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Livia 27-01-2020 10:32 PM

I thought he came across as completely unprepared for the interest in him from the moment they announced they were a couple. I think he was right when he said the Palace should have prepped him and given him some advice. Also interesting to learn that he released the letter because quotes had already been leaked by Meghan's "friends" and the edit altered the content, and not in his favour. He's not been smart... but no one knows any more about her father than they do about Meghan.

jet 27-01-2020 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764666)
Jeez no one asked for War and Peace. I don’t need to argue against your opinion, it’s set in stone so why would I waste my time

As for your life experience Dezzy, yes we all have had life experience you don’t corner the market on that

its funny that the narcissist didn’t appear until he was 70 plus, Meghan was in the public eye long before she met Harry

Finally don’t go on the attack if you can’t take it, stick to the topic at hand

Exactly. Meghan displays narcisstistic traits, its ridiculous to say her father does though..:laugh:

Alf 27-01-2020 10:46 PM

It's all a smoke-screen.

It's what the media ain't talking about that should concern us.

Marsh. 27-01-2020 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764666)
its funny that the narcissist didn’t appear until he was 70 plus, Meghan was in the public eye long before she met Harry

I doubt the world's media were knocking on his door when she was in Suits.
When she was marrying a Prince, however.

And we can't say "the narcissist didn't appear until he was 70 plus" as we don't know their relationship.

Twosugars 27-01-2020 11:01 PM

We can all see now just why she cut him out of her life. The guy is a toxic psycho.

GoldHeart 28-01-2020 01:22 AM

Plus it's so easy to label Meghan as the bad person, when non of us knows what went on behind closed doors in private . There's alot we don't know apart from the clear money grabbing we're seeing from Thomas & Samantha who are bitter.

In that terrible documentary they showed a clip of her saying she's not visiting her dad at that particular time as they're not on the best of terms. It's so easy to twist things for a narrative. What child doesn't have disagreements with their parents??? .

He tries to paint himself as a saint when all I see is a blood sucking parasite , he thinks having home videos of his daughter and him pushing for sympathy over the press treatment is what makes him a good dad . I see straight through him.

Tom4784 28-01-2020 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 10764733)
Because Mr. Markle is unwisely doing what he is doing, doesn’t make Meghan blameless in the least. She is the instigator of his obvious desperation. He doted on her her whole life and they were close, that much was obvious from the documentary videos. He gave her the best education he could, she went to some pretty expensive schools.
He was left to deal with the paps camped outside his door and following him around with no help or guidance, she doesn’t even have the respect to introduce him to Harry.
Then he makes one mistake of getting pap photos taken to boost his image, and WHAM! He is told off by the future son in law who hadn’t even met him.
When he has heart surgery and can’t attend the wedding, that is the end of the road. Not a word from his loving daughter since, not even to ask how the surgery went or how he is. What kind of daughter does THAT for so little reason?
He tries to talk to her, but she changes her phone number. He sends her text after text (he says he has them as proof) and - nothing.
Mr. Markle has been quiet since way before Archies birth and in the 8 months since until now, prompted by the whole Megxit debacle….and she still hasn’t relented. I think he fears she never will. He’s a desperate, angry old man and the press are taking adantage of his desperation.
Neither of them have conducted themselves well, but IMO Meghan’s behavior is worse.

I think people need to consider whether they truly want to show support to a bad parent that would sell out their own daughter just because they don't like the daughter in question.

The man is a leech, it takes a particularly **** parent to sell out their own children for a paycheck and I think any decent parent would be outraged at the thought. The man is acting like he is entitled to be in Meghan's life when he's betrayed her terribly by undermining her struggles in the press.

I don't know how you can look at this situation logically and think that Thomas is a victim in any sense of the word. You cannot sell your own child out to the press and act like a victim if they turn their back on you.

bots 28-01-2020 03:44 AM

Meghan and Harry have both said they are not in a good place mentally, the father doesn't look to be in a good place either. How anyone can cast judgement on either party is beyond me with a story driven by the media's thirst for a drama. I find it all tasteless and a matter best left private.

thesheriff443 28-01-2020 03:51 AM

Any member can give an opinion in this section and they don’t have to justify it to anyone else!

