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DouglasS 13-06-2017 11:56 AM

Why do gay people have to act a certain way to be accepted as gay. This is literally ridiculous, It's almost laughable.

Also people do read, and Raph is an intelligent guy hes more likely to read and enjoy books and so care about books. It's no different than caring about a football team/A band/singer/Video game/movie - You're argument is literally so flawed and ridiculous that I'm finding it hard to understand.

joeysteele 13-06-2017 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DouglasS (Post 9357321)
Why do gay people have to act a certain way to be accepted as gay. This is literally ridiculous, It's almost laughable.

Also people do read, and Raph is an intelligent guy hes more likely to read and enjoy books and so care about books. It's no different than caring about a football team/A band/singer/Video game/movie - You're argument is literally so flawed and ridiculous that I'm finding it hard to understand.


What a strong point.

I actually find this needing to know more and hear more as to Raph sexual preferences weird.

What on earth has it to do with anyone other than Raph or how he chooses present himself.

He's a great guy,an interesting guy to listen to,he is now making his presence felt more.
I for one,am enjoying watching him and listening to him as he is relaying in the house.

He's a good housemate,in my view.
Good on him.

Niamh. 13-06-2017 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357273)
Films i get, but books. How is knowing what books their into is gonna benefit the relationship and make you like them more

Why would you get films but not books? Books take more time and dedication so would tell you more about a person imo

Vanessa 13-06-2017 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 9357334)
What a strong point.

I actually find this needing to know more and hear more as to Raph sexual preferences weird.

What on earth has it to do with anyone other than Raph or how he chooses present himself.

He's a great guy,an interesting guy to listen to,he is now making his presence felt more.
I for one,am enjoying watching him and listening to him as he is relaying in the house.

He's a good housemate,in my view.
Good on him.

:worship:

caprimint 13-06-2017 12:30 PM

Why would he talk about being gay? People get annoyed when others talk about their sexuality all the time (especially being gay I've noticed), poor guy can't win

Cherie 13-06-2017 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357080)
If he wants to win, he has to be relatable to the public. And so far we've only seen the fake gameplayer side so it'll be a nice change. And ffs, nobody's sad enough and cares what someone's favourite book

Alot of books get turned into movies, as for being relatable I find him alot more relatable than someone saying they were being smothered by a bread bag:joker:

Ant. 13-06-2017 12:37 PM

Raph: -Chanelle teaches him how to pull boys-
Raph: -comes out as gay and talks about relationships with Mandy-
Raph: -acknowledges he's gay when Chanelle asks if Raph is actually gay-
Raph: -mentions his past relationships with men in a task-
Raph: -is gay-

people: wow i can't believe raph is faking being gay!! I know him better than he knows himself. he should try identifying as demisexual or asexual or smth because he's a big, comples character not defined by the fact he likes dick!
same people: anyway charlotte's straight. She's not talked about her past boyfriends in the house? she's rejecting Tom's advances? Hmm nope! She's not demisexual OR asexual! she's just a simple het because unlike gays hets can keep quiet about wanting a dick in their mouth!

... cringey exaggeration aside, I'm sure Raph knows his sexuality better than we do. It's not as if he hasn't mentioned being gay either, but he just doesn't flaunt it. Why aren't we saying this about the hets in the house though?? how do we know they're straight if they won't talk about their desire for the opposite sex? maybe they don't even know their sexuality

RhysJones 13-06-2017 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9357297)
Yes because the only other thing about Raph that could possibly be discussion worthy apart from his sex life is his favourite book.

Obviously.

You must know some very dull people if you think it's the be all and end all of someones life and personality.

Well it's way more interesting than talking bout books, this is obviously a deep and personal problem to you

RhysJones 13-06-2017 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9357299)
Why would we give a toss whether Raph likes to top or bottom?

That sounds more interesting than discussing books. As a gay guy, I wanna know other people's stories. Since he obviously has nothing better to talk bout because all we say is him being sneaky

RhysJones 13-06-2017 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9357336)
Why would you get films but not books? Books take more time and dedication so would tell you more about a person imo

Because everyone watches movies, nobody reads books anymore. I don't have time to waste on reading books, i have actual work to get on with. I don't have hours to waste

RhysJones 13-06-2017 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 9357364)
Alot of books get turned into movies, as for being relatable I find him alot more relatable than someone saying they were being smothered by a bread bag:joker:

You find someone being calculative, fake and gameplaying relatable, glad to hear you both share the same qualities

Marsh. 13-06-2017 01:00 PM

Not sure why books is being focussed on.

Is that all out personalities can be? A sex talker or a book reader?

Good grief.

Marsh. 13-06-2017 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357401)
Because everyone watches movies, nobody reads books anymore. I don't have time to waste on reading books, i have actual work to get on with. I don't have hours to waste

The troll in this one is very strong. :joker:

Ant. 13-06-2017 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357393)
That sounds more interesting than discussing books. As a gay guy, I wanna know other people's stories. Since he obviously has nothing better to talk bout because all we say is him being sneaky

Grindr and/or the Experience Project may be more suitable to your tastes

RhysJones 13-06-2017 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9357430)
The troll in this one is very strong. :joker:

I'm a lover as well as a fighter, I guess people like Raph bring out the worst in me

RhysJones 13-06-2017 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Lilbro (Post 9357438)
Grindr and/or the Experience Project may be more suitable to your tastes

You're so right, I do spend a lot of time on grindr. You know me so well

VanessaFeltz. 13-06-2017 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357401)
Because everyone watches movies, nobody reads books anymore. I don't have time to waste on reading books, i have actual work to get on with. I don't have hours to waste

Majority of the people around me enjoy reading books. Your circle of friends doesnt represent "everyone"

Shaun 13-06-2017 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357273)
Films i get, but books. How is knowing what books their into is gonna benefit the relationship and make you like them more

ok ok I get it now. You have no depth.

RhysJones 13-06-2017 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaun (Post 9357553)
ok ok I get it now. You have no depth.

I have plenty of depth, just cos I'm more of an Aaron BB16 than a Christopher bb15/Andy bb17/ Raph bb18 type of gay guy.

Crimson Dynamo 13-06-2017 02:44 PM

As a straight male I would never date a gay guy who did not like to read and I think I speak for all pale straight males

I would probably be the same with a she-male but may make an exception depending on the rack

Shaun 13-06-2017 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 9357603)
As a straight male I would never date a gay guy who did not like to read and I think I speak for all pale straight males

I would probably be the same with a she-male but may make an exception depending on the rack

but what about the stale males? :think:

Niamh. 13-06-2017 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357401)
Because everyone watches movies, nobody reads books anymore. I don't have time to waste on reading books, i have actual work to get on with. I don't have hours to waste

Maybe that's why he asks about books, to weed out the ones who can't be bothered? If you have 2 hours spare to watch a movie why wouldn't you have 2 hours spare to read a book? You're being very silly :nono:

Crimson Dynamo 13-06-2017 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaun (Post 9357604)
but what about the stale males? :think:

darling, I have some standards

:hmph:

Ant. 13-06-2017 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357593)
I have plenty of depth, just cos I'm more of an Aaron BB16 than a Christopher bb15/Andy bb17/ Raph bb18 type of gay guy.

You commit sexual assault and don't understand the concept of no? Wow, you really do spend a lot of time on Grindr

Cherie 13-06-2017 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by RhysJones (Post 9357407)
You find someone being calculative, fake and gameplaying relatable, glad to hear you both share the same qualities

I am calculating and fake it's true :omgno:


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