I recognise distress when I see it too. And I didn't see it.

There are always people on here who want to save the asshole, its nothing new

Imagine the reaction if bear spat in someone's food or got out of bed to physically threaten them.

It's a phenomenon I will never understand. :inamood:

Thanks Livia, it's always nice to receive a welcome from you :hee:

just so long as it's in context. It's clear the eejit bear was the instigator here.

It's got nothing to do with being sadistic, it is so ridiculous to say that and if I'm honest you're casting aspersions at me .....I'm not looking for him to punch her, I'm looking for him to expose her as the fraud she us ....I want him to confront her and make her accountable for it.....sadly he will prob mess it up but right now he could wipe the floor with her over her double standards.
If I was sadistic I would agree with Aubrey spitting and Marnie flashing and I absolutely don't ....Bear snogging Chloe to get back at two turn coats wasn't sadistic it was getting even.

You're wasting your time....people apply right and wrong based solely on who they do and don't like.

Kills em to defend anything that's been done by someone as annoying as Bear...the concept that someone they don't like is being treated badly doesnt exist.

people would be calling for him to be ejected lol

Maybe its just part of my regional dialect but "go for" doesnt mean expose her as a fraud and I genuinely thought you were hoping for something darker. Although even wanting Bear to "confront" her when we both know how he gets when people arent worshipping the ground he walks on isnt great sounding.

No, when I say " go for " I mean wipe the floor with em....you can take that literally too if you want :laugh: but you'll need to bring your own mop and bucket :laugh:
I can understand how it could look like something else though so thanks for coming back and explaining. No, it's like when Jayne said she would annihilate Natalie, it's a figure of speech that means they will come out on top. Saira and Ricky will be very lucky if they avoid that ...but they've still had the public see it.
When I see someone spit in a housemates food I don't expect them to say it's ok and to kiss and make up...I expect them to do exactly the type of things that Bear is doing....put Aubrey up for noms every week, push Renees nose out of joint by snogging Chloe in front of her....and hopefully ...make people see that Ricky's not so innocent and make people see what a monumental hypocrite Saira is.

It turns out it was sadistic. You are defending someone who used Chloe to get 'his own back', then comes back into the house and tells everyone, in front of Chloe that it was the worst kiss he ever had...

Maybe what I consider sadistic is very different to others...sadistic is a really strong word IMO....like calling Bear mentally unstable or calling Marco a sexual predator ....those type of labels can stick and be damaging esp when not true or not proven.

As for Chloe, who I like, do you really think she didn't have her own agenda ? She was playing pay back just as much as Bear was....they were both thumbing their noses at Heavy and he asked for it, completely deserved it. She even went back for more with no prompting from Bear at all.

Bear was far more pushy in repeatedly kissing her, it fact it looked like he was forcing her a few times.
You said nothing about 'the worst kiss he ever had' though. :smug:

No we don't and that is the point, we don't and neither did he.

He asked how long it would take, they would not give a time frame and no we d not know how long he was kept waiting.
All I can say is had that been me and I was calmed down as he had become,then I was told I had to stay there locked in for whatever time it took.
I would have gone right off it.

I actually believe most people would too and rightly so.

Very sadly I have to admit, not a truer word spoken there hot2go.
Well said.

Well that's rich.

I don't like any of them and, like most people on here, based my opinion on what I saw with my own eyes.

I just don't get how Bear is any different to other HM's though who have been holed up in the DR over all the previous series and yelling 'let me out of here' and have went mental and have not been let out...I didn't hear any outcry about them...he could have been waiting 5 minutes or 45 minutes, we just don't know, so it's a bit ott when we haven't a full picture. If we knew he was waiting a very long time then yes, that would be wrong because it can't take very long at all to make up a bed. He just seems to me a very impatient person with a temper who wants immediate gratification so I'm coming at it from my own opinion of him to date, which could turn out be wrong. :shrug:

There is no excuse for his behaviour last night despite a monumental attempt by some people to excuse him. His parents should have introduced him to the naughty step when he was little. Too late now...

That's unfair. Speaking for myself, I don't like to see anyone treated badly, whether I like them or not. I thought it was absolutely disgusting that Aubrey spat in his food and said so. Apart from that, I don't agree he has been treated badly as we don't have the full picture of his dialogue with BB in the DR. BB said he had already been spoken to several times about his behaviour and there he was ignoring them and being warned again so maybe they weren't willing to just give him what he wanted when he wanted it.

He had calmed down though jet,I agree that others have been in a similar position but none of that makes locking someone in a room against their will right.