It’s their opinion based on what they have seen or read and that’s basically believe half of what you see and non of what you hear.

Im not going to spend a lifetime arguing with people I don’t know over people I don’t know.

People can support who they want for what ever reason.

Ammi 28-01-2020 04:55 AM

...with some of the headlines that he’s creating by ‘speaking out’ and giving these interviews, I have to say that it’s becoming really difficult to find a point of understanding with Thomas Markle...’he’ll give a monthly interview until he and Meghan are in touch again’...and what purpose will that monthly interview have other than to make it more and more unlikely that he’ll have that contact with his daughter...?...he may have ‘been unprepared’ before but he has become very prepared in the media and what they will draw from the things he says...and he keeps on saying them and intends to keep on saying them...it’s very difficult to feel that as healing’ between them is something he’s even seeking...’he brands his daughter ‘preaching’...(..about global warming..)...’...is another headline ...I just cringe at how much he’s giving the Meghan critical media, the bullets to fire at her...the reason that she and Harry have made their decision, one of the reasons...is the critical media...and what he’s doing is aligning himself with the critical media...drip, drip, dripping the bullets into their hands...

...something that he has reportedly said makes no sense at all and is quite toxic tbh...it’s of his relationship with Doria....


‘He met Doria at ABC. "I found her very attractive," Thomas recalls.

"Not everybody seems to approve of those kind of relationships," he added with regards to being in a mixed-race relationship. "People would look at Doria like she was a housekeeper. It wasn't fair. Of course it wasn't fair.‘

...the same words and interview has been recorded on quite a few sites, so I’ll presume he said those words....through his relationship with Doria, he has know and personally felt prejudice because of heritage and skin colour...and yet of his daughter....he has completely dismissed it as a factor, when it’s something that she and Harry have discussed...so much of what he says just feels as though it’s manipulated and tilted against Meghan because he knows ‘that’s the story the media want to hear’....he may not have been the most media savvy person at the start but he seems like a guy of intelligence ...and why he would even agree to be interviewed by Piers at all...the man who shows nothing but unreasonable contempt for his daughter, the daughter he hopes to reunite with..?...it just makes no sense at all...well, the only sense that can be made is that he’s prepared to sacrifice any possible future understanding between them....and that’s his choice, but he has to take responsibility for and live with his choice...

Cherie 28-01-2020 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764731)
Yet attacking me isn't a waste of time? If I did the same to you, we wouldn't hear the end of it.

Also if you aren't here to talk about the issues then why are you even in Serious Debates? It comes with the territory. It seems pointless to attack people for having a discussion with you and then disregard what they saying because it's not convenient for you.

You misunderstood what I was getting at with the experience thing and I assume you did so on purpose because I happened to be the one to post it.

He just so happened to appear when she seemed to cut him out of her life which is typical narcissist behaviour. Normally it would just be an endless barrage of messages or turning up where you work, trying to impose their will on you in the hopes you'll give in to save yourself public embarrassment and then regardless of how you respond, out comes the victim act to paint you as the bad guy to others in an attempt to isolate you. What he is doing is no different, it's just that he is using a media that's nothing short of volatile towards her to do it. If you disagree with what I'm saying, say why.

As for your last line, take your own advice considering you were the first one to go on the attack with this post.



You tried to devalue my views by making out that I wasn't entitled to them if I wasn't a psychologist. Let's not rewrite history, shall we? Let's stick to the topc now, shall we? This isn't about me, it's about a narcissistic parent.



If you feel devalued that is on you? I don't know why you are getting so worked up about me pointing out that you aren't qualified to diagnose the man with complexes based on a few interviews, but if you feel you are qualified then you do you, I don't have to accept your diagnoses! maybe take your own advice and stop getting personal and telling me how I feel towards Meghan and we wouldn't be having this conversation, so we can agree on something this isn't about me either its about the interview with Thomas Markle.

As for supporting, its not a case of support, I am not coming down in favour of him or her, I do find some of their behaviour towards him odd, and I am perfectly entitled to that view. I have also acknowledged he didn't handle the press very well initially but I do think he was left to his own devices and should have perhaps been guided by the palace in how to deal with the press.

user104658 28-01-2020 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Alf (Post 10764745)
It's all a smoke-screen.

It's what the media ain't talking about that should concern us.

