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GoldHeart 20-10-2024 05:08 PM

Looking is different to actually cheating, if all you're doing is acknowledging that other men exist....and that you also find them attractive,then I think that's ok. But if you are trying to contact them ,flirty etc then that's wrong:shrug: .

Benjamin 20-10-2024 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11538027)
Looking is different to actually cheating, if all you're doing is acknowledging that other men exist....and that you also find them attractive,then I think that's ok. But if you are trying to contact them ,flirty etc then that's wrong:shrug: .

Agreed.

Crimson Dynamo 20-10-2024 05:12 PM

Making sure you delete your browsing history is also very good for a healthy relationship.
Finding searches for "Carol Kirkwood topless" and "Fern Cotton bikini hot" I just think
would just sow seeds of doubt in your partner. Also it would piss you off why they were
looking at your history the nosy feckers



:oh:

GoldHeart 20-10-2024 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Ray. (Post 11537578)
Well this thread took a rather interesting turn

Popcorn 🍿 :whistle::eyes:

GoldGlitter 20-10-2024 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo (Post 11538020)
not Ben doing a Nathan 360

:omgno:

Straight people would love that.

GoldGlitter 21-10-2024 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 11538024)
:joker:

Don’t or I’ll get told off again.

There is always that one token gay man in a group of straights.

Benjamin 21-10-2024 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11538849)
There is always that one token gay man in a group of straights.

Jealous it’s not you? ;)

GoldGlitter 21-10-2024 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 11538983)
Jealous it’s not you? ;)

Not jealous and don't care about social status. Its the way you treat other gay men compared to straights.

When women are flirting with you you're giving them hearts and when a straight man says you can change your sexual orientation you laugh.

Kazanne 21-10-2024 09:28 AM

I see no harm in window shopping,nothing wrong to just looking,we all admire nice things and I've pressed the one choice on the poll.!!! should have been it's ok to look

Cherie 21-10-2024 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11539022)
Not jealous and don't care about social status. Its the way you treat other gay men compared to straights.

When women are flirting with you you're giving them hearts and when a straight man says you can change your sexual orientation you laugh.

Tbf to Ben, we have known him for years ..... :shrug: he plays nice with other gay men he has known for years as well, he is just a bit wary of you as it seems you tried to hook up within days of joining the forum...I would be wary of you too if you were straight :hee:

GoldGlitter 21-10-2024 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11539112)
Tbf to Ben, we have known him for years ..... :shrug: he plays nice with other gay men he has known for years as well, he is just a bit wary of you as it seems you tried to hook up within days of joining the forum...I would be wary of you too if you were straight :hee:

What a stupid point. Because you have been here longer than gives you more right to flirt. This you saying you have crush on men while being married. I'm single

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Benjamin 21-10-2024 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11539022)
Not jealous and don't care about social status. Its the way you treat other gay men compared to straights.

When women are flirting with you you're giving them hearts and when a straight man says you can change your sexual orientation you laugh.

No thank you. I know with Cherie and co it’s banter as I know them. You, I have no idea who you are and it wasn’t banter. I speak with several other gay men on this forum without an issue.

Cherie 21-10-2024 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11539123)
What a stupid point. Because you have been here longer than gives you more right to flirt. This you saying you have crush on men while being married. I'm single

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Yeah its called friendship built up over many years..... I dont flirt with him either it was a tongue in cheek comment :laugh:

Just because you are single does not give you the right to approach someone inappropriately

You need to learn from your mistake here and take your time before you barge in, I am sure you are a decent person irl

also you have a very similar name to someone else on here and initially I thought you were GlitterUK with a new name

GoldGlitter 21-10-2024 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11539130)
Yeah its called friendship built up over many years..... I dont flirt with him either it was a tongue in cheek comment :laugh:

Just because you are single does not give you the right to approach someone inappropriately

You need to learn from your mistake here and take your time before you barge in, I am sure you are a decent person irl

also you have a very similar name to someone else on here and initially I thought you were GlitterUK with a new name


I didn't know when setting up the account that it would be similar to other peoples name. I didn't know how to change it and even asked someone.

Cherie 21-10-2024 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11539135)
I didn't know when setting up the account that it would be similar to other peoples name. I didn't know how to change it and even asked someone.

ah yeah I get that you can request a name change if you want by pming admin James, but its fine really its not that similar, how are you enjoying BB?

This is James if you want a name change

https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/for...d.php?t=393426

GoldGlitter 21-10-2024 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11539137)
ah yeah I get that you can request a name change if you want by pming admin James, but its fine really its not that similar, how are you enjoying BB?

I'm ok for the name change. It easy to remember because I have a gold glitter lamp when I'm watching BB. I'm enjoying it. What about you.

Cherie 21-10-2024 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11539141)
I'm ok for the name change. It easy to remember because I have a gold glitter lamp when I'm watching BB. I'm enjoying it. What about you.

cute, yeah really enjoying it, good mix of people I think, and decent amount of drama that is not overly manufactured by the producers, the tasks have been excellent so far

GoldGlitter 22-10-2024 03:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 11539127)
No thank you. I know with Cherie and co it’s banter as I know them. You, I have no idea who you are and it wasn’t banter. I speak with several other gay men on this forum without an issue.

It's fine I won't engage with you anymore while on here. That will suit me just fine. Saying I’m not going to post what you said, I’m not a douchebag. You still mentioned the messages anyway.

Benjamin 22-10-2024 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11540990)
It's fine I won't engage with you anymore while on here. That will suit me just fine. Saying I’m not going to post what you said, I’m not a douchebag. You still mentioned the messages anyway.

Because you’re publicly saying I’m ignoring you (which has non relevance to this thread). Hence I provided you an answer why. Don’t try paint me as the one who has done anything wrong.

GoldGlitter 23-10-2024 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 11541569)
Because you’re publicly saying I’m ignoring you (which has non relevance to this thread). Hence I provided you an answer why. Don’t try paint me as the one who has done anything wrong.

You're admitting you were ignoring my questions "Hence I provided you an answer why" All I did was point out what you did. It's you that labelled it as wrong. You were lapping up the compliments. Stop acting like you're the virgin Mary because I bet you slept around when you were at uni.

GoldGlitter 23-10-2024 01:14 AM

Please never go into a gay bar Ben. The drag queen might ask if you're a top bottom or side. You will run out hyperventilating.

Benjamin 23-10-2024 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11542652)
You're admitting you were ignoring my questions "Hence I provided you an answer why" All I did was point out what you did. It's you that labelled it as wrong. You were lapping up the compliments. Stop acting like you're the virgin Mary because I bet you slept around when you were at uni.

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Originally Posted by GoldGlitter (Post 11542659)
Please never go into a gay bar Ben. The drag queen might ask if you're a top bottom or side. You will run out hyperventilating.

You know nothing about me. You’ve been on here all of 2 weeks. Don’t like people ignoring you or calling you out, then don’t send inappropriate messages. Simple as that really.

Beso 23-10-2024 06:13 PM

I'm never going out again with all you perverts looking me up and down.


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