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Ammi 25-08-2013 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331538)
Most people of his age don't think as quickly as they used to and also forget things - you show no understanding of that. He meant no harm - that's what counts. Anything for a drama.

..now you're being offensive, there are many, many people of Ron's age who never make racial remarks, I'm not that far removed from his 'era' myself..it isn't about 'drama', he knows himself that what he said was wrong, but BB were completely right to give him a warning...

Withano 25-08-2013 09:35 PM

Both warnings were justified. I'm glad that it looks like a lot of people are disagreeing with the OP.

Roy Mars III 25-08-2013 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331544)
What I find highly offensive is that people are turning against the people who were offended by the racial remark and marking them as ageists and offensive themselves. This forum can be incredibly immature sometimes. http://i1190.photobucket.com/albums/...r/2095c354.gif

it wasn't a remark, it was a joke

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:35 PM

[QUOTE=sassysocks;6331566]
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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331525)

Age has a lot to do with it - and your lack of understanding of that is what I find childish.

Age has NOTHING to do with it, just grasping at straws trying to think of liable excuses.

CaudleHalbard 25-08-2013 09:36 PM

We have couple of cabinet ministers aged 70+.... involved in making decisions which can affect our everyday lives.

Many judges are 70+ as well.

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Roy Mars III (Post 6331575)
it wasn't a remark, it was a joke

Oh, I guess that makes it totally fine then. No harm done. http://i1190.photobucket.com/albums/...wr/shakeno.gif

sassysocks 25-08-2013 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard (Post 6331564)
I don't for a moment think Ron has dementia.

He still does football commentating for digital channels, which suggests to me he has his wits about him.

A weaker memory that comes with age is not the same as dementia. He can have one without the other.

Marsh. 25-08-2013 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by CynicalHermit (Post 6331563)
Yea cos thats the same isnt it? Honestly. People on here could cause an argument in an airing cupboard.

Getting offended on behalf of other people is offensive in itself. You're all just cheapening the real issues so that you can use big words and get all haughty over something on the internet.

I'm not getting offended on anyone's behalf, I'm responding to your claim that Muslims wouldn't be offended by the connotation that their race/religion/clothing makes them a terrorist.

YOU commented about the reaction of Muslims to such a joke and I responded.

Roy Mars III 25-08-2013 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331587)
Oh, I guess that makes it totally fine then. No harm done. http://i1190.photobucket.com/albums/...wr/shakeno.gif

depends on your philosophy on humor, I guess. Some people feel like nothing in comedy should be off limits, some believe differently.

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331589)
A weaker memory that comes with age is not the same as dementia. He can have one without the other.

What a load of rubbish, that's the most ageist comment in the thread tbh.

sassysocks 25-08-2013 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard (Post 6331585)
We have couple of cabinet ministers aged 70+.... involved in making decisions which can affect our everyday lives.

Many judges are 70+ as well.

A whole different environment.

Verbal 25-08-2013 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by 08marsh (Post 6331591)
I'm not getting offended on anyone's behalf, I'm responding to your claim that Muslims wouldn't be offended by the connotation that their race/religion/clothing makes them a terrorist.

And what makes you a spokesperson for the Muslim community? Getting offended on their behalf is exactly what you're doing.

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331600)
A whole different environment.

So your memory depends on where you're located.. give me a break.

CaudleHalbard 25-08-2013 09:40 PM

BB/C5 don't want any complaints to Ofcom.

A warning was inevitable. End of.

Marsh. 25-08-2013 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by CynicalHermit (Post 6331604)
And what makes you a spokesperson for the Muslim community? Getting offended on their behalf is exactly what you're doing.

Find me a post where I've been offended on anyone's behalf.

Find me a post where I claimed to be the spokesperson for the Muslim community.

YOU brought up a possible reaction from Muslims, I responded to it.

Ammi 25-08-2013 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by CynicalHermit (Post 6331604)
And what makes you a spokesperson for the Muslim community? Getting offended on their behalf is exactly what you're doing.

