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chuff me dizzy 04-01-2018 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Jamie89 (Post 9767971)
...which has nothing to do with sexuality

Load of BS but to please you I will change my wording ..... No 3 yr old has the capacity to think "Im in the wrong body"

Greg! 04-01-2018 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767972)
Load of BS but to please you I will change my wording ..... No 3 yr old has the capacity to think "Im in the wrong body"

It's not a load of BS; it is a fact. And yes they do.

Jamie89 04-01-2018 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767972)
Load of BS but to please you I will change my wording ..... No 3 yr old has the capacity to think "Im in the wrong body"

I mean it's not BS, it's meaning of words, but anyway, she's stated herself that she had those thoughts at around the age of 3, many transexual people actually state the same, and there's a lot of evidence to show that most children as young as 3 are aware of what gender is and what their own gender is.

chuff me dizzy 04-01-2018 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Greg! (Post 9767973)
It's not a load of BS; it is a fact. And yes they do.

How many 3 yr olds have you had ? Children are sponges they take in what the parents are ramming down their necks daily ,I know that no 3 yr old even thinks about what body they are in be it the right one or "wrong one"

chuff me dizzy 04-01-2018 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Jamie89 (Post 9767975)
I mean it's not BS, it's meaning of words, but anyway, she's stated herself that she had those thoughts at around the age of 3, many transexual people actually state the same, and there's a lot of evidence to show that most children as young as 3 are aware of what gender is and what their own gender is.

She can state what she likes it doesn't mean we all have to believe it

Greg! 04-01-2018 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767976)
How many 3 yr olds have you had ? Children are sponges they take in what the parents are ramming down their necks daily ,I know that no 3 yr old even thinks about what body they are in be it the right one or "wrong one"

I haven't had any kids sis but, believe it or not, I was actually a child myself once, and I remember knowing I was different somehow (i.e gay) when I was about 4. (which is slightly different from gender identity but hopefully you get my point.)

Greg! 04-01-2018 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767977)
She can state what she likes it doesn't mean we all have to believe it

Why would she lie? Why are you so convinced she's being dishonest?

chuff me dizzy 04-01-2018 02:48 PM

My son played with his sisters dolls and my daughter played with her brothers cars ,didn't make either of them in the "wrong body "or gay or lesbian ,it made them children playing !! Ive seen programmes where pushy parents have dressed TODDLERS in the opposite sex clothing claiming the toddlers are happier wearing them

Jordan. 04-01-2018 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767997)
My son played with his sisters dolls and my daughter played with her brothers cars ,didn't make either of them in the "wrong body "or gay or lesbian ,it made them children playing !! Ive seen programmes where pushy parents have dressed TODDLERS in the opposite sex clothing claiming the toddlers are happier wearing them

Your experiences don't equate to every person on earth

Tom4784 04-01-2018 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767923)
If she knew she was in the wrong body she should have done something about it BEFORE she married and had a son, it makes a mockery of it all

I think she was probably worried about being ostracised by the people she loved so she conformed to soceital norms out of fear of attitudes like yours. I assume she got to a point where she decided to didn't want to live a life half lived just to appease people who will never understand the struggle.

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767972)
Load of BS but to please you I will change my wording ..... No 3 yr old has the capacity to think "Im in the wrong body"

Quite wrong.

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767997)
My son played with his sisters dolls and my daughter played with her brothers cars ,didn't make either of them in the "wrong body "or gay or lesbian ,it made them children playing !! Ive seen programmes where pushy parents have dressed TODDLERS in the opposite sex clothing claiming the toddlers are happier wearing them

And none of that has anything to do with people suffering Gender Dysphoria, your straight cisgendered children's experience do not have anything in common with children who are transgender or are of a sexuality that isn't straight. They are not an example of it or proof that it does not exist in children. Your family experiences are not a benchmark that all cases of transgender children must be judged against.

