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Fetch The Bolt Cutters 19-07-2014 06:21 PM

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Z 19-07-2014 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7073337)
Greg, I'm in the exact same situation, my mother has been tearing the family apart for my whole life and it's only now that I'm not letting her involve me any more, it's tough to stand up to her but I really need to do it or I will genuinely not be responsible for my actions.

:hug:

T* 19-07-2014 06:23 PM

I have a situation similar, but it's with my dad :/ General douche, cares more about his friends..
But it's not bad-bad, just a bit frustrating.

Firewire 19-07-2014 06:27 PM

Sorry to hear that's happening to you, Greg. Sounds like a really frustrating time as well as also being quite eye-opening. I hope it all sorts itself out, and if that means cutting out your mother, then so be it. Your happiness comes first.

Marsh. 19-07-2014 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by *Kate* (Post 7073100)
Yeah I've gone through similar with my own mum so when she passed away my grief was mixed with guilt so I completely get where you're coming from Marshmellow :love:

:flutter:

Marsh. 19-07-2014 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Z (Post 7073096)
Yeah. You can't make someone change, they have to change on their own terms; and if they refuse to change then your options are to put up with it or get out of there. I choose the latter. I'm done with it.

Definitely. You have to make those hard decisions.

Glenn. 19-07-2014 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7073377)
I love you Glenn.

:love:

Kate! 19-07-2014 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 7073467)
:flutter:

:p

Jessica. 19-07-2014 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Z (Post 7073438)
:hug:

:hug:

Whenever I give people the details they tell me she needs to see a psychotherapist. :joker: She does see professionals but she doesn't admit to ANYTHING! :bored: If you ever want to vent to me go ahead.

T* 19-07-2014 06:43 PM

am i being blanked around the forum on purpose or

Kate! 19-07-2014 06:44 PM

No Tom ...... Why do you think that?

:hug:

Kate! 19-07-2014 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7073531)
:hug:

Whenever I give people the details they tell me she needs to see a psychotherapist. :joker: She does see professionals but she doesn't admit to ANYTHING! :bored: If you ever want to vent to me go ahead.

Would you not move out Jess? :hug:

Jack. 19-07-2014 06:45 PM

Evening all :love:

T* 19-07-2014 06:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Kate* (Post 7073537)
No Tom ...... Why do you think that?

:hug:

I'm asking people questions, getting involved in conversations, etc. but this is the first time someones properly replied to me today.

Jessica. 19-07-2014 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by *Kate* (Post 7073541)
Would you not move out Jess? :hug:

I want to move out but I don't have the means, I don't have anywhere to go, I don't have family who I trust, I don't have any friends, I don't have anything or anyone.

Me. I Am Salman 19-07-2014 06:50 PM

Greg, I think moving out is the right thing to do, but don't cut her out picture completely. Give your mum time to come round. If she doesn't, then that's a shame, but always leave the door open. Parents are too important to cut ties with.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 19-07-2014 06:51 PM

jess lets get a flat together we can be the new will and grace

Kate! 19-07-2014 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7073557)
I want to move out but I don't have the means, I don't have anywhere to go, I don't have family who I trust, I don't have any friends, I don't have anything or anyone.

:hug: what about renting a room in a shared house. Find one with some students. You'll get help with rent??

Kate! 19-07-2014 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott (Post 7073563)
jess lets get a flat together we can be the new will and grace

And Stan Fi?

Me. I Am Salman 19-07-2014 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom! (Post 7073554)
I'm asking people questions, getting involved in conversations, etc. but this is the first time someones properly replied to me today.

most people in this thread get ignored, don't think it's anything serious

Ramsay 19-07-2014 06:53 PM

I think i can post this now

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Kate! 19-07-2014 06:55 PM

:amazed: drunk Karl :love:

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 19-07-2014 07:02 PM

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so true

Ammi 19-07-2014 07:06 PM

..awww Greg..:hug:..I’m not sure people do change as such, not really and not in hugely significant ways..I think people can gain an understanding of each other more and that can help a lot in bridging things but it takes time because it’s important for us to look at our own actions in stuff and some people find that harder than others and that’s probably because they always feel that what they do is for the right reasons...and maybe that’s how it is with your mum, I don’t know but you’re doing what’s right for you now and distancing yourself because you feel it’s what you need and that’s all you can do for the moment....I hope in time that you do have that understanding of each other and maybe build on that....

...and Jess, you have got a lovely guy who cares about you and maybe try to focus on how great that is if you can...:hug:...and I have spare rooms....

michael21 19-07-2014 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Scott (Post 7073563)
jess lets get a flat together we can be the new will and grace

your grace right


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