yey :D

Hmmmm possible lol but i'm crazy, although, some women dig that ;)

:elephant:

I am quite lucky my girlfriend is both. I've always been quite lucky on this matter. I need a girl who is a leader, a thinker, a front runner. Not a cheesy Barbie doll who always agrees no matter what you do.

But my girlfriend cannot be ugly either. :hugesmile:

PMSL

What a stupid question.

Looks.

Lol Patrick.

Patrick wants to pop his cherry.

So you would be quite happy for every girl you meet to judge you on that basis alone - boy I hope you are one good-looking bugger - or you will have to pray that those you meet are not as shallow as you!

He's still a virgin, so yeah... :hugesmile:

Somewhere in the middle but I'm lucky to have a girlfriend who is both, but she annoys me because shes cleverer

I couldn't shag a minger but I couldn't get on with a bimbo

That happens to me too. We can have full long debates for hours over something very random. But I'd rather this than a dumbie.

I think im one of the only ones but my girlfriend is kinda smart but shes slow typical blonde quite dappy..

I find it cute/sexy.
and she looks hot so i dont mind :)

Personality > Intelligence > Looks

But looks are needed at least to the extent that I feel physically attracted to them. :)

This.

Well i'd love her for her.

I agree! :thumbs:

But a Clever Bloke
can give her Orgasms.

It is very difficult for me to say either intelligence or good looks.
If I have to choose, good looks may be the second.

My dream man is a novel's character, Sydney Carton.
He sacrificed his life for the person he loved. How romantic!

Also I like Mr Rochester from Jane Eyre. I do not think he is good looking but quite strong character.

I do not mind about men's hair very much as I find an actor Ed Harris very sexy.

I'd say neither really, it's more about personality for me. I love a looker don't get me wrong but without a good personality behind the looks there's just nothing to a person for me. My perfect girl's the mix of all three, somebody reasonably attractive,who's got a good perosnality and sense of humour and who is intelligent as I like a good discussion.

I could not go out with someone who's thick. It would drive me up the wall.
You also learn from people who are more intelligent than you, so I'd like my bf to be more intelligent than me.
But looks are also very important in a relationship obviously.
But if he was really smart and average looking, I'd go out with him, definitely.
And if a guy was really good looking but really stupid then I'd go out with him, then dump him after a while LOL.

The chemistry has to be there, so looks do matter no matter what people say, we dress lust up in this thing called 'love'

Donkeys years ago, one of my close friend collied with a man at a front door in a London store.
She dropped her bag and the man picked it for her.
Then ~~~~~and he became her future husband.
Imagine one of them walked into the store seconds later or earlier,,,,,.

Yes Wombai
I do believe in fate very strongly.

Basically this.