heard about this. I can't say I'm (we're?) surprised. You could cut the sexual tension between them with a knife while they were in the house.

Regardless, as long as she's happy. She could regret this.

…I don’t think that they’d been together for very long…5/6 months-ish…?…and it seemed to be a long distance relationship as Kath lived in Australia, I think…in the context of the intensity of the BB house it’s strange to think that JoJo might have spent more time with and a closer intensity with Chris …obviously I’m not referring to sexual but in other ways…I don’t know how her relationship with Kath has worked in terms of physical distance…anyway that’s by the by… the timing doesn’t feel great but I hope that it’s what they both wanted and the best decision for them both going forward…

Don't worry, Danny will split up with his partner on Tuesday to steal the headlines back.

I felt there was something weird between jojo and Chris so I'm not surprised if something does happen, however that's. It been confirmed yet has it? Just that she split up with Kath

i would actually say that her partner has had a lucky escape from what could have been much worse

From the video I got
The ex partner goes all into a relationship, probably too much and too quickly
And she has been let down several times before

Expecting a 21 year old to spend their whole life with you after six month is plain stupid