..no one is being a 'spokesperson'..people are pointing out that it was a racst joke, which it was..Ron himself realised that and they were right to pull him up on it and give him a warning...

sassysocks 25-08-2013 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331597)
What a load of rubbish, that's the most ageist comment in the thread tbh.

Really. What do you know about it? It is a medical fact that the memory of most fifty year olds is not what is was in their 20's. By the age of 70 - that is even more so for most.

He was just making conversation and before he knew it was jumped on for saying something allegedly offensive - which clearly came as quite a shock to him.

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:43 PM

You're acting as if the bloke has dementia, it's total ludicrous. Allegedly offensive? IT WAS OFFENSIVE can you not grasp why he was warned?

DanaC 25-08-2013 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 6331616)
..no one is being a 'spokesperson'..people are pointing out that it was a racst joke, which it was..Ron himself realised that and they were right to pull him up on it and give him a warning...

If anything I think the people claiming that muslims wouldn't be offended by that joke are trying to act as spokespeople.

Marsh. 25-08-2013 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331619)
Really. What do you know about it? It is a medical fact that the memory of most fifty year olds is not what is was in their 20's. By the age of 70 - that is even more so for most.

He was just making conversation and before he knew it was jumped on for saying something allegedly offensive - which clearly came as quite a shock to him.

A memory worse than you had in your 20s does not equate to invalid who can't think about what they're saying.

If his brain can associate a jumper on someone's head with a head scarf and formulate a joke about terrorists...

CaudleHalbard 25-08-2013 09:44 PM

He said something which might have offended a viewer or viewers.

BB is ultra sensitive after the Shilpa Shetty farrago.

I would have been amazed if Ron had not got a warning.

sassysocks 25-08-2013 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331608)
So your memory depends on where you're located.. give me a break.

Yes it does. He was in a stressful environment unfamiliar to him - a known cause and effect scenario. Memory can be very much affected by stress.

Verbal 25-08-2013 09:47 PM

You can't win on this site its just wearing. It should be called what-can-we-be-offended-about-today.com

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331653)
Yes it does. He was in a stressful environment unfamiliar to him - a known cause and effect scenario. Memory can be very much affected by stress.

:crazy:
He wasn't stressed whatsoever, he's been calm and collected the whole time..
http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4072/4...34432d1d_z.jpg

Ammi 25-08-2013 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard (Post 6331643)
He said something which might have offended a viewer or viewers.

BB is ultra sensitive after the Shilpa Shetty farrago.

I would have been amazed if Ron had not got a warning.

..also because they gave Carol a warning yesterday for relating something but saying the word..(even though they said it themselves...that part was wrong..)...I actually still don't think Ron is a racist as such, I think he's more of an idiot but the joke was racist and the warning was completely justified ...

Ammi 25-08-2013 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331653)
Yes it does. He was in a stressful environment unfamiliar to him - a known cause and effect scenario. Memory can be very much affected by stress.

...so is it that he's old..his environment..stress of the BB house..?...I actually don't think he is racist as such but the joke was and I he hasn't disputed it..?...he was very silly, people can still like him, it doesn't make him a bad person or take away from anything positive in him but he did make a racist joke and that can't be denied...

sassysocks 25-08-2013 09:51 PM

[QUOTE=reece(:;6331577]
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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331566)
Age has NOTHING to do with it, just grasping at straws trying to think of liable excuses.

If you say so, but you clearly have no understanding of such things. Enjoy your little coccoon - one day you will understand.

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:52 PM

[QUOTE=sassysocks;6331686]
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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331577)

If you say so, but you clearly have no understanding of such things. Enjoy your little coccoon - one day you will understand.

Keep making silly excuses up:xyxwave:

erinp5 25-08-2013 09:52 PM

I found it a very strange and stupid response to someone covering their head .

Verbal 25-08-2013 09:53 PM

Whilst i'm at it I would like to point out how the pathetic attitude on here and how infractions are dealt out are ridiculous.

