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arista 01-10-2015 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 8191572)
People need to realise that paedophiles are women too



Yes thats the Most Important
part of this story



Sign Of The Times.

Jack_ 01-10-2015 12:26 PM

Am I the only one that really doesn't give a crap about these types of stories, male or female? Like, yeah, obviously she's broken the law and abused her position of power, and yes there are a lot of double standards dependent on the sex of the individuals involved and it should be equal, but in all honesty...do I think it's that bad? Not really.

People who are on the cusp of 16 having consensual sex with someone older, is IMO, not much of a problem. Obviously the younger you get and the less consensual it is, the more of an issue it becomes, but my reaction to stories like these is usually ':shrug:' I know someone will inevitably point out you can't legally consent to sex until you're 16, but if we stop looking at it in legal terms and in...well...reality, if someone isn't being forced into it, and is almost 16, it's consensual. Age is only a number

And when stories of this ilk emerge and the person involved is 16/17, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it at all. And I really never get the hysteria over that. I can understand minors, but when you're over 16...well...sorry, that's their business and no one else's. It's a bit like that story of the 16 year old girl and the 30 year old teacher that ran off to France a few years ago, and people were calling for him to be slaughtered etc, and it's like well no, she's of age, it's clearly not just a sex thing and they actually have feelings for each other, so whatever :shrug:

This is not paedophillia either.

the truth 01-10-2015 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8191548)
Change the record Truth. If you're genuinely concerned about this stuff then you need to look at what part men play in all of these problems, as well as just blaming women for everything. But I think you don't want to hear that and actually have an intelligent discussion about it. Come back to me if you ever do though.

come back to me if you've ever got anything remotely intelligent or compassionate or unbiased to say...no? didn't think so

the truth 01-10-2015 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack_ (Post 8191594)
Am I the only one that really doesn't give a crap about these types of stories, male or female? Like, yeah, obviously she's broken the law and abused her position of power, and yes there are a lot of double standards dependent on the sex of the individuals involved and it should be equal, but in all honesty...do I think it's that bad? Not really.

People who are on the cusp of 16 having consensual sex with someone older, is IMO, not much of a problem. Obviously the younger you get and the less consensual it is, the more of an issue it becomes, but my reaction to stories like these is usually ':shrug:' I know someone will inevitably point out you can't legally consent to sex until you're 16, but if we stop looking at it in legal terms and in...well...reality, if someone isn't being forced into it, and is almost 16, it's consensual. Age is only a number

And when stories of this ilk emerge and the person involved is 16/17, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it at all. And I really never get the hysteria over that. I can understand minors, but when you're over 16...well...sorry, that's their business and no one else's. It's a bit like that story of the 16 year old girl and the 30 year old teacher that ran off to France a few years ago, and people were calling for him to be slaughtered etc, and it's like well no, she's of age, it's clearly not just a sex thing and they actually have feelings for each other, so whatever :shrug:

This is not paedophillia either.

funny ive never heard you say that when it was a man perpetrating

the truth 01-10-2015 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8191579)
omg kyle, i never said that or was thinking it at all :/ You're taking this waaaaaay too personally when your comment just made me think of a wider and pretty common attitude amongst alot of men. It doesn't mean that they should never be fathers, I was just saying that maybe it should be thought about a bit more

there you go again, a woman rapes a minor and youre blaming men, shameful sexism:nono:

Marsh. 01-10-2015 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8191574)
Indeed. The point I'm trying to make here though is alot of times when people complain about double standards and reverse sexism, they automatically blame women for that when in reality alot of these attitudes and double standards are there because of men themselves

So now it's men's fault again. ****ing women! :fist:

Jack_ 01-10-2015 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 8192702)
funny ive never heard you say that when it was a man perpetrating

Prove it.

Because as I've just referenced, I felt exactly the same when the story about the 30 year old male teacher and 16 year old girl emerged

the truth 01-10-2015 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack_ (Post 8192719)
Prove it.

