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Glenn. 11-03-2023 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270486)
And I deny it. :pipe: it's very strange how I never asked either you or Glenn isn't it?
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270489)
I know now who you are referring to BTW. Its not rocket science. I always repaid with interest. So I still don't get your beef.
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Kate! 11-03-2023 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11270491)
Imagine being so ungrateful to the people that have genuinely helped you by lying like this. See? Awful woman
How am I lying? Proof?

Why are you on such a mission Glenn? Why do you hate so much? Do you need help?

Glenn. 11-03-2023 04:17 PM
Kate seriously stop with the victim card. I don’t hate you lmao

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11270493)
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I deny the huge amount, idiot.

LukeB 11-03-2023 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11270496)
Kate seriously stop with the victim card. I don’t hate you lmao
Some people who take on the role of victim might seem to enjoy blaming others for problems they cause, lashing out and making others feel guilty, or manipulating others for sympathy and attention. But, Botnick suggests, toxic behavior like this may be more often associated with narcissistic personality disorder.

This is Kate to the tea

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11270496)
Kate seriously stop with the victim card. I don’t hate you lmao
Of course you do. Why is it always you that derails my threads with such bitter venom, them you get your mate Luke in on it.

Glenn. 11-03-2023 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270502)
Of course you do. Why is it always you that derails my threads with such bitter venom, them you get your mate Luke in on it.
Again stop the victim card. I merely pointed out how wrong you are for trying to shame your family

LukeB 11-03-2023 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270502)
Of course you do. Why is it always you that derails my threads with such bitter venom, them you get your mate Luke in on it.
The last convo we had was if I watched Scream yet which was Thursday. I'm my own person and he didn't tell me to do it. I was just snooping about king Gary Lineker and saw this beggy thread

Redway 11-03-2023 04:23 PM
Kate, one thing that I would seriously implore you to do is budget a bit more effectively and try and cut down on the bingo side of things. Times are tough for everyone at the moment and at the end of the day certain things really do have to be compromised. And you do need to be a bit more discreet when it comes to how much you reveal about what’s going on between you and your family when it comes to stuff like this, because there are certain things that just need to stay personal and aren’t necessarily for other people to know. Without knowing the specifics there’s only so much I can say and going by what I do know I do have sympathy but you really need to handle things a bit more privately when it comes to things like this.

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Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 11270468)
:laugh3:

well i don't get triggered by any of her bull**** anymore now she is in the right place for me, aka the ignore list
Shut up, Nicky.

Barry. 11-03-2023 04:25 PM
Kate I understand though, I’ve been the same. I actually had/has an online shopping addiction and a few times I’ve been skint for a good few months.

What I do is sent a limit now, though if you have holidays to pay off that limit doesn’t stay.

Can you go into your overdraft? Like that’s borrowing money too I guess. Hope you get it sorted though

bots 11-03-2023 04:25 PM
Everyone knows what the intention of this thread is, i pointed it out on the last thread created for the same purpose. This is scamming 101, there isn't a polite way of highlighting trying to guilt people into sending someone money. Thats not what this forum is for

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 11270511)
Kate, one thing that I would seriously implore you to do is budget a bit more effectively and try and cut down on the bingo side of things. Times are tough for everyone at the moment and at the end of the day certain things really do have to be compromised. And you do need to be a bit more discreet when it comes to how much you reveal about what’s going on between you and your family when it comes to stuff like this, because there are certain things that just need to stay personal and aren’t necessarily for other people to know. Without knowing the specifics there’s only so much I can say and going by what I do know I do have sympathy but you really need to handle things a bit more privately when it comes to things like this.



Shut up, Nicky.
Red I do appreciate your words but it's just the way I am. I'm a pretty open book and I like to express my troubles. Shame there's tossers like Glenn and his cronies still hovering around a place they despise.

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 11270513)
Everyone knows what the intention of this thread is, i pointed it out on the last thread created for the same purpose. This is scamming 101, there isn't a polite way of highlighting trying to guilt people into sending someone money. Thats not what this forum is for
That was not my intention. Believe what you will. If I'd wanted to ask in such a way I'd have said so straight out.

Nicky91 11-03-2023 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Barry. (Post 11270512)
Kate I understand though, I’ve been the same. I actually had/has an online shopping addiction and a few times I’ve been skint for a good few months.

What I do is sent a limit now, though if you have holidays to pay off that limit doesn’t stay.

Can you go into your overdraft? Like that’s borrowing money too I guess. Hope you get it sorted though
:hug:

try distracting yourself with binge (re)watching some series or movie marathons, or maybe some gaming on your PS4 or PS5 whichever one you got

don't let shopping become an addiction, then it is also no longer fun


borrowing money is never a good idea, borrowing money costs money, you know these adverts :)

Cal. 11-03-2023 04:31 PM
Unfortunately Kate these are difficult times for all and you need to learn the manage your own money in a way that means you don’t have to resort to asking strangers on the internet for money every few weeks to keep yourself afloat. Everybody else seems to manage it. As somebody whose lent you money many times in the past, I just can’t justify continuing to do so as it’s just bailing you out temporarily only for you to find yourself in the exact same situation a few weeks later.

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:32 PM
And now there's another of Glenn and Lukes cronies online. Go figure.