I agree and smoke-screening happens a lot. In this case it seems to be that people want their royal drama - but they do NOT want to talk about the fact that the FBI want to talk to Andrew about Epstein and the underage sex allegations but are being refused by him/the palace.

jet 28-01-2020 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 10764773)
I think people need to consider whether they truly want to show support to a bad parent that would sell out their own daughter just because they don't like the daughter in question.

The man is a leech, it takes a particularly **** parent to sell out their own children for a paycheck and I think any decent parent would be outraged at the thought. The man is acting like he is entitled to be in Meghan's life when he's betrayed her terribly by undermining her struggles in the press.

I don't know how you can look at this situation logically and think that Thomas is a victim in any sense of the word. You cannot sell your own child out to the press and act like a victim if they turn their back on you.

I don’t support him giving interviews; I never said I agree with what he is doing. I was laying out how the estrangement by all accounts is said to have happened. The reasons she turned her back on him initially weren't that terrible, especially as she had neglected him at a time when he was all at sea with the huge impact of what was happening, and not even shown the respect of meeting Harry.
I don’t know how any adult could ignore their father’s heart surgery. She should have been over there as soon after the wedding as possible to visit him, but she didn’t even ask him how it went or indeed inquire after his health at all subsequently. How could anyone think that was fine? Instead Harry berated him while lying in his hospital bed. Disgusting.

Mr. Markle strikes me as desperate, angry, confused, sad, frustrated and probably in need of money to pay for his ongoing poor health issues. Meghan strikes me as cold, unforgiving, shallow, self - absorbed, fame hungry, and a serious grudge holder.
She has a history of discarding people when they are no longer of use to her. Her former friends before Suits (all her ‘friends’ now are rich and/or famous), her extended family, her former husband who was discarded in a cruel way (and who was the one who got acting roles to begin with), and now the royal family. When there is a pattern, there is a big red flag. I just don’t think she is a nice person, period.

user104658 28-01-2020 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 10764733)
Because Mr. Markle is unwisely doing what he is doing, doesn’t make Meghan blameless in the least. She is the instigator of his obvious desperation. He doted on her her whole life and they were close, that much was obvious from the documentary videos. He gave her the best education he could, she went to some pretty expensive schools.
He was left to deal with the paps camped outside his door and following him around with no help or guidance, she doesn’t even have the respect to introduce him to Harry.
Then he makes one mistake of getting pap photos taken to boost his image, and WHAM! He is told off by the future son in law who hadn’t even met him.
When he has heart surgery and can’t attend the wedding, that is the end of the road. Not a word from his loving daughter since, not even to ask how the surgery went or how he is. What kind of daughter does THAT for so little reason?
He tries to talk to her, but she changes her phone number. He sends her text after text (he says he has them as proof) and - nothing.
Mr. Markle has been quiet since way before Archies birth and in the 8 months since until now, prompted by the whole Megxit debacle….and she still hasn’t relented. I think he fears she never will. He’s a desperate, angry old man and the press are taking adantage of his desperation.
Neither of them have conducted themselves well, but IMO Meghan’s behavior is worse.

Like I said earlier it doesn't matter to me one bit if they're "both to blame" or even if she's 100% to blame for the rift between them. He is her father and selling out to the press for... what? Revenge? Or just for cold hard cash? Unfathomable. And nah if he'd do that to his daughter then no way would I be allowing him any involvement with his grandchild.

Marsh. 28-01-2020 09:01 AM

So now even when he is uncategorically at fault, that too is Meghan's fault?

Are people not responsible for their own sh*tty actions or something? Laughable.

user104658 28-01-2020 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 10764828)
Mr. Markle strikes me as desperate, angry, confused, sad, frustrated and probably in need of money to pay for his ongoing poor health issues. Meghan strikes me as cold, unforgiving, shallow, self - absorbed, fame hungry, and a serious grudge holder.
She has a history of discarding people when they are no longer of use to her. Her former friends before Suits (all her ‘friends’ now are rich and/or famous), her extended family, her former husband who was discarded in a cruel way (and who was the one who got acting roles to begin with), and now the royal family. When there is a pattern, there is a big red flag. I just don’t think she is a nice person, period.

