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Christina 04-05-2009 09:39 PM

Well compared to last year it's been much better, although i have to admit it's been horrible without my Nan. Me and mum are still arguing quite bad but other than that life's good! I've made loads of new friends and met new people and i'll be 16 this year and will be going off to the college/sixth form which i've wanted to go to for 5 years now haha and i also got into 3 really good colleges. If i do well in my GCSE's it'll be even better.

Christina 04-05-2009 09:40 PM

And argh Shaun that's terrible, i had no idea about your bro. Hope you're okay :hug:

Sarah. 04-05-2009 09:46 PM

2008 was the best year of my life and now this year, it's like the worst so far. I dropped out of college because I really hated it there, and I can't find a job which annoys me because i need the money so much and i want something to do in my life. i've lost friends over stupid things. the only thing that was keeping me sane was the WWE tour this past April, but it turned out to be horrible. I paid £150 for one ticket to see chris jericho and i traveled 150 miles and stayed over 2 nights in a hotel just to see him, and WWE screwed everything up by putting him on the other show which I wasn't going to. My luck got worse when I was at the hotel the wrestlers were at, and nearly all of them were there, but only a few weren't, and one who wasn't there was Chris. I would've met him if he was there. It was one of the worst nights ever when i found out the whole thing was a waste. so that made this year the worst so far and i just want it to get better.

Christina 04-05-2009 10:33 PM

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Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
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Originally posted by Annie
Bad.

I was living with my boyfriend and I thought things were going well. I found out that while I was in Benidorm last year, he cheated on me and she is now pregnant with his baby. She is due in 4 weeks.
I wanted to try for a baby and was told that because I had been on the pill for too long that it could take 5 years for me to conceive if at all.

I went on the sick at my work through stress because of the whole, someone else is carrying my boyfriends baby situation and then got abuse from my boyfriend for that which made things worse so I started to cut myself to relieve pain from my life. I took an overdose and ended up in hospital for a night and a half and then was told by my boyfriend that I was a nut job.

He stole my car and crashed it when drunk and I paid to pay for all the repairs. He didnt let me see my friends and constantly accused me of cheating on him. I wasnt allowed to go to the toilet one night and he nearly broke my leg from me trying to get out of a room.

Then I leave home, he goes mental and tells my dad everything about me, cutting myself etc. And then i go and see if he is alright last night and he tries to break my neck and has me in a head lock sort of thing and i nearly pass out.

Then today he tells all my friends and family and his family that I am a psyco and that he has left me.

Then my little brother told his school that my dad beats him up which he doesnt cos he wanted attention from someone at school so my brother ran away from home for attention and my dad left my mum because he couldnt handle it all.

My mum is going to have a break down because of everything that is happening with her children and then I find out last week that my birth sister wants nothing to do with me since we got adopted.
bl***y hell Annie, Im so sorry, I didnt know. Is that Matt yeah??
It must be really hard for you. Hope your okay!! :flowers: :sad:
I feel like a complete ****head for not knowing, Im moaning on about my troubles and worries when there nothing!
Ahh same, Annie i had no idea. Here you are sorting out everyone elses problems when really they're nothing compared to yours. I had no idea Matt was like this and i really hope you're okay. If you ever need to chat i'm here too.. sometimes it's best to get things off your chest.. and it can be even easier to do that with someone you don't know. Hope you enjoy your holiday.. once again so soz you don't deserve that :hug: x

SiaSiaSia 04-05-2009 10:48 PM

Shaunnnny ma babi <3 :sad:

SiaSiaSia 04-05-2009 10:49 PM

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Originally posted by sarah.y2j
2008 was the best year of my life and now this year, it's like the worst so far. I dropped out of college because I really hated it there, and I can't find a job which annoys me because i need the money so much and i want something to do in my life. i've lost friends over stupid things. the only thing that was keeping me sane was the WWE tour this past April, but it turned out to be horrible. I paid £150 for one ticket to see chris jericho and i traveled 150 miles and stayed over 2 nights in a hotel just to see him, and WWE screwed everything up by putting him on the other show which I wasn't going to. My luck got worse when I was at the hotel the wrestlers were at, and nearly all of them were there, but only a few weren't, and one who wasn't there was Chris. I would've met him if he was there. It was one of the worst nights ever when i found out the whole thing was a waste. so that made this year the worst so far and i just want it to get better.
awwww :(
that must be a HUGE bummer
why'd you drop college?

SiaSiaSia 04-05-2009 10:54 PM

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Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
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Originally posted by Annie
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Originally posted by Ninastar
Omg annie I had no idea.
I am so sorry! Is it matt thats done this?? x
Sadly yes.
He is soooo mean to me but its crazy cos I am still totally in love with him and cant stop. He has drink problems so a lot of the time i know its not really him saying or doing these things but at the end of the day, it is.