Glenn. 11-03-2023 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270516)
Red I do appreciate your words but it's just the way I am. I'm a pretty open book and I like to express my troubles. Shame there's tossers like Glenn and his cronies still hovering around a place they despise.
We’re tossers because we don’t agree with people asking strangers for money online? We’re not tossers Kate, you just know that we know you and how you operate. When things don’t go your way you play the victim card. It’s textbook.

Get a job, nice little job to get you by. Borrowing money isn’t the answer. Especially from people you’ve never met.

The Slim Reaper 11-03-2023 04:33 PM
Look, everyone has had their say now, so either a mod needs to delete this thread, or everyone just leaves it where it is. It's really uncomfortable reading. Whatever the facts are, they've been pointed out repeatedly by now. No more needs to be said imo.

Glenn. 11-03-2023 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270522)
And now there's another of Glenn and Lukes cronies online. Go figure.
I hope you’re not referring to cal who has just stated has helped you?

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11270523)
We’re tossers because we don’t agree with people asking strangers for money online? We’re not tossers Kate, you just know that we know you and how you operate. When things don’t go your way you play the victim card. It’s textbook.

Get a job, nice little job to get you by. Borrowing money isn’t the answer. Especially from people you’ve never met.
I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.

I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.

SherzyK 11-03-2023 04:34 PM
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Liam- 11-03-2023 04:35 PM
Yeah, this doesn’t make for good reading like the usual drama does

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Glenn. (Post 11270525)
I hope you’re not referring to cal who has just stated has helped you?
Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.

LukeB 11-03-2023 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270527)
I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.

I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.
You only struggle because you play bingo which is a luxury. If you're struggling stop playing bingo simples.

Barry. 11-03-2023 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky91 (Post 11270520)
:hug:

try distracting yourself with binge (re)watching some series or movie marathons, or maybe some gaming on your PS4 or PS5 whichever one you got

don't let shopping become an addiction, then it is also no longer fun


borrowing money is never a good idea, borrowing money costs money, you know these adverts :)
Thanks Nicky. I try to distract, it just depends on my mood too. I shop more when I’m sad.

Kate might be the same and it depends on her mood too.

Cal. 11-03-2023 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270530)
Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.
That isn’t what happened Kate. I was good to you. I lent you money even when we weren’t on speaking terms as I didn’t like the thought of my own mum being in some of the situations you’ve found yourself in. Even today I was considering lending you the money and telling you not to bother paying it back or contacting me again as I know we aren’t on speaking terms yet again. I wish you well and hope you find a way out of this endless cycle.

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by LukeB (Post 11270532)
You only struggle because you play bingo which is a luxury. If you're struggling stop playing bingo simples.
You know nothing. I don't smoke or drink. I only go to bingo when it's cheap. Get the facts before judging.

Redway 11-03-2023 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270530)
Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.
To be honest, Kate, I don’t think Cal was implying that at all. S/he’s just trying to give you practical solutions cor how to manage your finances a bit better going forward. I don’t get involved in drama but unfortunately there’s a certain limit beyond which most people aren’t going to feel obliged to keep the confidence, which is one of the reasons why I said I don’t think you should be as open a book on this side of the internet.

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Cal. (Post 11270536)
That isn’t what happened Kate. I was good to you. I lent you money even when we weren’t on speaking terms as I didn’t like the thought of my own mum being in some of the situations you’ve found yourself in. Even today I was considering lending you the money and telling you not to bother paying it back or contacting me again as I know we aren’t on speaking terms yet again. I wish you well and hope you find a way out of this endless cycle.
It is though Cal. You also told everyone I had an affair when I didn't?

Glenn. 11-03-2023 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270527)
I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.

I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.
I’m very good with money which you’re clearly not. So it’s doubtful really.

I have a very substantial side hustle also. Maybe you can sell things to make some money

Cal. 11-03-2023 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Kate! (Post 11270539)
It is though Cal. You also told everyone I had an affair when I didn't?
You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Cal. (Post 11270543)
You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.
I told you that I was tempted by an ex. That's it. Yes fair enough you did apologise but now I've got the likes of Qua coming on Tibb to berate me. When inreality I cur off all contact with the guy and ended it.

SherzyK 11-03-2023 04:48 PM
Kate, I sympathise with you and I hope whatever financial hardship you’re going through is eased and gets sorted in the end. But you really need to help yourself before others can help you. There’s many outlets to try and find a working from home job if your reason for not working is long term sickness. Put yourself out there because there’s definitely places you can go to make ends meet.

You should definitely speak to your bank and make arrangements if things are getting worse, but this is not the right way about it ma

LukeB 11-03-2023 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Cal. (Post 11270543)
You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.
Don't because she spoke about the affair on tibb :skull:

Cherie 11-03-2023 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper (Post 11270524)
Look, everyone has had their say now, so either a mod needs to delete this thread, or everyone just leaves it where it is. It's really uncomfortable reading. Whatever the facts are, they've been pointed out repeatedly by now. No more needs to be said imo.
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Kate! 11-03-2023 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by LukeB (Post 11270547)
Don't because she spoke about the affair on tibb :skull:
Show me where I said I was having an affair or anything remotely similar?? I've just told one person I cut off all contact because I was tempted. That's what I said. I hate it when your words get twisted.

Moniqua 11-03-2023 04:53 PM
my god, what’s happening…

Kate! 11-03-2023 04:58 PM
I'm gonna take Slims words as verbatim and request the thread closed.


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