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Noel 08-08-2007 07:09 PM

I shall! Lol. Oj. Thanx for all your advice everyone!

Conzors 08-08-2007 07:18 PM

I think you should tell him your feelings, ( i know thats easier sad than done) and if he respects you,in the way that you respect him, and if he is a really good friend, he will understand.

so i say tell him how you feel,


im not good withg iving people advice though soo..

Noel 08-08-2007 07:19 PM

Lol. But it's not as if I can just ring him and say "I love you" and hang up, is it? IT would be really hard.

Lauren 08-08-2007 07:21 PM

If he's definitely straight, I don't see what you'd get from telling him? I think you should keep it to yourself.

Conzors 08-08-2007 07:22 PM

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Originally posted by Noel
Lol. But it's not as if I can just ring him and say "I love you" and hang up, is it? IT would be really hard.
i see your point,

ummm...

i dont know then

sorry

Billy 08-08-2007 07:24 PM

I dont think you should tell him. If hes straight hes hardly goin to say ok, I know people are saying that if he respects you n stuff it will be fine but people arent all like that. He may get uncomfortable and you could lose any friendship you 2 have

Captain.Remy 08-08-2007 07:24 PM

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Message original : Stu
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Originally posted by sunshine30
I have a friend who is gay and one day he told me what he was feeling for me, I'm straight and I was really surprised, I didn't expect that. I'm really aware with homosexuality, it doesn't matter for me if he's gay or not, I don't mind that. But when he told me that I was confused, embarrassed, it was nothing against him it was really surprising I didn't know what to say or how to react, I didn't want to laugh because he was serious. I said I'm straight and he was just a friend and nothing more. Since we don't talk to each other because we talk less and less.
Make the good choice. :thumbs:
It should be no big deal. Play it off. People cant help their feelings - you should be glad someone in the world liked you - gay or not.
I'm glad because I'm even liked by gay people lol
I completely understand, I'm a decent guy, I was really surprised and confused I didn't know what to think at that moment. He was a good friend but I always asking "when he made me a compliment, is the friend or the lover who's talking ?".
If you have to do it, be really careful I know what I'm talking about. :thumbs:

Captain.Remy 08-08-2007 07:26 PM

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Message original : OfficialSuperstar
I dont think you should tell him. If hes straight hes hardly goin to say ok, I know people are saying that if he respects you n stuff it will be fine but people arent all like that. He may get uncomfortable and you could lose any friendship you 2 have
That's exactly what happened with me, now we don't talk to each other, we aren't angry against each other it's just we took some distance from each other as I know what he was feeling, I didn't want to have any problems with my girlfriend. I respect him a lot and I aprreciate what he said but sometimes even if you are aware or decent, even if you understand, you're feeling embarrassed in front of that situation.

Noel 08-08-2007 07:28 PM

I dont want to lose my friendship with him. I could get my mate to ask him what he would be like if a male friend told him he liked him just to see what his reaction would be.

Billy 08-08-2007 07:30 PM

But if he knows your bi he may click on

Noel 08-08-2007 07:33 PM

I would rather he find out himself than me having him to tell him. Maybe I could keep dropping hints, and if he has any tact, he will put 2 and 2 together and realise.

Emilee 08-08-2007 07:39 PM

hmmm.... This is big! I'm so confused. i dont even know what to say, try talking to him and see how he feels...

Noel 08-08-2007 07:41 PM

I think I have a plan. Mwuahahahaaa!! <<thats an evil laugh by the way. lol.

Emilee 08-08-2007 07:43 PM

^^^ What is it???

Noel 08-08-2007 07:45 PM

Mwuahahaa!! Im gonna come on msn and tell him I like him. And if his reaction is good, then I shall go along with it, but if it isnt, then im gonna go off for a minute then come back on and say that my sis said it. She always comes on and says stuff like that. lol. What ya think?!

Sam 08-08-2007 07:47 PM

I hate to sound mean but i dont think that hardly anyone whos Straight is in a position to give advice, because its hard to be empathetic.

I've been in a similar position before, from my opinion don't tell.. things would only get messy, you can say its better to tell the truth but it isnt,

Emilee 08-08-2007 07:47 PM

oooooh i like it!!! very good idea Noel!!

Noel 08-08-2007 07:48 PM

Well its not mines. Its Sams. ^^^^ lol.

Sam 08-08-2007 07:48 PM

Yeah good idea Noel, good luck with it,

Noel 08-08-2007 07:48 PM

Omg hes online! What do I do!?

Noel 08-08-2007 07:50 PM

Oh wait never mind. He's off again. Grr. lol.

Emilee 08-08-2007 07:50 PM

do it!!!! DO IT!! You'll never know until you try....

Noel 08-08-2007 07:55 PM

I will do it tomorrow. Not now. For some reason i dont wanna now. lol. And I love Misery Business btw! lol.

Sam 08-08-2007 07:56 PM

Good luck with it

Noel 08-08-2007 08:01 PM

Thank yooh Sam!


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