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Cherie 05-03-2015 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7626910)
That's the exact same situation though. :umm2: What's the different between a Catholic homophobe and a Muslim homophobe?

So this guy is a homophobe because he want to follow his Christian beliefs, what does that make the gay couple then?

Livia 05-03-2015 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7626910)
That's the exact same situation though. :umm2: What's the different between a Catholic homophobe and a Muslim homophobe?

Public perception.

Niamh. 05-03-2015 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7626900)
The thing that really aggravates me about these stories is... and this isn't going to be popular... but if that couple had gone to a Muslim printer and he's refused them, I think most people would have said well, fair enough then...

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Originally Posted by Chaos (Post 7626908)
if this was the case, it wouldn't even reach the media/social websites etc etc

the main reason people are so bothered about it is because they can bitch about christians

Oh come on, we had a story here just yesterday about a gay man being thrown off a roof for being gay........ I haven't actually heard a story similar to this one in Ireland, if I did I would post about that too :shrug:

Crimson Dynamo 05-03-2015 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7626912)
And Nivia means snow white in Latin, which is pretty. Well, Nivea, but it's close.

Snow White Printers?

do they do discounts on the letter K if used 3 times?

Niamh. 05-03-2015 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7626912)
And Nivia means snow white in Latin, which is pretty. Well, Nivea, but it's close.

Oh that's racist :fist: we're out of business already :hehe:

Livia 05-03-2015 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7626920)
Oh come on, we had a story here just yesterday about a gay man being thrown off a roof for being gay........ I haven't actually heard a story similar to this one in Ireland, if I did I would post about that too :shrug:

We're not talking about throwing people off roofs, we're talking about a service being refused and the perception of people's religious beliefs being valid or invalid.

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7626923)
Snow White Printers?

do they do discounts on the letter K if used 3 times?

No, no discounts. And no cheques or credit.

Kizzy 05-03-2015 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Nedusa (Post 7626851)
Oh for goodness sake get off your Politically correct high horse...

People make choices what they do... and if they don't want to give work to someone for whatever reason that is their choice

Plain and simple

Enough of the bigotry nonsense:nono::nono:

Whatever twisted perception anyone has is of no concern to me, this relates to religion, political correctness does come into it as here politics and religion clash...
As much as I an against religion if that's how someone lives their life I'm for that, not sure if you noticed that.

Livia 05-03-2015 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7626924)
Oh that's racist :fist: we're out of business already :hehe:

LOL... I was thinking of the fairy tale, honest I was.

Jessica. 05-03-2015 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 7626917)
So this guy is a homophobe because he want to follow his Christian beliefs, what does that make the gay couple then?

Yes, everyone who feels an aversion to homosexuality is homophobic, I don't believe homophobia is a strong word though, there are all kinds of homophobes and I'm sure most don't vocalise their dislike so that doesn't bother me as long as nobody is being discriminated.

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Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT). It can be expressed as antipathy, contempt, prejudice, aversion, or hatred, may be based on irrational fear, and is sometimes related to religious beliefs.

Niamh. 05-03-2015 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7626932)
We're not talking about throwing people off roofs, we're talking about a service being refused and the perception of people's religious beliefs being valid or invalid.



No, no discounts. And no cheques or credit.

Ok, that's the only story I've heard recently though with regards to Muslims and gay people and it's a hell of alot worse than this one here :laugh:

If there was a story similar to this one but with a Muslim business I would also post it :P I imagine there's a hell of a lot less Muslim run printers in Ireland then there are Christian ones though so i wouldn't hold my breath!

Kyle 05-03-2015 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Chaos (Post 7626908)
if this was the case, it wouldn't even reach the media/social websites etc etc

the main reason people are so bothered about it is because they can bitch about christians

A homosexual is denied a service on the single basis of a persons personal beliefs that their sexuality is 'wrong' and you somehow flip this into an attack on Christians.

Kizzy 05-03-2015 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7626909)
Not really, if the precedent is set for people to discriminate as long as they're part of a religion, what's to stop people from starting up religions with any "rules" they want?

It wouldn't be part of a long standing religious doctrine stretching back through generations and written thousands of years ago.
Anything with views like this wouldn't get off the ground in the modern day.

Livia 05-03-2015 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7626941)
Ok, that's the only story I've heard recently though with regards to Muslims and gay people and it's a hell of alot worse than this one here :laugh:

If there was a story similar to this one but with a Muslim business I would also post it :P I imagine there's a hell of a lot less Muslim run printers in Ireland then there are Christian ones though so i wouldn't hold my breath!

Look, if I'm not winning this argument, I insist on wrestling for it.

Niamh. 05-03-2015 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7626954)
It wouldn't be part of a long standing religious doctrine stretching back through generations and written thousands of years ago.
Anything with views like this wouldn't get off the ground in the modern day.