Thing is even if all of that is true, that's her and Harry's business. If she's literally awful and he wants to be with her more than he wants to be a Royal - that's entirely his prerogative. Because I'm pretty sure jet, as astute as you might be, I'm thinking you PROBABLY don't know Meghan better than her husband knows her. To think that you do would be astounding? SO if she is all of those things and he wants to be with her, then you can be pretty sure that... he must be those things, too? And yet 90% of the flak cannons are pointed directly at Meghan with Harry painted as some poor little cuckold victim powerless to stop such a monster. Ask yourself why.

Marsh. 28-01-2020 09:08 AM

Her father sells her out to gutter press and Meghan is the serious grudge holder? :think:

The twisting of the truth to even try and justify the disproportionate hate for the woman gets ever more ridiculous.

Cherie 28-01-2020 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10764827)
I agree and smoke-screening happens a lot. In this case it seems to be that people want their royal drama - but they do NOT want to talk about the fact that the FBI want to talk to Andrew about Epstein and the underage sex allegations but are being refused by him/the palace.

That is true, I started a thread on this after his interview I think about 4 people commented :laugh:

user104658 28-01-2020 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 10764838)
Her father sells her out to gutter press and Meghan is the serious grudge holder? :think:

The twisting of the truth to even try and justify the disproportionate hate for the woman gets ever more ridiculous.

If he "just" wanted his side of the story to be heard (though I don't even agree with that) he could have made a YouTube video and it would get millions of views over night. But nah he's in the rags and bawling at bloody Piers Morgan about it.

user104658 28-01-2020 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764839)
That is true, I started a thread on this after his interview I think about 4 people commented :laugh:

If The Sun did a poll;

"Who is worse?

A) Meghan Markle, new mum who wants to relocate.

B) Prince Andrew, at best someone who has determinedly protected and enabled sex trafficking and other criminal activity by turning a blind eye... at worst an actual sex offender himself.


Sun readers would respond 97% A.

Marsh. 28-01-2020 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10764840)
If he "just" wanted his side of the story to be heard (though I don't even agree with that) he could have made a YouTube video and it would get millions of views over night. But nah he's in the rags and bawling at bloody Piers Morgan about it.

Ugh, I literally can't watch GMB. He is odious. Susannah must be on a fortune to sit next to him and listen to the guff.

Cherie 28-01-2020 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10764844)
If The Sun did a poll;

"Who is worse?

A) Meghan Markle, new mum who wants to relocate.

B) Prince Andrew, at best someone who has determinedly protected and enabled sex trafficking and other criminal activity by turning a blind eye... at worst an actual sex offender himself.


Sun readers would respond 97% A.

well yes I would agree

Currently Prince Andrew is being discussed on the Emma Barton show on Radio 5 live

Marsh. 28-01-2020 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10764846)
well yes I would agree

Currently Prince Andrew is being discussed on the Emma Barton show on Radio 5 live

I was about to make a comment but Barton isn't the spice girl. Ruining me jokes. :idc:

jet 28-01-2020 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10764829)
Like I said earlier it doesn't matter to me one bit if they're "both to blame" or even if she's 100% to blame for the rift between them. He is her father and selling out to the press for... what? Revenge? Or just for cold hard cash? Unfathomable. And nah if he'd do that to his daughter then no way would I be allowing him any involvement with his grandchild.

Why keep saying, 'he is her father' and not 'she is his daughter' when she ignored his heart surgery and turned her back on him for initially little reason, really. All the criticism is of him. Cause and effect shouldn't be ignored.
What he is doing now is wrong, obviously. He kept his head down for a long time in the hope of seeing his future grandchild, to no avail. I don't think money is the main motivator, according to Meghan herself, he was always massivley generous and giving. I think he's very very angry at her, with good reason, imo, but he's losing the plot now.
This could all have been avoided with the manners of introducing Harry to him pre - wedding, making sure he was protected and helped or even bringing him to the UK for a week or two to give him advice and help him feel included when the news broke and he was inundated with press attention.
He is her father, after all, one she professed to adore before she met Harry.

Marsh. 28-01-2020 09:27 AM

Yes, let's offer her father the benefit of the doubt (you know, despite his words and actions being there in print and on camera) but burn Meghan based on ifs, buts and maybes.


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