There's power and understanding in empathy, try to see things from other perspectives every once in a while.

chuff me dizzy 04-01-2018 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Jordan. (Post 9768073)
Your experiences don't equate to every person on earth

Neither do your opinions

Jordan. 04-01-2018 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9768153)
Neither do your opinions

Thanks I needed reminding about the basis of an opinion :worry:

Withano 04-01-2018 04:06 PM

Seems very confident. Maybe overconfident. That could get annoying. But I like her so far. Be difficult not to after 2 eps.

RileyH 04-01-2018 04:09 PM

I like her, just not as much as others

Crimson Dynamo 04-01-2018 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Greg! (Post 9767982)
I haven't had any kids sis but, believe it or not, I was actually a child myself once, and I remember knowing I was different somehow (i.e gay) when I was about 4. (which is slightly different from gender identity but hopefully you get my point.)

lol

what ? :joker:

you have regressed a later thought to that age

dont be ridiculous

Gusto Brunt 04-01-2018 04:47 PM

She's clearly very intelligent and won't take any sh**. So maybe that's why...

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Originally Posted by Jake. (Post 9767534)
It’s 2018 and people can’t cope with a woman who used to live as a man, apparently

i wood agree. For some weird reason it annoys a lot of people, when it's none of their business really.

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 9767526)
Taking Ann's bed for a start :nono:

:joker::joker::joker:

Withano 04-01-2018 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767956)
47 years later :idc: And I'm sorry but no 3 year old even realises what sexuality is nor should they

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Originally Posted by Jamie89 (Post 9767964)
What does sexuality have to do with any of it?

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767966)
She's changed sex ?

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Originally Posted by Jamie89 (Post 9767971)
...which has nothing to do with sexuality

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9767972)
Load of BS but to please you I will change my wording ..... No 3 yr old has the capacity to think "Im in the wrong body"



:facepalm: would you actually be up for reading up on the basics, i'll provide links and everything.

Greg! 04-01-2018 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 9768232)
lol

what ? :joker:

you have regressed a later thought to that age

dont be ridiculous

What

Barry. 04-01-2018 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 9767526)
Taking Ann's bed for a start :nono:

Wasn't her bed tough.

Amy Jade 04-01-2018 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 9768232)
lol

what ? :joker:

you have regressed a later thought to that age

dont be ridiculous

It's quite normal to recall thoughts from when you were a toddler, I remember vividly going to my Nan and Grandad's anniversary party and wearing a Mary Kate and Ashley dress and telling everyone about it at about 3 years old

Vicky. 04-01-2018 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Amy Jade (Post 9768505)
It's quite normal to recall thoughts from when you were a toddler, I remember vividly going to my Nan and Grandad's anniversary party and wearing a Mary Kate and Ashley dress and telling everyone about it at about 3 years old

Well yes, some people remember stuff from being 3. However...literally the only difference between the sexes for a 3 year old is stereotypical stuff (well tbh, discounting biological differences even as adults the only differences are stereotypes). So to say you knew you were trans...because you did not like playing with trucks and liked sparkles or whatever is...dodgy.

Even more odd I am finding, is the claim that Greg knew he was gay aged 4 :umm2: A 4 year old does not, or should not, know anything about sexuality or seeing people in a sexual way.

ethanjames 04-01-2018 05:35 PM

I'm quite indifferent about her shes okay though.

Ant. 04-01-2018 05:36 PM

Not that I can speak for Greg, but when I was 4 I knew I was gay. It wasn't anything deep, I just thought the guys on my telly were cute!

Vicky. 04-01-2018 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Lilbro (Post 9768543)
Not that I can speak for Greg, but when I was 4 I knew I was gay. It wasn't anything deep, I just thought the guys on my telly were cute!

Thats so odd to me. I wonder if its me thats different and just assuming that I am 'normal'. Genuinely did not feel any kind of sexual attraction til I was maybe 12 or so. And it is making me feel a little ill considering that 4 year olds could be thinking in that way. My daughter is 5...am slightly worried as I do find that really strange

Amy Jade 04-01-2018 05:38 PM

I started school at 4 and had a boyfriend, perhaps Greg was in a similar situation but found himself liking boys...


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