Exactly.

Jessica. 05-03-2015 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7626957)
Look, if I'm not winning this argument, I insist on wrestling for it.

Why did my brain automatically turn that into an image of mud wrestling? :bawling:

Niamh. 05-03-2015 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7626957)
Look, if I'm not winning this argument, I insist on wrestling for it.

no -scared-

Cherie 05-03-2015 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7626936)
Yes, everyone who feels an aversion to homosexuality is homophobic, I don't believe homophobia is a strong word though, there are all kinds of homophobes and I'm sure most don't vocalise their dislike so that doesn't bother me as long as nobody is being discriminated.

But they are following the teaching of their religion, it doesn't automatically follow that they have negative attitudes to gays! Just that perhaps they like to stick to the code laid down by their religion.

Niamh. 05-03-2015 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7626961)
Why did my brain automatically turn that into an image of mud wrestling? :bawling:

It's all this gay talk Jess, messing with your mind. 10 Hail Marys and an Our father

Marsh. 05-03-2015 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7626886)
:joker: Back then the tabernacle was basically a pop-up church, silly.

Emphasis on "back then..."

Nedusa 05-03-2015 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7626933)
Whatever twisted perception anyone has is of no concern to me, this relates to religion, political correctness does come into it as here politics and religion clash...
As much as I an against religion if that's how someone lives their life I'm for that, not sure if you noticed that.

Yes.....I know that

I guess what I'm saying is although I don't agree with the Printer's reasons for not giving work to this person, I have to accept that the printer has the final say in who he gives work to and if through some outdated misguided religious dogma he feels unable to associate with Gay people then that is his problem.

But to try and publicize and call for his business to be ruined or for him to face some kind of legal redress for holding these religious views is also wrong.

You cannot force someone to take an unfamiliar or alien view only educate them so they realise their traditional view is unfair,unjust and has no place in the modern World.

Jessica. 05-03-2015 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 7626967)
But they are following the teaching of their religion, it doesn't automatically follow that they have negative attitudes to gays! Just that perhaps they like to stick to the code laid down by their religion.

Well I didn't want to put it so bluntly but it has come to that. Religion is belief, homosexuality is fact, if these people don't believe that these people should be allowed to love each other or find each other attractive then they fit into a category with other people who think like them. I haven't said anything bad about homophobia, I just said that these people are homophobic.

Kizzy 05-03-2015 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7626958)
Exactly.

Exactly what? ... :laugh: you're hypothetical modern religion analogy proves nothing.
It has nothing to do with this as the onus is on established religious beliefs, they cannot be changed along with cultural norms.
He hasn't incited any hatred or made public his view it was his own personal interpretation of text. If we seek to change what would that entail?

Livia 05-03-2015 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7626961)
Why did my brain automatically turn that into an image of mud wrestling? :bawling:

Just the track your brain takes, Jess, I guess.

Niamh. 05-03-2015 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7626982)
Exactly what? ... :laugh: you're hypothetical modern religion analogy proves nothing.
It has nothing to do with this as the onus is on established religious beliefs, they cannot be changed along with cultural norms.
He hasn't incited any hatred or made public his view it was his own personal interpretation of text. If we seek to change what would that entail?

Exactly as in people wouldn't get away with starting up a religion nowadays with such out dated, sexist and homophobic views so therefore we should not allow already existing religions that hold similar views get away with discrimination just because they say it's part of their religious beliefs. I mean if Religious people are allowed to discriminate because of their religion but non religious people aren't isn't that discriminating against non religious homophobes? :laugh:

Kizzy 05-03-2015 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Nedusa (Post 7626972)
Yes.....I know that

I guess what I'm saying is although I don't agree with the Printer's reasons for not giving work to this person, I have to accept that the printer has the final say in who he gives work to and if through some outdated misguided religious dogma he feels unable to associate with Gay people then that is his problem.

But to try and publicize and call for his business to be ruined or for him to face some kind of legal redress for holding these religious views is also wrong.

You cannot force someone to take an unfamiliar or alien view only educate them so they realise their traditional view is unfair,unjust and has no place in the modern World.

So you don't agree that he shouldn't do the work on religious grounds but on the basis that he just dislikes homosexuals it's ok?
I don't think I subscribe to that, and you would have to have been living in a cave for the last 20yrs to not know that cultural norms relating to homosexuality have moved on.

Nedusa 05-03-2015 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7626990)
Exactly as in people wouldn't get away with starting up a religion nowadays with such out dated, sexist and homophobic views so therefore we should not allow already existing religions that hold similar views get away with discrimination just because they say it's part of their religious beliefs. I mean if Religious people are allowed to discriminate because of their religion but non religious people aren't isn't that discriminating against non religious homophobes? :laugh:

I guess Atheist's could say it was their Humanist views and these views should not be considered inferior to religious views. This would mean they have an equal right to be discriminatory against Gays and/or Gay Marriage.

