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Would the OP be saying this if it wasn't Freddie that got evicted? I don't think she's biased at all and the Freddie fans are just bleeting about him being evicted.
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I found Judy James comments about Sophie ludicrous. Also highlighting the argument with Noirin as a changing point did not sound right, that incident stood pretty much in isolation. Freddie received more acceptance in the house because Kris & Karly got kicked out, and Tom told people the public liked him. But BB wouldn't want to admit their new HM's spoilt things. |
I have observed Judy James' pseudo analysis of the evictees of the BB house for weeks now and it always seems to me she gets it completely and entirely WRONG. It is like she does not watch the show at all. I think she is just ridiculous. When Karly was evicted she made out that Karly was very nice person but looks bitchy in her body language and this is why people evicted her. Eh, no! Karly was sly, devious and ganged up on Freddy with the bullies. Now she is a gold digger. She also made out in said episode that Freddy was really a bitchy character but he had positive body language and so that is why he stayed in. Absolute rubbish! This woman has a very dubious sense of morality in stating these things about Karly v Freddy and does not seem to have a clue of the notion of "cause and effect"..Freddy was a pure intentioned man from day one, the housemates out of a reversed snobbery ostracised and bullied him unprovoked, of their own volition (they had a choice to do this or not to and they revealed the essence of their characters in that moment as bullies). This is what bullies do. You do not have to be anything in particular for someone to behave unjustly towards you. Freddy in his so called bitching is reacting to the cruelty of people like Lisa, Kris, Karly, Charlie, Dogface etc...Judy is completely nuts and she seems to twist absolutely everything. It is the equivalent of watching a group of schoolyard bullies at secondary gang up on one of the more vulnerable and different kids and then rationalising their nasty behaviour and contriving the victim as the instigator and culprit. The woman is insensitive and embarassing..
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That's the key to remaining impartial when commenting on human behaviour. To attack her for overt bias is really laughable in my eyes. There's no hidden, vindictive agenda behind her comments..... and most of her insights were bang on the mark. She never questioned them on an ethical level -stating it they're bad or good - she just tried to give Freddie some insight as to why some people may have viewed him suspiciously. She wasn't condeming him or seeking to crucify him.... ridiculous to see it that way. |
Why do you people have to complicate things to such an extreme. It really isn't that complex an issue. The pyschologist got it wrong. She left out details and facts of the actions of characters within the house..To focus on an example, That Karly's "Body language" was separate to her character. What ****. That just doesn't mean anything.
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Another one that thinks they know better than a professional! Sorry - but as has been said by another poster - she is there in a professional capacity to analyize behaviour and causes - not to get emotionally involved by giving personal opinions!! You are the one simply giving personal opinions - and your opinions are more likely to be influenced by personal likes and dislikes than the psychologist's!! |
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It's not that. As I stated before, I honestly believe that some of the methodological reasoning is nonesense.. For example "reading bodylanguage" in isolation from all other factors of the enviroment and character.
And as people stated before, trying to track certain behaviours to more primitive stages of human development.. (ie. What people were complaining about before in the references to "animals" etc.)... Even with my most hated housemate Bea.. I would rather not have to listen to this **** being applied to her initial eviction interview. We want basic real questions, with real answers. Whether I like the housemate or not.. I found this reasoning to be too rigid and factually incorrect. |
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No professional has a 100% 'success rate' - in whatever field - but their opinions are based on professional knowledge and experience guided by accepted professional and academic guidelines! An amateur may not agree - but their opinion can only ever be a personal one - with a lot less expertise to back it up! |
I agree with everything Judy said. Love what she said in fact.
Freddie isn't blameless and was unfortunately isolated. Sophie is a better judge of character Sophie too is soft and different and is better able at social interacting without constantly fecking people off; which Freddie constantly did with..... let me tell you how wrong you are and how right I'm sermons....... no listen listen dude listen ........ interludes. Quirky and different are great but patronising and controlling will get you ostrasized. |
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In actual fact you are coming across as the amateur one. OR maybe the arrogant one! I studied psychology for a year in college (a good few years ago now, so I forget certain categorical points in the learning process) and my dad is a psychologist. Are we not allowed to criticise certain methods even if they've been accepted in the academic world? |
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Yes - we are allowed to criticise and disagree with professionals - but that doesn't make us right and them wrong! Our opinions are more likely to be emotive! My point simply being that professionals have a lot more knowledge to back-up their opinion - and they are trained to base their findings on recognised professional practice and to keep personal opinions out of it! |
She was way off with freddy..a therapist whos a bad judge of character is a dangerous one..she has peoples lives in her hands...
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She wasnt saying he caused the bullying ffs, she said he became an outsider because he didnt understand when to shut up sometimes and wasnt always that socially aware (basically)! lol
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If only psychology was an exact science, we'd be able to say who was 100% right and who was 100% wrong.
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He mis-judged the public's ability to see his arrogance for a start! He mis-judged the public's ability to change their minds! It is not all about Bea! I think she showed insight! She is a professional trained not to bring her emotions into it! |
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This is my attitude to Judy James. I am not impressed by any of the superficial titles and accolades of this world but on the content of character and I will think for myself. I will not agree with a person if it does not sit well with my own reasoning and logic even if they have as I said the nominal title of 'psychologist'. I know a woman who is a sadistic heroin/cocaine addict who was cruel and abusive to my brother who wants to practice psychology and you know what, I am not impressed with her expertise in such a case...and quite rightly I should think.. |
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