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Originally posted by VickyJ
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Yes, I have a problem with prejudice against butch lesbians. I have been a volunteer in my community for over 20 years trying to further equal rights for homosexuals. I have seen too many young people commit suicide, I have seen too many people beat up and even murdered to be complacent and let things go.
If you haven't seen the homophobic posts, count yourself very lucky. I don't see how you could have missed them, but seeing you have, maybe that explains why you are so unfeeling about the vicious, vile hatred directed towards Lisa.
Even when posts are not out and out homophobic - and there have been PLENTY - there are many more which depicts her as a vile human being not worthy to be on this earth. Nasty, horrible stuff. Have you seen those? I can give you the posters names if you want.
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I only joined here last week, Ive seen a few anti-lisa posts, some of which are way too harsh.
I was at DS before this and those were harsher. But I rarely see any at all that say anything about her being a lesbian.
And you trying to make out that everyone who dislikes her is prejudiced against butch lesbians really isnt helping the cause you know. People are entitled to opinions.
Have you ever met someone and decided straight away that you wouldnt like them? Sometimes you just dont like someone...no set in stone reason for it, it just happens.
This is kind of like how I was with lisa, when I first saw her, i thought I would like her, as she seemed similar to someone I know, in attitude and just how she was in general. Then she started grinding on me, I do not know why...the same happened with rodrigo...and then she started being nasty and (i know you disagree) bullying freddie. Aswell as Kris and karly, it was not just lisa, I do not just blame lisa for it. But she partook in the ridiculing of him, which was nearly always done in group form, rather than one on one, which I dislike also, 3 onto one is not fair.
I voted kris out, I voted karly out, Lisa is the only one left for me.
Now Bea is attempting to do the same thing, however, it is not done with a group of sheep behind her, it is just her. This is why i dont feel it is as bad. However, what she is doing is enough for me to want her out, which i will do, when she is up for eviction, be it before or after lisa. But if she is against lisa,I will vote lisa...as i feel what she did was worse.
Does this make sense to you so far? Or are you just going to dismiss my opinions again and say my reasons are invalid?
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No, I'm not. I don't agree with you AT ALL that Lisa is worse than Bea (or some others), but thanks for explaining your take on it.
Edited to add: It would be good if you spoke out against posts which you find harsh, instead of remaining silent just because you don't like someone. Make a difference!
Peace sister! :kiss:
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I did, on DS, constantly. Havent seen too many hate posts on here really, but i do speak out if i see them, same as i give credit when due when she does something I like, as you have seen before, i believe you even commented on it.
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I don't remember that, but it's all a jumble here!
I just want to say that I responded to you in particular about Lisa because you were someone who was obviously intelligent and that got to me more than, for example, the 101 'I hate Lisa' mindless posts of imbeciles like SUPERFANNO or whatever his/her name is. One of many assholes.
I wouldn't even think of engaging such people in a debate, so poor you was the recipient of my horror and dismay, and I went at you like a terrier until I understood you!
Sorry! :flowers:
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