If you don't understand that it is bullying - then you clearly haven't had it done to you and don't know how it feels - therefore not in a position to judge.

The word sanctimonious comes to mind!

Lets do thisssss! :spin:

Agreed, mods can make things worse, its not like were toddlers :P.

Sorry - but some act like it!

Considering I was bullied for years I think your talking shit.

People are posting, as stranger, in text, to another stranger criticizing him because they think he is another member. Without directly insulting him. Because that is there view and they are entitled to it. That, and genuine bullying, are two completely different worlds.

In fact, by insinuating we are bullies just because, god forbid, we have a hunch this is the same member, you are the villain if anything.

Have fun playing that role.

Eh Oh an argument, i dont want to be involved, maybe we do need mods afterall>.>

It can't be a TiBB thread without an argument in it!!! lol

In this case I have to argue, sorry. Someone is trying to insinuate I am a bully because I think a certain member might be another person. I cant even believe I just said that. It even sounds fucking ridiculous.

I wonder if said member thinks he is being bullied. I doubt it, somehow.

hey,
i just wanted to tell you, Wombai, don't worry, I didn't consider it as bullying. He has a right to doubt me, but I also completely see your point of view.
I'm going to bed now, so chill guys.
main goal - sam gets her account back :P
night guys,
peaCCEE

I can tell you like the banter and that. But you don't seem like a bully.

Not only have I experienced it on here - but I have witnessed it happening to other members - you weren't there - so don't have a clue what you are talking about. I know bullying when I see it - I don't need some jumped up twit to tell me what bullying is.

Snap!

I don't fully doubt you. Honestly, I don't have a clue.

Thanks. Good to see a Morrisey fan on here, BTW. He is a hero of mine :blush:.

Indeed he is a legend!!! Good to see someone who has decent music taste!!

That's great, sugar, but I was not talking about past events. I was talking about this event by saying it was not bullying, which it clearly was not. Which Matt himself thankfully cleared up and confirmed for us.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Are you on fire :conf:.

Sweet of you to say that Matt Blake - but it was about other instances as well - not just you. I believe you anyway! Hope she gets it back!

After reading through this thread I fail to see how anyone is being 'bullied' or anyone is being a 'bully'.

As Stu said, this is simply people expressing their opinion, and just because many people share the same views it doesn't make it bullying. How ridiculous.

wow it got moved. I'm dizzy lol

If I remember rightly - you were one of those who accused me of being Dennis. So you would say that - wouldn't you. Anyway - just be aware that it is not nice to be accused like that - if someone does it to you - you might understand how it feels.

Making people feel uncomfortable like that is bullying - dress it up how you like!

If being accused of being a different member by a group of strangers makes you emotionally distressed to the point where you believe you are being bullied, perhaps the internet is not the place for you.

Who cares if people were accusing Matt. There was good evidence and he defended himself well. By the same token are you a bully because you are accusing us of things? Can anybody be accused here anymore of anything? Should we stop all debates? Should we close the Serious Debates section?

Christ, your bringing the lolz hard.

Yes, I was. Because at the time I felt like you were for reasons which were being stated in the thread. It's not my problem if I agreed with other people/they agreed with me.

However, I noticed Vicky (or another mod) cleared it up, so I owe you an apology.

Sorry for claiming you were Dennis, and I hope we can put this behind us as you seem like a good poster.

WOMBAI is a twit k.
And Bigbrofan085 wtf Vicky is a mod she only doing her job...

I love proper debate - but I don't like people ganging up on others. I am not the only one by far that has passed comment on it on this site. It does go on - and I am one of those that has experienced it. It hasn't devasted me or anything - but that is not the point. It makes people feel uncomfortable - and that in itself it bullying. You don't know as much as you think you do.

It is not about Matt - it is about it happening to others as well - and for the record I was never talking about you - but you seem to have assumed I was for some reason.

WOMBAI WTH no one is bullying you.