Thanks to everyone who is saying such lovely things. Its honestly soooo touching. :love:
I had a feeling you were having those kind of problems. I dont now why, but its just the way your posts came out in the past few months. Obviously, its none of my business, so I didnt say anything about it.
I thought that aswell!





And I know we don't get on Annie but I'm really sorry to hear about everything :sad: Enjoy your holiday

GhettoSuperstar 05-05-2009 01:15 AM

Amazingly well.

Been a *****. Nothing more. Improved my looks. Got even more friends. Got into uni. Met someone I like. Had offers. Shopped till I dropped. Been partying like a bitch! :bigsmile:

I'm just so much fun!

:bigsmile:

*mazedsalv** 05-05-2009 06:34 AM

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Originally posted by GhettoSuperstar
Amazingly well.

Been a *****. Nothing more. Improved my looks. Got even more friends. Got into uni. Met someone I like. Had offers. Shopped till I dropped. Been partying like a bitch! :bigsmile:

I'm just so much fun!

:bigsmile:
I wish i felt the same! :bigsmile:

Shaun 06-05-2009 07:31 PM

So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)

Hugo 06-05-2009 07:38 PM

Terrible.
My sisters 24 y/o boyfriend died in a car accident, which is honestly the worst thing that has ever happened to me so I can't imagine what its like on my sister. So that and the reprocautions(sp?) of that have been horrific with my sister being hysterical half the time. I've just been trying to pretend its all OK which has made things ALOT worse.

Jen 06-05-2009 07:42 PM

Not good...not OMGWORSTEVER.
Some family stuff, that has been sorted but is still all up in the air.
Friend problems, still going on and with exams I'm finding it hard to seperate the two. I'm also single.. LOL I hate not having a boyfriend, espesh when I don't particlary have my best friend these days. Anyway, after GCSEs i'm hoping I will be fine... I really hope.
Ah well... I have LOADS of time to sort it all out :D

Hugo 06-05-2009 07:43 PM

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Originally posted by Jen
Not good...not OMGWORSTEVER.
Some family stuff, that has been sorted but is still all up in the air.
Friend problems, still going on and with exams I'm finding it hard to seperate the two. I'm also single.. LOL I hate not having a boyfriend, espesh when I don't particlary have my best friend these days. Anyway, after GCSEs i'm hoping I will be fine... I really hope.
Ah well... I have LOADS of time to sort it all out :D
ily Jen.

Fom 06-05-2009 07:44 PM

Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.

Annie 06-05-2009 07:47 PM

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Originally posted by Shaun
So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)
:lovedup::hug:

You are totally right, after the funeral.. The only way is up. Like the song. People only have a **** life for so long then it gets better.

Jen 06-05-2009 07:47 PM

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Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:

bronaaaa 06-05-2009 07:49 PM

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Originally posted by Jen
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Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:
Yepp same.

Fom 06-05-2009 07:51 PM

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Originally posted by bronaaaa
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Originally posted by Jen
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Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:
Yepp same.
My problems are just over stressing and not having money. Nothing serious.

Zac 06-05-2009 07:52 PM

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Originally posted by bronaaaa
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Originally posted by Jen
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Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:
Yepp same.
Hmm, yeah, same. This thread really is quite sad and depressing. :sad:

Hugo 06-05-2009 07:54 PM

Btw, in my case I'm not being OMG feel sorry for me haha, heck, Peyton not dying in OTH has been one of my low points :(

Jen 06-05-2009 07:56 PM

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Originally posted by Hugo
Btw, in my case I'm not being OMG feel sorry for me haha, heck, Peyton not dying in OTH has been one of my low points :(

I WAS RAGING.
I'm actually angry about that.

Hugo 06-05-2009 07:58 PM

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Originally posted by Jen
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Originally posted by Hugo
Btw, in my case I'm not being OMG feel sorry for me haha, heck, Peyton not dying in OTH has been one of my low points :(

I WAS RAGING.
I'm actually angry about that.
pmsl same!
:sad:

30stone 06-05-2009 08:00 PM

Ahh well ive already said about mine and since then.

Ive Met some new freinds well some old friends like ive met up with and with that made a couple of new ones.

and been in a minor crash only a couple of scrathes is about it.

so am pretty happy.

*mazedsalv** 06-05-2009 08:05 PM

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Originally posted by Shaun
So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)
Oh im really sorry Shaun :sad: I didnt know.
And yes as time goes on , it will become easier, im sure. Just remember to be strong!

As Fom said, I agree that I take my life for granted, I think I have it bad when there are people struggling with things that are much worse.

And Ben seems like your life is going good lol, after my exams Im hoping I will be much happier.

Jen 06-05-2009 08:11 PM

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Originally posted by Shaun
So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)
Shaun, the only advice I can give is that you must not disconnect from your family. It may be so, so, so difficult but stay together.

:)


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