:joker: trust you

omg

:laugh:

You'll probably be more shocked at her joining in :laugh:

Just tell her what happens in the Mokka house stays in the Mokka house, as i'd be afraid of my daughter telling my embarrassing secrets :shocked::hehe:

..what is it that you're not sure about Mokka, what are your apprehensions about it..?..

If you feel comfortable with it then let her, keep her away from Marsh and she will be fine

Omfg :laugh2:

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I lost it

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Only you will really know the answer though but it could be great for her to get to know people from all over the world and learn new stuff.

well i would say let her join TiBB,

well, without starting something ... I have had numerous personal attacks on and off line in the last year on here... even and upto last night... and It has made me want to walk away from the site several times...

But... that being said... I really love the communication and dialogue I do have with a number of members... and that is what keeps me here... plus I am an adult so water off a ducks back and all that

but... she isn't an adult... so I feel like letting her be subject to the kind of ridicule I get would be negligent on my part.

the dirty words and sex talk ... she probably gets all of that at her GSA club at shcool

If there is a case where you feel she is being bullied on/off site let the mods know the user and they will probably sort it

I am so not the worst around here. I'm barely on anymore. :(

:joker::joker::joker::joker::joker: .... lovely theory

Marsh.... you aren't even on my radar of concerns

Omg at the victimisation today.

Yeah but when you are online you make me look like a sheltered virgin

:smug:

Come on now that's impossible. :hmph:

Well I don't know how we're expected to sort out stuff that happens offsite tbf :/

I never said you were... the theory is not implementable

Not even when its a Member going out of their way to attack another member?

...well, I do think that's probably something for you to take into serious consideration as well and as you say, without re-hashing over years, it's something that not many members have escaped without scars, so that would be awful for her, not only for herself but things said to you as well...and again, as I think most of us know...a few members have had information searched and their real lives invaded, even Admin..so no one could ever give an absolute guarantee of anything done off the forum either, but linked to the forum and her being a member...

We deal with things differently depending on each thing that happens.

What we can't do and no one can is deal with things we haven't ever been made aware of :shrug:

Can my cat join? She's basically an adult in car years, she wouldn't cause trouble.