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reece(: 25-08-2013 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331759)
But the judgements made about her because of it is sexism which is just as serious as racism - but I don't see people get hot under the collar about that.

I'm waiting for another age card.... Ron old and innocent, Charlotte young and guilty etc. You can never win around here.

MrWong 25-08-2013 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by megamaja40 (Post 6331705)
Jeez are they for real?..... Why not give charlotte a warning about the crude stuff she's saying?

You think being crude is the same as offensively stereotyping muslims?

Ammi 25-08-2013 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331723)
Both. He said himself - that once it was pointed out to him, he could see their point, but at the time it hadn't occurred to him.

And that was likely to be partly because of the attitudes he grew up with typical of his generation and partly to do with not being able to think quickly enough about every word he says before saying it.

..I definitely believe he doesn't think about what he's saying but that doesn't mean that he didn't deserve a warning for it or that we should just say, awww, no worries, he's just a bit old, BB shouldn't give him a warning..there are lots of older people, most older people who don't make any reference to race.... he's not in that era now, he's perfectly able to function successfully in this era in every other way..except that he doesn't think enough about what he says...

Verbal 25-08-2013 10:05 PM

PC brigade, prepare to have a breakdown


MrWong 25-08-2013 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 6331718)
That's like the club comedians who warn the audience that the next joke is going to be 'a bit blue' and then tell a p*ki joke. Hilarious. All in good humour, bit naughty, not for the kiddies, but only having a laugh. No harm done. Nothing meant by it.

Except there is harm done. It all adds to the general anti-muslim noise in our society.

And maybe some 'ordinary muslims' might laugh and take no offence. Some others might laugh along and not show they're stung by it. Because it's all just banter right?

It's all banter 'til some ****wit petrol bombs a mosque, or spraypaints 'Al Qaeda' on a muslim family's front door. It's all banter til members of your community are getting stopped and searched on a semi-regular basis because they look a bit suspicious in this climate of Islamaphobia.

Does it make him a bad man? No. Does it warrant some kind of censure? Absolutely.

And I do wish people would stop wheeling out the age thing. He's quick thinking enough to come up with snappy comments and one liners. It is rather unfortunate that some of his humour seems founded in racial stereotypes.

Well said!

sassysocks 25-08-2013 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 6331765)
There are quite a few people getting 'hot under the collar' about that. Just not in this thread.

It is possible to be bothered about both at the same time.

Oh yes I know that - but unfortunately I see many throwing around sexist comments and then getting in a tiss about racist ones. Annoys the hell out of me because it is double standards.

brucie 25-08-2013 10:07 PM

As soon as he said it, I thought 'you disgusting pig'...and I am shocked he hasn't been removed.

He said it so casually and he knew he was on tv...imagine what he says in his own house or the pub or the golf club etc.

barbel13 25-08-2013 10:08 PM

Thank you to all who defended the muslims community.This prove we have decent,caring and honest people in the uk who are offended by Ron comment.

All across Europe including UK there are girls and women who wear the Hijab (head scarf) going about their own business not hurting anyone and have their Hijab ripped from their head.Some women were spitted at on their face and some were slapped because they are muslims.In Germany a women was stabbed to death with her unborn baby because she wore the head scarf.


Remember the holocaust, same thing happened to the Jews and millions died.We must not let this happen again to another community.


Ron was wrong to say the joke but I believe he did not realised the offence he will cause and I forgive him for this.


Yours

Mohammad(A Muslim)

reece(: 25-08-2013 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331795)
Oh yes I know that - but unfortunately I see many throwing around sexist comments and then getting in a tiss about racist ones. Annoys the hell out of me because it is double standards.

God knows where these "sexist comments" you speak of are coming from.

karezza 25-08-2013 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Jamie. (Post 6331767)
I was gob smacked when he said it. It was racist no matter what way you look at it, it stereotyped Muslims (or religions that wear head scarves) to be a terrorist.

It was definitely justified.

Islam isn't a race. :wavey:

MrWong 25-08-2013 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331810)
God knows where these "sexist comments" you speak of are coming from.

It's usually brought up to derail threads.

Verbal 25-08-2013 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by barbel13 (Post 6331809)
Thank you to all who defended the muslims community.This prove we have decent,caring and honest people in the uk who are offended by Ron comment.

All across Europe including UK there are girls and women who wear the Hijab (head scarf) going about their own business not hurting anyone and have their Hijab ripped from their head.Some women were spitted at on their face and some were slapped because they are muslims.In Germany a women was stabbed to death with her unborn baby because she wore the head scarf.


Remember the holocaust, same thing happened to the Jews and millions died.We must not let this happen again to another community.


Ron was wrong to say the joke but I believe he did not realised the offence he will cause and I forgive him for this.


Yours

Mohammad(A Muslim)

Are we really comparing the Holocaust to an ex football manager making a comment about a woman wearing a blanket on a reality tv show? really?

sassysocks 25-08-2013 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331660)
:crazy:
He wasn't stressed whatsoever, he's been calm and collected the whole time..
http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4072/4...34432d1d_z.jpg

Do you think stressed people all run around clucking like chickens or something? Are you a medical professional who can assess who is/isn't stressed on or off a tv show?

