The convo with James it just seemed like James was trying to help Lauren but Gary was trying to undermine him and make out like he knows best.

You get it. :clap1: :clap1:

I agree with you...it's the way he spoke to him. Imagine if Dee or Leslie did this...all hell would break loose.

I do like him and I think he's a brilliant HM. But that doesn't mean I'm going to blame someone else in the house whenever he is rude or in the wrong.
I hope this doesn't turn into a 'Gary can do no wrong' series, because it's already going that way and that becomes so frustrating and such a bore. :inamood:

I told you in a different thread.

I'm not quite sure what the point of this is, other than to prove that cats are awesome!
I'm not going through threads to find what someone has said to me :laugh:

I don't see it as bullying as such..more a case of a load of people who haven't an ounce of empathy or understanding between them all working themselves up over an ill odler bloke who is having difficulty hearing and understanding properly.

Gary himself seems quite oblivious to it all though..or choses to ignore it, which is a good thing.

What exactly did he say then, word for word that was rude?

It's the age old expression 'It's not what you say, it's how you say it' He was rude in the way he was dismissive towards someone who was trying his best to help him, people will always find a way to get him out of something he's said or done, but in the end, the way he acts, should not be excused, he is rude and he was ungrateful towards David.

All I can say is I wouldn't bring some here a cuppa unless I knew exactly how they liked it. :joker:

So you have no real answer nothing BG in the actual words said you just don't like him.