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So no one can speak ill of them now? Are we suppose to forget they were idiots who rather spend dinner with friends then look after their own children or at least call a babysitter?
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Its as if people think that if you leave children in a complex and have a meal THEY ARE GUARANTEED TO BE ABDUCTED
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And leave them alone for so long that they wake crying, not knowing where their parents are, terrified and cry themselves back to sleep. Then after being told that themselves by one of their other children the following morning, they continue to do the same thing resulting in a child then vanishing into thin air. |
The original question was posted on mumsnet. A woman asked if other members thought it was ok to leave her baby asleep while she went 5 minutes down the street to get something.
I do think think it draws parralels to the McCann case so I understand Sharon bringing it up, even if it is hurtful to them, it's a good point and could help somebody make their same mistake. I do sort of see LT's point too, leaving a child alone for any time like they did is neglectful but there are plenty of other cases where the parents get full sympathy when they made mistakes too and don't get dragged across the coles like the McCanns do. |
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When you promote your cause to that degree (whatever its purpose) then you are going to get the negative/ everyone's opinions on it along with everything else. |
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Leaving children alone for a few minutes could be understood, to leave children alone in a strange Country to just go and socialise with others is beyond any understanding, or should be, in my view.
Madeline was still only 3 years old when this happened and they left her with 2 children even younger for goodness sake. Sorry for me that should be a criminal act. One or both of the younger children could have woken up and been crying,Madeline should not have been left with that responsibility to the younger children and how would she have been able to cope with that too. Also the McCanns chose not to have the baby minding service. Anything could have happened and in situations where anything could happen it is best to ensure nothing does and be there yourself as an adult or adults to make sure nothing does. |
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They should have their other kids taken off them and banned from being around kids
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Maddie informing them she awoke the night before, looked for her parents and cried herself to sleep with the twins wondering where the hell they were and then they STILL did the same again was not learning from their mistakes IMO. |
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But since the one incident there have been no other instances of this happening and they've learned from their mistake and most likely wrap their kids in cotton wool. Why take away children who are being well look after all these years later to prove a point that they made a horrible judgement years and years ago? |
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Kate McCann especially looks broken to me. |
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If anyone has Children far better to not leave them alone for any time. If I ever had any,I would expect that. I do however know that in a shop or shopping centre,you can get distracted and a child can walk off,I have at times when younger with my Mum,I see that even now in the ASDA store I go to, children running round the aisles with their Parents not in sight. I would not however personally look at Jamie Bulger's Mum as a bad example, she didn't leave her child alone in the way the McCanns did. She has gone through torture following the horrific murder of Jamie,I don't think she should be considered neglectful. The McCanns were not even doing anything vital,they were going out enjoying themselves and not just for a few moments. That was their planned choice on the night and to leave a 3 year old girl alone at night, with 2 even younger siblings,while not in the home environment even. For me they are not fit to tie Jamie's Mothers shoelaces. |
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...I think the most important difference between Jamie Bulger and Maddie McCann, the two cases...?...is that the understanding and empathy comes in Jamie's case of 'there but with the grace of God..'..type thing because we can all relate to taking our eyes off our children for a moment or two...there wouldn't be many people/parents out there who hadn't done that, if any at all, so it's something that would be possible to happen to us all...there isn't the same understanding though with the McCanns because leaving our very young children in an apartment while we're out having a meal with friends etc is something that many people/parents, find an unthinkable thing to do... ..I don't know what happened to Maddie, obviously but I do believe that her parents have been 'imprisoned' ever since her death..and nothing that any of us say or don't say, think or don't thing will ever make any difference to that... |
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