If you tell the world, you attend sex parties & have orgies then don't be surprised when people use it against you in arguments.

Is that a rational way to argue? Perhaps you are saying 'I am right in what I say because I have the moral high ground'?

To be honest your statement makes no rational sense to me.

They are both as bad as each other in my opinion. Luisa has made her sexual past very public, Dappy has every right to question her on it.

He has two kids? Hardly been a role model to them either tbh.

lol this.
People on this forum act like luisa is some saint.
when shes the instigator of arguements all the time.
The way she is so stuck up is unbelievable, and her hypocrisy is on a new level.
She brings dappys mum into it but cant handle when dappy brings her daughter into it.
She can dish it out but she can't take it.

Everything i hate in a woman, i swear.

..the thing is though, is that they were both hypocrites in that neither one has the right to judge the other one and there is no doubt that what Dappy said about it being ok for males to be promiscuous but not females is a sexist thing to say, so Luisa was right to say so...but she then inferred that he was 'inferior' to her intellectually, which she had no right to do and of course he said, oh I've got academic qualifications etc and it all got a bit silly as these things do and she brought his mum into it/he brought her daughter into it etc...none of that had anything to do with the original comment from Dappy, which was meant to be the issue and the only person that was really 'in the right' was Jasmine, who said that it was all a matter of opinion/subjective..but even then, it doesn't mean that the original comment was any less sexist...but it's not an unusual opinion either, females are often judged more harshly than males in certain things...

The reason im not getting onto dappy for the "its ok for men" comment is because he had the dignity to apologise to jasmine when she said she was offended and say 'i was wrong, i ment pigs, im sorry'.

Luisa can only dream of doing that. She was blatenyly trying to make dappy look bad and failed with flying crayons. Dappy ended her.

..I don't think he ended her..(whatever that means lol..)..neither of them looked really very good imo, but I'll be interested to see the whole thing in sequence on the highlight show if they do show it because in some ways it seemed like Luisa was pursuing it with her comments about him being less intelligent etc and her never having met 'anyone like that before..'..?..but she said that he was following her around and wouldn't let it drop....hmmmmm....

Should be interesting.

he had no right to bring her daughter into it

Why didnt he?
I know its abit childish but if she can bring up his mother why can he bring up her daughter. This double standards is amazing.

Your just posting from your hatred of dappy. Thats the truth, the whole truth and nuttin but the truth.

Wtf is with the 'Dappy ended her' comments, Is that supposed to make him look big and hard?

It's just hilarious how people are calling Dappy a dick and all while championing Luisa. Maybe if she was able to debate like an adult ala Jasmine and Dappy then you could say she came out better than him. At the end if the day they both came out stupid and Jasmine should teach Luisa a few things.

I'd say that Jasmine argued in a well manner, not Dappy/Luisa though :laugh: more than that, people should just enjoy it for what it is lol

They are all equally ridiculous.

Yeah. Dappy argued with Luisa like a tool, but when he was with Jasmine he was respectful towards her. It wasn't until Luisa got aggressive where he turned into an idiot :laugh:

They are both as vile as each other & equally sluttish, but Dopey does have a good point...

Yeah I didn't realise that at the time of posting, changes my entire perspective of the argument. I think Dappy is a hypocrite. He thinks it's okay for men to be sleazy to some extent; he knows it's wrong but he thinks men are allowed to "get it out of their system" before they grow up. In his mind, women are supposed to be respectable and shouldn't be sleeping around - I think his comments to Luisa were intended to be a sort of wake up call that she has a daughter and she shouldn't be sleeping around, maybe because on some level he feels that he shouldn't be sleeping around and setting a good example to his boys... but whatever his reasons for shouting at her, I still think he made a good point, one that both he and Luisa should bear in mind in the future.