I hope she isn't buried with them unless the father of the children is okay with it... mental illness is a very personal struggle and ultimately it's not one that this woman could cope with; but a man lost three children and a fourth unborn one as well as the woman who gave birth to all of those children... I'd imagine his feelings towards her are very complicated, but he just lost all of his children because of her actions, surely it would be disrespecting him in the most offensive way to allow her to be buried with the children if he wasn't okay with it... this story still makes me sad.