I've just been infracted for this post:

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"Yea cos thats the same isnt it? Honestly. People on here could cause an argument in an airing cupboard.

Getting offended on behalf of other people is offensive in itself. You're all just cheapening the real issues so that you can use big words and get all haughty over something on the internet. "

Now, if someone was to call someone a dirty n****r they would receive the same warning.

Do you not see the problem with this?

Ban me, I don't ****ing care anymore. This place is an absolute joke.

Ammi 25-08-2013 09:53 PM

[QUOTE=sassysocks;6331686]
Quote:

Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331577)

If you say so, but you clearly have no understanding of such things. Enjoy your little coccoon - one day you will understand.

..tbh I think it's Ron that needs to understand otherwise he's obviously keeping on saying these stupid things which aren't helping him at all..

megamaja40 25-08-2013 09:55 PM

Jeez are they for real?..... Why not give charlotte a warning about the crude stuff she's saying?

Marsh. 25-08-2013 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331653)
Yes it does. He was in a stressful environment unfamiliar to him - a known cause and effect scenario. Memory can be very much affected by stress.

:joker:

Yeah, I get stressed when I'm surrounded by people I don't know. So my mind works fine but strangely forgets that homophobia is offensive and I start hurling abuse at gay people. It's not my fault, I forgot.

reece(: 25-08-2013 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by megamaja40 (Post 6331705)
Jeez are they for real?..... Why not give charlotte a warning about the crude stuff she's saying?

Because racism is a totally different, more serious subject to crudeness.

DanaC 25-08-2013 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Videostar (Post 6331252)
Don't be silly...theres a huge difference between not being PC and being a racist.

Big Ron just isn't PC.

That's like the club comedians who warn the audience that the next joke is going to be 'a bit blue' and then tell a p*ki joke. Hilarious. All in good humour, bit naughty, not for the kiddies, but only having a laugh. No harm done. Nothing meant by it.

Except there is harm done. It all adds to the general anti-muslim noise in our society.

And maybe some 'ordinary muslims' might laugh and take no offence. Some others might laugh along and not show they're stung by it. Because it's all just banter right?

It's all banter 'til some ****wit petrol bombs a mosque, or spraypaints 'Al Qaeda' on a muslim family's front door. It's all banter til members of your community are getting stopped and searched on a semi-regular basis because they look a bit suspicious in this climate of Islamaphobia.

Does it make him a bad man? No. Does it warrant some kind of censure? Absolutely.

And I do wish people would stop wheeling out the age thing. He's quick thinking enough to come up with snappy comments and one liners. It is rather unfortunate that some of his humour seems founded in racial stereotypes.

sassysocks 25-08-2013 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 6331681)
...so is it that he's old..his environment..stress of the BB house..?...I actually don't think he is racist as such but the joke was and I he hasn't disputed it..?...he was very silly, people can still like him, it doesn't make him a bad person or take away from anything positive in him but he did make a racist joke and that can't be denied...

Both. He said himself - that once it was pointed out to him, he could see their point, but at the time it hadn't occurred to him.

And that was likely to be partly because of the attitudes he grew up with typical of his generation and partly to do with not being able to think quickly enough about every word he says before saying it.

Dionkan 25-08-2013 09:59 PM

Couldn't believe they gave him a warning for it.
Channel 5 are losing the plot.
And no in not a racist

sassysocks 25-08-2013 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331711)
Because racism is a totally different, more serious subject to crudeness.

But the judgements made about her because of it is sexism which is just as serious as racism - but I don't see people get hot under the collar about that.

DanaC 25-08-2013 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331759)
But the judgements made about her because of it is sexism which is just as serious as racism - but I don't see people get hot under the collar about that.

There are quite a few people getting 'hot under the collar' about that. Just not in this thread.

It is possible to be bothered about both at the same time.

Jamie. 25-08-2013 10:03 PM

I was gob smacked when he said it. It was racist no matter what way you look at it, it stereotyped Muslims (or religions that wear head scarves) to be a terrorist.

It was definitely justified.


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