Yep I thought this too. She didn’t really have a response to this because it was true so I’m glad that he pointed this out.

Khaled ethered her in that interaction on the sofa. I was pleasantly surprised. She's a complete hypocrite.

He's 23 and showed alot more maturity and intelligence in his little toe ,than she had in her whole being. She's basically hot air of psycho babble :idc: .

Absolutely, you don't believe in defending yourself?

Trouble again between Ali and Khaled
 

It just didn’t sit right as he said it


This person explains it better - especially the last sentence

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Is Khaled not proving Ali’s point with that statement “it’s hard to do good things. Everyone’s got selfish desires. God know I wanna say some **** […] If someone starts throwing daggers at me, I throw a lot harder. I’ve been nice and smiley but ….. “

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No it doesn't

He's human,we all have a breaking point...I'm sure even Rosie would snap if she was pushed hard enough,and she's the most happy go lucky housemate in there ,they all must get angry and upset.

He actually said he’d been nice and smiley but. … meaning he hasn’t been showing his true emotions/feelings .

Isn’t that exactly what Ali accused him of doing?


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I hope he continues to handle Ali the way he has done, he has showed her up for being cold and calculating. He has dealt with the matter really well. Ali is 38 and been really awful towards him.

He's actually proved he's more mature aswell, I'm pleased he stood up to her .

Not bad for a nice boy

From what Ali said in the diary room last night about her girlfriend and family being disappointed she hasn't flown under the radar and said all the right things to stay in, she's a bit pissed that Khaled is managing to do just that and so she is going after him.

Just my take on it and I could be way off. I do wish Ali would just take a breath, stop analysing everything and try and enjoy it. She's a great housemate but she is going to ruin her own experience if she doesn't chill a little

Loads of people online suggesting Ali may have quit last night hence no live stream


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That will be a real shame if she has.
I don't like it when anyone quits

Ajay confirmed she hadn’t though.

…yeah, I think this take also…I’m not sure though because of her tendency to overthink so much, whether she would be able to continue and settle and chill because I don’t think she can help herself, either….but time will tell as you say…(…if she’s neither evicted or walks…)…

and we saw in the house live at 10.45pm

Ali in the diary room was self indulgent waffle
I could of said all the right things and my housemates and public would of swallowed it whole because I’m that good

I think with Kahled, Ali has a pre conceived perception of the way muslim men are with women and she is trying in her head to justify her hatred of muslim men by nit picking at kahled and everything he says.

Anyway, I hope she walks to save us a boring interview.

I can understand your response, as even though I understand why Ali might have behaved as she did, on this occasion, I don’t think she handled the situation well, and I didn’t like how she made her accusations and humiliated Khaled in a very public way, even though to her, she probably perceived her behaviour as honest, genuine and direct.

If she felt this way, it would have been kinder and more appropriate to have discussed it with Khaled in a personal, rather than public setting.

I do kind of agree that her perception of Khaled has been influenced and formed with her professional head on, rather than from norms of behaviour in a social setting - the first approach of which she would find a confident and comfortable way of thinking, whilst the second would be much more difficult for her to understand. Autistic people can become quite fixated on an idea, and I feel that Ali has made a judgement of Khaled that she cannot now shake off, and which might influence her perception of everything he does in future. I don’t personally agree with her perception, or find her judgement justified.

Even though I might understand why she may have behaved as she did, I don’t believe she chose the right approach on this occasion, and I do wonder whether she might recognise that when she has had some time to think.

True.

It says absolutely nothing of the sort, he's saying if someone attacks his character he will do that same. Wouldn't most people stick up for themselves?

That's not at all what that means, he had no reason not to be nice and smiley until someone called him fake

I appreciate your response Garfie :wavey:

I know Ali is on the spectrum , but It also feels like she can't just accept that Khaled might just be a normal guy . She seems to be dissecting him constantly, she needs to stop analysing him .

I joked in another thread ...that if BB allowed writing tools , she'd probably be robotically nodding her head
whilst jotting down notes as Khaled is trying to get his
point across.

She may think she's giving her honest direct opinion, but the third degree she's now giving Khaled over his nomination twist - decision is just ridiculous,the guy had to choose something,and either way people would be complaining . A damned if he does & damned if he doesn't situation :shrug:.

And now hearing on L& L exclusive that Ali was threatening to leave, I'm sorry it just gives me " my game plan failed " energy . I don't think she expected Khaled to stand up to her in such a strong mature way . She obviously sees him as a silly boy or something. But I think he acted alot better than she did ,he explained his reasons. And you can tell it's frustrating for him to constantly be attacked.

He was even trying to persuade her to stay , but I guess she wanted her melodramatic moment. Plus she's still running away from Khaled & dismissing him . He was trying to put their differences aside by looks of it. She's being so difficult.