so...following on from that theory...would you not say that the men who frequent these bars are the problem rather than the ladies who are just doing a job and getting paid for it?

Argh! 'Tittie' bar!

Ok, in Edinburgh alone, there are 7 female lap-dancing bars. Guess how many male ones there are?..... none! Why is that do you suppose?

Men stripping is NOT erotic in the slightest! The last strip show I saw involved fake tan, baby oil and some seriously off-putting pelvic thrusts! Exciting it was not!

I'm not a lesbian, but I actually find watching a woman strip more erotic than watching a man.

It takes more than a visual aid to get a woman turned on. Men stand to attention at the mere glimpse of a big pair of bazookas.

I don't care if you think I'm talking ****e, women and men are very different creatures!

No, I think it just prices my point that there is a big difference between a male stripper and a female one.

Danica uses her body to tease and tempt men and they reward her by parting with their money.

Mike does not do this. They are not in similar trades. End of. :)

I really think that this post says more about you personally than the difference between men and women re the visitation of strip shows!

It has been decades since I saw a stripper...and let me tell you that neither I or my friends ever entered a club with a featured stripper in search of any kind of sexual gratification!...If you knew the men's psyche as well as you believed that you do...you would know that we visited such clubs for 1) The camaraderie. 2) The means to lighten-up and be temporarily-free from our daily woes [ ie the beer.] and 3) Generally have a bit of a laugh away from the kids and work!
The whether there was a stripper on or not was never a high priority on which club that we visited.

Any titillation derived from a stripper was merely from the shock value of seeing something that we were all brought up to believe was taboo!
And was never the depraved sex-beast sessions that you have imagined!

I know that there are a handful of the dirty-old-men types that you are tagging to all of us men...but they are very much in the minority and have some serious mental issues!..but who knows, strippers might just be stopping them from getting their perverse pleasures another more sinister way!!

As for the amount of strip/lap-dancing joints in your area..?
Well it is just like everything that is money orientated ...supply and demand I suppose!...Take it up with your local mp! :blush:

Cheers.

And what about the women shoving the dollars down his knickers...? :shocked:

Ok.. we'll agree to disagree. I'm not going to change my opinion that men find stripper erotic, women do not.

Also, could I perhaps suggest, without being patronizing, that strip clubs have perhaps changed somewhat since your last visit?

OK Lee, we'll agree to disagree! :thumbs:

And no I don't believe that you are being patronising, but I have seen plenty of modern strip clubs on tv over the years...and have five daughters and seven granddaughters plus so far four great granddaughters that have just about all been to see male strippers, and the way that they talk about their experiences there and what some of the other girls were doing there sometimes makes this old-fart cringe..but I have no doubt that no matter how much the show has changed...the crack is just the same as it always was!...Just a laugh , that's all! :spin:

Cheers.

What a horrible thought:nono:!

Yes!...because he is busy shoving his sweaty crotch into their faces while they are doing it! :yuk:

...but of course,..he does it with much more class and dignity than Danica! :joker:


Cheers.

Wonder how many dollar bills you can fit into a pair of budgie smugglers?....:joker:

My god can you feel the jealousy oozing from this thread, lol.

I'm a man and I've never visited a strip club. Nor do I have any intention of doing so in the future. And I've never seen a stripper at any other venue.

But lets be fair, a stripper is a stripper. It matters little about whether they are male or female, they earn money for taking their clothes off. And that money comes from an audience, who are paying to watch.

There are many differences between men and women. Our biology programs us differently. Of course there is more to it than that.

Sure there are far more female strip clubs than male ones. However there are alot more young women married to much older, richer, men, than vice versa. We've all heard of WAGS, but when was the last time you heard of a man wanting to be a MABS?

When it comes down to it, men can be very stupid with their cash when it comes to women. And there are alot of women who prey on that fact.

Even alot of societies norms are based around men paying for the company of women. When a couple go on a date, its traditional for the man to pay. When a man meets a woman in a bar, who buys the drinks? Engagement rings, who pays? Course there are historical reasons for these things, but are they still valid today?

In the end, as long as no one is getting hurt, whats the harm?

I can't stand her because of the way she's behaving in the house and you really don't need to worry about my gullibility but thanks for caring.

LOL - can't get that image out of my mind - unfortunately. :banana:

I suppose it depends how much spare room you've got in there - in the OT's case, I suspect there'd be rather a lot!

:suspect:

I have not seen this... give me a link please?