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08-11-2017 04:01 PM |
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Originally Posted by Cherie
(Post 9685940)
They didn't even try though, surely if a family member is willing to take a child they should make every effort to support the family member with regular visits or something.
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It's hard to say without the full story, but given the circumstances under which she was removed, the fact that she had health issues at birth, and the grandmother's description of a "chaotic lifestyle" its highly likely that the mother was / is a drug addict and was actively taking drugs whilst pregnant. And whilst you can't necessarily make assumptions from that - it is also true to say that addicts often come from troubled families with addiction issues going back a few generations... And if they chose not to allow the grandmother to keep the child citing that she wouldnt be able to cope, I wouldnt be surprised if this was because of drug or alcohol issues concerning the grandmother.
Obviously the poor child didn't end up in any better of a situation and her adoption ended in tragedy, but I wouldn't be so quick to assume that her removal in the first place was in error or the wrong choice in anything but hindsight.
People PUT babies up for adoption for all sorts of reasons... But when a baby is forcibly removed from biological family and put up for adoption, there will be very good reasons for it. Either that or we're not hearing the full story, and the mother made the decision to put her child up for adoption and didn't want her mother to take it.
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