I'd tell him and give the unfaithful bitch a right telling off.

..as Livia said this is just a theoretical dilemma...
..I've posted on what I think I would do..and based that on past experience (nothing exactly the same as this)..and the fact that with me anyway..things somehow seem to work out the right way without me intervening..
..but the thing is with moral dilemmas..sometimes you think you know what you would do..but in reality you may act completely different..we don't really know unless it happens..
..apologies for the confusion

..another cr*p thread brought to you by the Ammi foundation

LOL !! I hadn't seen the other thread that Livia was talking about so I had no idea whether it was a genuine or theoretical - either way, I'd still go for what I said, for the reasons I gave.

So true though what you say: we can have a good idea of how we think we would handle a certain situation: but it's not until it happens in reality that we find it's not what we would do afterall. It's the old saying about walking a mile in someone else's shoes - we can have preconceived ideas: which may change completely when we are placed in that situation in real life.

It's interesting reading everyone's different ways of how they would approach it though.

im just upset me and vanessa could not interest you in trying a sausage on a stick with us.

Be quiet. Things will resolve themselves without you butting your nose in

That is definitely true. There have been occasions when something has happened, and I have done the total opposite of what I have said I would do if I was in that situation. You do not know until it actually happens what you would do, and it depends on the circumstances, and where your senses take you.

In my case I was almost sacked for letting the cat out of the bag...But I couldn't let her be duped, she was more upset that so called friends and our employer had kept the truth from her than she was at her fiance.

I'm inspired to make another moral dilemma thread..

..yeah..it's a good one Zee..we need a 'dilemma of the day' thread
..this is the sort of thing I love

I used some moral dilemma situations to talk to some pupils about, worked pretty well, you get some interesting discussion from it

Yes we do that at our school..philoshophy..it's interesting posing 'problems' to 8 and 9 year old and seeing them go about solving them..and they are very astute and organised in their thought processes

I love these!

Oh, great idea Ammi!

..we could merge them in a dilemma of the day thread and change the title each day....
..mind you...do you remember when Lily put all the dilemmas in one thread.....lol...confusing
..maybe it's best having seperate threads

That's true, a thread for each one would probably work best otherwise it would get confusing, you should do it Ammi :amazed: