Now this is a bit of a lie isn't it

Maybe he's polyamorous like Jade.

No. Being cheated on is horrific either way. I was a mess when I got cheated on, I blamed myself which in hindesight was so silly.

He must have very little humility if he can do that to a person 4 times.

It's not really cheating when you have consent

To be fair

*someone makes negative comment*
*someone makes positive comment*

Isn't the same as the personal jabs being thrown in this thread from both sides.

:laugh: a new side to you Braden

Sounds more to me that he was playing the field, sowing his wild oats.
I don't know what is considered a girlfriend or boyfriend these days, do you go by how many dates you have?
I can understand the upset if you have been together a while and consider yourself a couple, but if you are just playing the field it's different.
I suppose it's a question of being honest about it.

Clearly not as he cheated on four different people.

I want to find this funny but I don't get it :(

I hope Raph comments "aww, do the members of the forum not like me? :( :(" when he comes back in 50 days, £100k richer <3
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A remorseful person wouldnt keep doing it

There are many sides to me that you're not aware of Cherie :hehe:

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Yeah I'm sure the wife of a cheating husband would prefer to know her husband was testing out his ass in some new experiences with men than banging a lass. Makes the world of difference.

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I think it relates the the album being messy

Liking this new side :love:

he's already won. He's on big brother and getting everyone talking and getting some people acting like hypocrites by pretending they are perfect when they have done worse especially on this forum.

I don't condone it, but people feel remorse for all types of things, i don't know why cheating has to be excluded from it?

I'm not saying that what Raph did was right, but I'm sure that he'd said something like this on here in the past and it wasn't blown into such an epic proportion like it is now.

It really does feel like some people are being trendy on here by disliking Raph to say "look I dislike someone on the show that posts on the same Forum as me" I mean we've got some shocking people in there and people want to carry on some sort of grievance with a chilled out dude who's a bit eccentric on certain issues, and isn't perfect on everything.

So remorseful he repeated the mistake in multiple relationships?

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Yeh, cant be an accident if you do it more than once really.

It just sounds like hes tried to surpress his sexuality perhaps? But inevitably caved. And that does sound slightly less douchey than other reasons for cheating imo.

It does make him a bit douchey, especially considering he cheated on a man with a man.... but not as douchey as the average serial cheat from my perspective.

Yes because i obviously meant he was remoseful and then went on to cheat again, but you make up and believe what you like :)

It's a Human flaw that he has, overall I like that he feels like a Human Being.

Who's done worse than cheat

Tbf scrutiny is fair game when it's televised for the country to see

All was forgiven when he voted Trump, his sins have been revoked.

I agree just getting on there when he is such a fan makes him a winner, and it makes it s really interesting watch

This is ridiculous. 'Oh you don't like him, it's because you're trying to be edgy!!!'
not really, people are trying to have their opinions on him as a HM rather than having a bias by knowing him. Sorry.

I'm not saying anyone is condoning his cheating but can you blame anyone for questioning how remorseful he is after he admitted he cheated on 4 partners?

Once is a mistake but 4 times? Nope.

Because it wasn't a topic on an episode of the very TV show this forum was created to discuss? Whereas now... it is.

Shocking I know.

If another HM was the one exposed, they would have been righteously scrutinised also.

This is purely speculation (about him as a HM, not as a member) but on BOTS yesterday Raph was in the diary room talking about his gameplan and this was analysed by Trisha Goddard

What i'm thinking is perhaps these two events might be connected and it was Raph explaining that he was fake crying for his game and it wasn't shown or something and he was trying to do something similar to BBUS and BBCAN where after a game move they were explaining his strategy?

See that last paragraph is why its not better than being cheated on with another girl cos in your eyes the only time it was bad was when he cheated on a guy so the other relationships werent "real" but they would have been for the girls so thats an extra hurt to deal with

Also take into account he isn't exactly liked by the public either. It's hardly trendy or edgy.

You can like it. I will continue not to.

I agree. He has obviously given this information to make good housemate material. He knows the show inside and out...don't tell me he didn't think this stuff would be exposed :shrug:
Then crying about it purely out of concern on how it will make him look is pathetic.
TIBB member or not...I will judge him like any other housemate. He is not dislikeable by any means...I don't really care about what he has done. But just stand up and say you regret it instead of crying for the sympathy vote. The most telling thing is that he really only cares about the way it portrays HIM and how it may ruin his chances of progressing in his beloved programme.

All i'm saying is twitter and ammi :hee:

I just feel like some people will scrutinise Raph on here out of some sort of personal vendetta against him even if he said the Sky was blue.

I mean we've got some right twats in there, and people seem to think it's cool to go for Raph, I honestly don't get it as his a great Forum member on here, and his been a likable Housemate so far.

I've not made anything up you're the one telling us what Raph thinks pal? :)