If he wasn't stressed before, he certainly will be now.

Ammi 25-08-2013 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by brucie (Post 6331804)
As soon as he said it, I thought 'you disgusting pig'...and I am shocked he hasn't been removed.

..I think removing him would definitely be an over reaction..he's hardly a 'disgusting pig' for making a stupid joke...

brucie 25-08-2013 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by CynicalHermit (Post 6331834)
Are we really comparing the Holocaust to an ex football manager making a comment about a woman wearing a blanket on a reality tv show? really?

Every day you see hatred against Muslims..not a day goes past that the daily mail or the SUN prints a story designed to whip up animosity towards muslims.

brucie 25-08-2013 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 6331842)
..I think removing him would definitely be an over reaction..he's hardly a 'disgusting pig' for making a stupid joke...

but his career ended on what you call ' a stupid joke'...the fact he hasn't learned means he must be really thick...really nasty or both.

Marsh. 25-08-2013 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 6331842)
..I think removing him would definitely be an over reaction..he's hardly a 'disgusting pig' for making a stupid joke...

Exactly, those kinds of jokes don't necessarily make the person saying them racist or evil incarnate but as mentioned by someone else in the thread it does add to society's perception of people and emphasises stereotypes so BB was right to pull him up just to say mind your language, watch what you're saying. He accepted it and moved on.

barbel13 25-08-2013 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by CynicalHermit (Post 6331834)
Are we really comparing the Holocaust to an ex football manager making a comment about a woman wearing a blanket on a reality tv show? really?

remember massacre usually start with one and end up millions:nono: died.

Ammi 25-08-2013 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by brucie (Post 6331860)
but his career ended on what you call ' a stupid joke'...the fact he hasn't learned means he must be really thick...really nasty or both.

....the joke was what he said on BB..?...and yeah, I do believe he can't be the brightest person to have made the joke, and he war rightfully warned for it..

Verbal 25-08-2013 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by barbel13 (Post 6331874)
remember massacre usually start with one and end up millions:nono: died.

What?

In what universe is this in any way comparable to Ron bloody Atkinson?

sassysocks 25-08-2013 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331810)
God knows where these "sexist comments" you speak of are coming from.

Stereotyping and name calling female contestants for behaviour not condemned in male contestants happens every year on BB and has happened again with Hazel and Charlotte this year and is blatant sexism. You don't seem to even recognise sexism - yet you condemn Ron for failing to recognise racism. You just proved my point. :xyxwave:

karezza 25-08-2013 10:16 PM

What has happened to the British sense of humour.

Big Ron to win.:joker:

reece(: 25-08-2013 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331836)
Do you think stressed people all run around clucking like chickens or something? Are you a medical professional who can assess who is/isn't stressed on or off a tv show?

If he wasn't stressed before, he certainly will be now.

Do you even watch the show? He's had the chat with BB and gotten over it, moved on. As seen by on the latest clips. You're claiming to be inside Ron's head at the moment...http://i1190.photobucket.com/albums/...r/8f70c6ea.gif

reece(: 25-08-2013 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331889)
Stereotyping and name calling female contestants for behaviour not condemned in male contestants happens every year on BB and has happened again with Hazel and Charlotte this year and is blatant sexism. You don't seem to even recognise sexism - yet you condemn Ron for failing to recognise racism. You just proved my point. :xyxwave:

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The desperation is blatant.

erinp5 25-08-2013 10:18 PM

Tomorrows Star (front page)
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megamaja40 25-08-2013 10:19 PM

Ffs everyone needs to cop on here it was not racism it was a joke..... Probably in bad taste.... Been blown out of proportion here... If someone makes a joke about about my race I laugh at it and make one back

reece(: 25-08-2013 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by megamaja40 (Post 6331913)
If someone makes a joke about about my race I laugh at it and make one back

Good for you.. that doesn't make it ok, others may take offence.

sassysocks 25-08-2013 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by MrWong (Post 6331829)
It's usually brought up to derail threads.

I think not - just pointing out the obvious double standards that people responsible for them don't want to see.

brucie 25-08-2013 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by megamaja40 (Post 6331913)
Ffs everyone needs to cop on here it was not racism it was a joke..... Probably in bad taste.... Been blown out of proportion here... If someone makes a joke about about my race I laugh at it and make one back

Ever heard of the term 'uncle tom'...if not check this out..

The phrase "Uncle Tom" has also become an epithet for a person who is slavish and excessively subservient to perceived authority figures, particularly a black person who behaves in a subservient manner to white people; or any person perceived to be a participant in the oppression of their own group

MrWong 25-08-2013 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by megamaja40 (Post 6331913)
Ffs everyone needs to cop on here it was not racism it was a joke..... Probably in bad taste.... Been blown out of proportion here... If someone makes a joke about about my race I laugh at it and make one back

Not many are calling it racism.

Was he offensively stereotyping a group of people? Yes and he was rightly warned for it.

reece(: 25-08-2013 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MrWong (Post 6331829)
It's usually brought up to derail threads.