Cherie 05-03-2015 03:14 PM

Nobody said the guy who wouldn't let Rhianna get her knockers out in a video on his farm had a negative attitude towards women, it just didn't fit with his values, and that was the end of it.

Kizzy 05-03-2015 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7626990)
Exactly as in people wouldn't get away with starting up a religion nowadays with such out dated, sexist and homophobic views so therefore we should not allow already existing religions that hold similar views get away with discrimination just because they say it's part of their religious beliefs. I mean if Religious people are allowed to discriminate because of their religion but non religious people aren't isn't that discriminating against non religious homophobes? :laugh:

We can't change what was written thousands of years ago.
You could suggest the bible is hate propaganda and call for it to be burned... good luck with that.

Jessica. 05-03-2015 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Nedusa (Post 7627002)
I guess Atheist's could say it was their Humanist views and these views should not be considered inferior to religious views. This would mean they have an equal right to be discriminatory against Gays and/or Gay Marriage.

:umm2: That doesn't make sense at all, I'm sure there are plenty of homophobic atheists and if the printers were atheists and refused to print the invitations for this couple, I'm sure the couple would still feel discriminated against. :shrug:

Nedusa 05-03-2015 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7626997)
So you don't agree that he shouldn't do the work on religious grounds but on the basis that he just dislikes homosexuals it's ok?
I don't think I subscribe to that, and you would have to have been living in a cave for the last 20yrs to not know that cultural norms relating to homosexuality have moved on.

Er....No I'm not saying that at all

Read my post again, I can't make it any simpler to understand.

Nedusa 05-03-2015 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7627007)
:umm2: That doesn't make sense at all, I'm sure there are plenty of homophobic atheists and if the printers were atheists and refused to print the invitations for this couple, I'm sure the couple would still feel discriminated against. :shrug:

It wasn't supposed to..........

Niamh. 05-03-2015 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Nedusa (Post 7627002)
I guess Atheist's could say it was their Humanist views and these views should not be considered inferior to religious views. This would mean they have an equal right to be discriminatory against Gays and/or Gay Marriage.

And it would be completely wrong, just like this is

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 7627004)
Nobody said the guy who wouldn't let Rhianna get her knockers out in a video on his farm had a negative attitude towards women, it just didn't fit with his values, and that was the end of it.

I don't really think they're comparable :laugh:

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7627005)
We can't change what was written thousands of years ago.
You could suggest the bible is hate propaganda and call for it to be burned... good luck with that.

Or I could just suggest what I have been all through this thread, that discrimination like this should not be tolerated by our governments :shrug:

Kizzy 05-03-2015 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Nedusa (Post 7627009)
Er....No I'm not saying that at all

Read my post again, I can't make it any simpler to understand.

Then explain 'traditional view' to me... I don't understand this term.

Kizzy 05-03-2015 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7627012)
Or I could just suggest what I have been all through this thread, that discrimination like this should not be tolerated by our governments :shrug:

There are hate laws in place to prohibit inciting discrimination via any means, what has this to do with personal views?

Niamh. 05-03-2015 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7627023)
There are hate laws in place to prohibit inciting discrimination via any means, what has this to do with personal views?

You've actually lost me now Kizzy.

Cherie 05-03-2015 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7627012)
And it would be completely wrong, just like this is



I don't really think they're comparable :laugh:



Or I could just suggest what I have been all through this thread, that discrimination like this should not be tolerated by our governments :shrug:

Why are they not comparable? The farmer exercised his rights to do as he felt and believed on his property, the printer is doing the same, is he not being discriminated against for his beliefs?

Kizzy 05-03-2015 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7627034)
You've actually lost me now Kizzy.

You said it shouldn't be tolerated by government, they aren't.
But until we get rid of all churches and have thought police individuals with religious views can think as they like.

Niamh. 05-03-2015 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 7627039)
Why are they not comparable? The farmer exercised his rights to do as he felt and believed on his property, the printer is doing the same, is he not being discriminated against for his beliefs?

There's a difference between stripping off on someones property and refusing to work with a person because they are a stripper

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7627045)
You said it shouldn't be tolerated by government, they aren't.
But until we get rid of all churches and have thought police individuals with religious views can think as they like.

Sure they can think what they like lol, when did I ever say they couldn't?

Cherie 05-03-2015 03:52 PM

[QUOTE=Niamh.;7627049]There's a difference between stripping off on someones property and refusing to work with a person because they are a stripper

:suspect:

Kizzy 05-03-2015 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7627049)
Sure they can think what they like lol, when did I ever say they couldn't?

Based on those thoughts they can offer their services....or not.
That is the crux of the problem isn't it?


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