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jaxie 01-06-2017 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323206)
hang on a second now, we're veering off track a little bit here. These court systems aren't even legally binding, the actual legal justice system in Pakistan was the one who stopped this honor killing from happening and is protecting the girl remember?

The culture of Panchayats is there out of tradition of "elders" in villages having power over people and especially in this specific case a father abusing that power to protect his son

Sharia law isn't binding in the UK and yet people can still go to sharia councils and settle disputes and even divorce.

I understand all the nitpicking but that's exactly what it is. Pakistan is an Islamic country. That means that Islam has an influence in all aspects of society, including councils.

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323213)
Possibly because she had the support of her father.

but killing a girl is nothing there

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323219)
but killing a girl is nothing there

You're mistaking me for Livia I think. :nono: Please don't ascribe someone elses words to me.

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323216)
They're very similar

Not if you're a cow. :shrug:

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323218)
Sharia law isn't binding in the UK and yet people can still go to them and settle disputes and even divorce.

I understand all the nitpicking but that's exactly what it is. Pakistan is an Islamic country. That means that Islam has an influence in all aspects of society, including councils.

My point is Pakistan is an Islamic country and India is a Hindu country and they both have these councils.....

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323224)
Not if you're a cow. :shrug:

Well if I were a Pakistani cow I would certainly be looking for refugee status in India that's for sure :laugh:

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323226)
Well if I were a Pakistani cow I would certainly be looking for refugee status in India that's for sure :laugh:

Me too.

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323225)
My point is Pakistan is an Islamic country and India is a Hindu country and they both have these councils.....

That doesn't mean they are the same councils, run under the same rules and laws. Though both countries have terrible records with regard women, and I don't think religion in India is innocent either. People get beaten to death there for having meat in their freezer that may or may not be cow. If they are lucky enough to have a freezer.

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323233)
That doesn't mean they are the same councils, run under the same rules and laws.

I just posted a link a few posts back of very similar sounding punishments by some Indian councils.

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323236)
I just posted a link a few posts back of very similar sounding punishments by some Indian councils.

England is a similar country to Ireland. And yet it's completely different.

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323238)
England is a similar country to Ireland. And yet it's completely different.

Ok but I still showed you examples of punishments handed out by Indian councils that were very similar to this one in the OP :laugh:

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323240)
Ok but I still showed you examples of punishments handed out by Indian councils that were very similar to this one in the OP :laugh:

And I said that I don't think India's main religion is all that great either. Though if it had been India mentioned I probably wouldn't have assumed it was related to Hinduism because it's a secular state.

However Islam is the second largest religion in India. It's not far fetched that both countries might have adopted similar customs.

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323241)
And I said that I don't think India's main religion is all that great either. Though if it had been India mentioned I probably wouldn't have assumed it was related to Hinduism because it's a secular state.

The law of the Islamic country is protecting the girl but you're blaming Islam for the council "convicting" her instead of the alleged rapists father........

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:26 PM

anyway, i feel we're going round in circles now.

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323246)
The law of the Islamic country is protecting the girl but you're blaming Islam for the council "convicting" her instead of the alleged rapists father........

Is it really? Or is it supporting her fathers complaint? What will her future be? A payment made usually and the man will go free. Will she ever be able to live back in the same village without shame and retribution? How many other girls does this happen to where they aren't supported by their fathers?

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323251)
Is it really? Or is it supporting her fathers complaint? What will her future be? A payment made usually and the man will go free. Will she ever be able to live back in the same village without shame and retribution? How many other girls does this happen to where they aren't supported by their fathers?

Why are you speaking to me like I agree with all this, I totally disagree with that kind of culture, all that I was pointing out was that it was a culture

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323257)
Why are you speaking to me like I agree with all this, I totally disagree with that kind of culture, all that I was pointing out was that it was a culture

And I'm trying to point out that culture and state are impossibly tangled with religion. Whether interpreted correctly or not, the religion is used as justification for systemic gender subordination.

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323261)
And I'm trying to point out that culture and state are impossibly tangled with religion.

You have failed to do that imo because you just stated that if it happened in India (and it does alot going by examples I posted a link to) you would not blame religion but here you do eventhough that list of questions you just asked me (Is it really? Or is it supporting her fathers complaint? What will her future be? A payment made usually and the man will go free. Will she ever be able to live back in the same village without shame and retribution? How many other girls does this happen to where they aren't supported by their fathers?) could just as easily be applied to India

Beso 01-06-2017 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9323121)
Actually I love willfully sleeping with people at gunpoint, and I completely recommend it for everybody. Not doing so would make me racist, obviously.

Nit sure what you are slavering about now but can you use the word allegedly now and again please.