It's desperate straw grasping.. if BB found Charlotte to be offensive she would have been warned. Ron was warned for being offensive. That's the valid conclusion.

DanaC 25-08-2013 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by CynicalHermit (Post 6331834)
Are we really comparing the Holocaust to an ex football manager making a comment about a woman wearing a blanket on a reality tv show? really?

No. But the climate that allowed the rise of fascism included the routine denigration of Jews in comics and on stage and the blaming of Jews for the nation's economic and cultural woes.

Now, I don't think we are in danger of another Third Reich and another holocaust, but I do know that physical attacks and acts of intimidation against muslims in this country have been rising in number for several years.

Words have power. The jokes we tell reflect and help to create the culture we inhabit. Personally, I'd rather the culture I inhabit not be a racist, islamaphobic and anti-semitic one. Guess I'm picky like that.


Good God. It's political correctness gone mad. Mad I tells ya! Mad! Can't tell the old Chalky jokes any more eh? eh? Can't call it a blackboard! No more gollywogs on jam jars. Now they won't let us take the piss out of Abdul for being a bomber. Political correctness gone mad!

sassysocks 25-08-2013 10:22 PM

As is the double standards.

Ammi 25-08-2013 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by 08marsh (Post 6331865)
Exactly, those kinds of jokes don't necessarily make the person saying them racist or evil incarnate but as mentioned by someone else in the thread it does add to society's perception of people and emphasises stereotypes so BB was right to pull him up just to say mind your language, watch what you're saying. He accepted it and moved on.

..I think what I find most annoying and worrying is that people try to excuse him for the things he says..Oh it's just Big Ron, he's a good old chap, it's just his way...because it's not acceptable to be his way and how will he ever see that if excuses are made, which you're right..just adds to public perceptions of stereotypes...I accept that people can say things and not always think or mean offence by them but they also have to accept that they can offend and understand why, which is why he had to have the warning..I don't think he's a racist as such but if he's 'unaware or uneducated' then he does have to start to understand and be educated where he keeps making mistakes and saying stupid things...

reece(: 25-08-2013 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331948)
As is the double standards.

As I said, if BB found Charlotte to be offensive, she'd have been warned and she wasn't. So, so much for "my double standards" (another attempt at defending Ron's comments). Ron was warned... undefendable. But keep trying:xyxwave:

MrWong 25-08-2013 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331929)
I think not - just pointing out the obvious double standards that people responsible for them don't want to see.

It's spoken about a lot on the forum. So i'm not sure what you're getting at.

This is a thread about Ron's comments.

sassysocks 25-08-2013 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 6331943)
It's desperate straw grasping.. if BB found Charlotte to be offensive she would have been warned. Ron was warned for being offensive. That's the valid conclusion.

Who said Charlotte was being offensive? It's the ones calling her names because they find her offensive that are being sexist and therefore offensive.

Verbal 25-08-2013 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 6331944)
No. But the climate that allowed the rise of fascism included the routine denigration of Jews in comics and on stage and the blaming of Jews for the nation's economic and cultural woes.

Now, I don't think we are in danger of another Third Reich and another holocaust, but I do know that physical attacks and acts of intimidation against muslims in this country have been rising in number for several years.

Words have power. The jokes we tell reflect and help to create the culture we inhabit. Personally, I'd rather the culture I inhabit not be a racist, islamaphobic and anti-semitic one. Guess I'm picky like that.


Good God. It's political correctness gone mad. Mad I tells ya! Mad! Can't tell the old Chalky jokes any more eh? eh? Can't call it a blackboard! No more gollywogs on jam jars. Now they won't let us take the piss out of Abdul for being a bomber. Political correctness gone mad!

Yes Dana that is all well and good, but we are talking about Ron Atkinson in Big Brother. Reality check.

_catapult_ 25-08-2013 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Jamie. (Post 6331767)
I was gob smacked when he said it. It was racist no matter what way you look at it, it stereotyped Muslims (or religions that wear head scarves) to be a terrorist.

It was definitely justified.

My god somebody save me, it is NOT racist.. further back somebody called it a 'racIAL' comment, and that is at least somewhat accurate - racIAL not racIST ... he made a joke, yes it was a bit inappropriate... maybe he deserved the warning, but you need to keep it in perspective, RACISTS hate black people, they attack people like me in the street, shout n****r at us, do monkey dances around me, do you get the picture? ... it's worlds apart.

Like the poor chick who got kicked out of the house a few series back for using the "n word" in a completely unoffensive way, that was ridiculous, this is ridiculous, and i also agree that all the people screaming him down as racist 'on behalf' of us blacks need to get a life too, please, I won't be rushing to defend random whites on nobody elses behalf and I don't expect anybody else to do it for me!

reece(: 25-08-2013 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by sassysocks (Post 6331980)
Who said Charlotte was being offensive? It's the ones calling her names because they find her offensive that are being sexist and therefore offensive.

So why am I being lambasted for that then, Charlotte is my favourite in the house....


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