Because as I've just referenced, I felt exactly the same when the story about the 30 year old male teacher and 16 year old girl emerged

that was legal this isn't...youre being hypocritical again

Jack_ 01-10-2015 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 8192769)
that was legal this isn't...youre being hypocritical again

Actually, I did a search and it turns out it wasn't legal at all. The girl was 15, but the pair began their affair when she was 14. Read my two posts on this page:

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...t=#post5522711

Niamh. 01-10-2015 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 8192703)
there you go again, a woman rapes a minor and youre blaming men, shameful sexism:nono:

Not at all, I 'm speaking about the attitudes of people towards this abuse, you can clearly see the only people making light of it in this thread alone are men, all the women who posted were disgusted by it, hell truth even your very own first post in here was one making a joke about it, dear oh dear

Crimson Dynamo 01-10-2015 07:45 PM

http://www.bodyforwife.com/wp-conten...g-and-bone.jpg

getting involved in an argument with neem on tibb

Niamh. 01-10-2015 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 8193352)
http://www.bodyforwife.com/wp-conten...g-and-bone.jpg

getting involved in an argument with neem on tibb

:hee:

JoshBB 01-10-2015 08:28 PM

I think you've touched on a good point though Niamh, the mentality of "oh!! he should have enjoyed it!!" is an attitude spread around by men themselves and this whole 'lad culture', which really doesn't help to solve the issue of women getting let off lighter for paedophilia when it should be equal punishments to both genders.

Locke. 01-10-2015 10:17 PM

"Two months of abuse by Caroline Berriman left boy 'scarred for life' "

LOL! Yeah right

Glenn. 01-10-2015 10:18 PM

What a LAD

Niamh. 01-10-2015 10:20 PM

You pair of feminazis :fist:

LukeB 01-10-2015 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Locke. (Post 8194187)
"Two months of abuse by Caroline Berriman left boy 'scarred for life' "

LOL! Yeah right

I was thinking this too:laugh:

Liam- 01-10-2015 10:23 PM

I hate everything about this thread, not only the story but a lot of the attitudes towards it actually make me a bit sick I can't

Kyle 01-10-2015 10:26 PM

However will we sleep at night.

Jack_ 01-10-2015 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8194206)
I hate everything about this thread, not only the story but a lot of the attitudes towards it actually make me a bit sick I can't

You'll love the comments on here then

https://www.facebook.com/uniladmag/p...90886917601026

Despite what I posted earlier, one comment I saw that said something along the lines of 'of course it would be different if it were a male teacher with a female student! Guys and girls are not the same' is a stretch too far for me :umm2:

JoshBB 01-10-2015 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8194206)
I hate everything about this thread, not only the story but a lot of the attitudes towards it actually make me a bit sick I can't

Me too..

It's all the usual "mens rights!!!!!!" people that are contradicting themselves as well and it's really upsetting that someone can be allowed to get away lighter with a crime like this because of their gender.

LukeB 01-10-2015 11:24 PM

women can be peaodophile too.. she should be jailed or something because it's against the law as he is under 16.

but i do feel Two months of abuse by Caroline Berriman left boy 'scarred for life' is a lie... even tho it seems she was the one that led him on or it could be the other way round. idk it takes two to tango.

Jack_ 01-10-2015 11:27 PM

This woman is not a paedophile

And before I'm accused of the inevitable, had it been a male teacher (as was the case a few years back), he would not be a paedophile either

Firewire 01-10-2015 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by LukeB (Post 8194407)
women can be peaodophile too.. she should be jailed or something because it's against the law as he is under 16.

but i do feel Two months of abuse by Caroline Berriman left boy 'scarred for life' is a lie... even tho it seems she was the one that led him on or it could be the other way round. idk it takes two to tango.

He was on This Morning and said her child kept calling him "daddy" which he was uncomfortable with and felt pressure of having to keep their relationship a secret. He said it was fun at the start but it became a huge problem and tried to end the relationship.

LukeB 01-10-2015 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Firewire (Post 8194495)
He was on This Morning and said her child kept calling him "daddy" which he was uncomfortable with and felt pressure of having to keep their relationship a secret. He said it was fun at the start but it became a huge problem and tried to end the relationship.

So just because it came from his mouth doesn't mean it's 100% true not everyone tells the whole truth

Firewire 01-10-2015 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by LukeB (Post 8194502)
So just because it came from his mouth doesn't mean it's 100% true

It's unfair to accuse him of lying, really

LukeB 01-10-2015 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Firewire (Post 8194508)
It's unfair to accuse him of lying, really

Just because he's 15 and is known as a victim in all this doesn't mean he's telling the whole truth and people have to believe what he says..Not every story is 100% accurate or the truth.

Liam- 01-10-2015 11:54 PM

Typical, the victim is 'lying' how grim

Firewire 01-10-2015 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by LukeB (Post 8194520)
Just because he's 15 and is known as a victim in all this doesn't mean he's telling the whole truth and people have to believe what he says..Not every story is 100% accurate or the truth.

I never said he was. I don't get why this is important :shrug:

LukeB 01-10-2015 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Firewire (Post 8194526)
I never said he was. I don't get why this is important :shrug:

I didn't say it;s important tbh I just don't 100% believe he was scarred by it.


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