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323273)
You have failed to do that imo because you just stated that if it happened in India (and it does alot going by examples I posted a link to) you would not blame religion but here you do eventhough that list of questions you just asked me (Is it really? Or is it supporting her fathers complaint? What will her future be? A payment made usually and the man will go free. Will she ever be able to live back in the same village without shame and retribution? How many other girls does this happen to where they aren't supported by their fathers?) could just as easily be applied to India

No I said "Though if it had been India mentioned I probably wouldn't have assumed it was related to Hinduism because it's a secular state."

Denver 01-06-2017 02:44 PM

Rape is a terrible problem in India especially gang rape probably the worst in the world.

India has gone downhill since Britian left

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323286)
No I said "Though if it had been India mentioned I probably wouldn't have assumed it was related to Hinduism because it's a secular state."

So therefore it makes sense that these two countries just have similar cultures and attitudes towards women regardless of religion

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Adam. (Post 9323288)
Rape is a terrible problem in India especially gang rape probably the worst in the world.

India has gone downhill since Britian left

:rolleyes:

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323290)
So therefore it makes sense that these two countries just have similar cultures and attitudes towards women regardless of religion

I also said: However Islam is the second largest religion in India. It's not far fetched that both countries might have adopted similar customs.

Denver 01-06-2017 02:47 PM

Can i just say India has almost the same amount of Muslims as Pakistan

Denver 01-06-2017 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323291)
:rolleyes:

Well it as they have no real justice system

Niamh. 01-06-2017 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9323293)
I also said: However Islam is the second largest religion in India. It's not far fetched that both countries might have adopted similar customs.

So it's Muslims fault in India too? Ok then, I'm done.

jaxie 01-06-2017 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9323297)
So it's Muslims fault in India too? Ok then, I'm done.

You see what you want to see in the conversation. I can't help that. Don't confuse people with beliefs that are taught to people.

Denver 01-06-2017 02:51 PM

Any culture that makes 10 year old girls marry 40 year old men disgusts me and shouldnt be allowed to exist

Brillopad 01-06-2017 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9322870)
Religion doesnt come in to it at all:umm2:

Edit: I just reread the OP, I don't think Brillo read the article

I read it. I don't care if it was Islam, Hindu or whatever primitive religion it was - it is a religion that hates and abuses women. And they have clearly been getting away with it for centuries.

She was a victim of rape but she will be the one who will be punished. She may escape being stoned now but her life will never be the same if she stays there and she probably never be safe.

That is down to man-made religion and man-made rules designed to give men the upper hand. A primitive controlling and abusive religion is what it is no matter what name it hides behind and some are clearly a lot worse than others.

Withano 01-06-2017 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9323532)
and some are clearly a lot worse than others.

I think this is the important message to take from the story. To give you credit, you didnt mention a specific religion.. others did, there was a lot of religion bashing in this thread despite both; the protagonists and the antagonists likely sharing a faith. It didnt make sense. Some are worse than others, agreed, others are not bad at all.

user104658 01-06-2017 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9323553)
I think this is the important message to take from the story. To give you credit, you didnt mention a specific religion.. others did, there was a lot of religion bashing in this thread despite both; the protagonists and the antagonists likely sharing a faith. It didnt make sense. Some are worse than others, agreed, others are not bad at all.

I'm 90% sure that Brillo meant that some religions "are clearly worse than others", rather than some members of each religion being worse than others.

I might be wrong.

But it would be more in step with Brillo's other posts.

Withano 01-06-2017 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 9323572)
I'm 90% sure that Brillo meant that some religions "are clearly worse than others", rather than some members of each religion being worse than others.

I might be wrong.

But it would be more in step with Brillo's other posts.

Oh. Maybe. That's a shame. I thought I witnessed personal growth for a second there.

Tozzie 01-06-2017 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9321816)
Why would you watch something like that? :umm2:

why brush it under the carpet and pretend it doesnt happen, the more we know about stuff like this that goes on the more we are nearer a time where this kind of thing is is put to an end. Of course it's horrible but it's better to be educated in what goes on instead of being ignorant to it, otherwise how can we do anything about it

Marsh. 01-06-2017 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Tozzie (Post 9323826)
why brush it under the carpet and pretend it doesnt happen, the more we know about stuff like this that goes on the more we are nearer a time where this kind of thing is is put to an end. Of course it's horrible but it's better to be educated in what goes on instead of being ignorant to it, otherwise how can we do anything about it

What?

Who said brush it under the carpet?

I don't need to watch graphic videos of innocent people being slaughtered in war zones to know it's happening.

I simply asked how people can put themselves through watching something like that. The people I asked answered me courteously and that's the end of it.

Tozzie 01-06-2017 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9323831)
What?

Who said brush it under the carpet?

I don't need to watch graphic videos of innocent people being slaughtered in war zones to know it's happening.

I simply asked how people can put themselves through watching something like that. The people I asked answered me courteously and that's the end of it.

Did I say YOU brushed it under the carpet? Nope, I wasn't being rude, I asked you a question, calm down lol

storybrooke 01-06-2017 11:47 PM

This is terrible to read however not all too uncommon in society today


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