If any of your family had that done to them you would rightly be outraged as I would.

All he wanted was the door unlocked, he had,yes thrown an object that could have missed everything or like it did hit something, no one else was anywhere near him when he did that.
He had also walked away from the argument, going outside alone.

He had then also calmed down in the diary room, maybe he thought he was going to be in there for hours, had BB said it will take us 10 to 15 minutes to get your Room ready, meantime just Talk to BB, He maybe would have stayed calm.

A good few of those who are seeing it from his point and how we would feel being locked up like that,like myself are not keen on Bear at all.
I would be saying this whoever BB acted this way with.

To just get at him because someone doesn't like him is neither fair or reasonable in my book and people will not all act the same way put in those circumstances he was in.

He never actually threatened anyone personally you know, he walked away from the bedroom and argument himself.

No ones excusing him at all but they are not going to jump in to hang,draw and quarter him either.

BB had him on the naughty step on that DR chair and he had a temper tantrum...yes, too late...:hee:

Well, he did go into the bedroom with the rose to goad Heavy, he did go over to the angry Heavy and put his foot up on the bed which only inflamed the situation, he did throw something and broke a window which someone could have been on the other side of. Heavy went ott with his anger, but he didn't touch anyone or throw anything.
I'm just not getting the sympathy for Bear on this occasion Joey and I don't see why BB would have to talk to him to keep him happy after already having given him several warnings previously and being ignored.
But I respect your viewpoint, I just see it differently.

Yes he put his foot on the side of the bed not on the bed,and yes he took a rose in.
That may be annoying but hardly aggressive.

Then he walked away with no prompting to do so from anyone else..

Perhaps Heavy actually needs to control the green eyed monster in himself and not purposely watch from the window all that bear and Chloe are doing too and also not see Chloe as a possession maybe.

That is how I saw it.
Also BB talk to all housemates when they are angry anyway so why should he be excluded from that too.

Also Bear was not shouting in the bedroom and from what I saw Heavy was the only one in bed, the bedroom lights were on and the women were talking too in there yet he only got at Bear.

I think it best you and I agree to disagree as we are never going to see eye to eye on this one, I just look at all sides, whether I like a housemate or not.

Yes, jealously is an ugly thing, and so is goading someone who you know is jealous. I don't like any of the younger ones at present and think too much air time is being given to their antics.
Anyway, yes we will agree to disagree. :hee:
I do respect your viewpoint and I understand where you are coming from, but I just see it differently.

Bear is a prize cock and should be booted from the house.

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Wasn't this just a further example of ongoing and repeated aggression rather than a panic attack? If there was any panic it was probably about being thrown out of the house for his behaviour.

Sorry, but I'm not buying this- he has shown what he is all about again and again, and BB even reminded him last night he had been repeatedly warned about his behaviour. This was drunken aggression and an unwillingness to take any self-control imo.

:clap1: Exactly. Simple solution! Accurate diagnosis!

That moment when security walked into the diary room was amazing. What a cock bear is. People have got ejected from the house for much less than his behaviour in there.

Do bears sh*t in the woods? No, they sh*t themselves in the diary room!

big brother have made the worst mistake ever, by removing biggins and not that little thick chav bear, it will kick of again, because he is trying to pick a fight with people in the house, and it will kick off with heavy D, I told you that bear is a nasty little sh'tbag.

With Biggins gone and now this eternal nomination lark, the way really is becoming clear for bear to win.

I can see it happening. Anyone who thinks the idea is ridiculous......just remember Helen won. And bear is a lot more likeable than her.

I think Ricky has this in the bag already.

It's more interesting to care about who wins, but I and a lot of people I know couldn't care less who wins this series. It's a train wreck.
Bear is more likeable than Helen, who isn't? but he's still very unlikable. I do think he'll be shown the door by BB at some stage if not voted out by the public.

..in the bedroom when it all kicked off as it were, the females especially looked very frightened and concerned...Heavy was called into the DR when he got out of bed and stood over Bear and in the DR, he didn't display any worrying, continued aggressive behaviour so was allowed back into the house because no 'threat' was deemed...that was easy to see..but with Bear, his aggression continued in the DR and continued..not only verbally in threatening to tear the DR apart or whatever he was raging but also in kicking the door down...he was obviously not able to be let into the house again because how would BB know that someone wouldn't get physically harmed through his behaviour, which was completely out of control and so inconsistent and erratic that even in a calm moment, could 'flip again' in suddenness and without warning...?...They absolutely had the right to keep hi in there until they had a room/bed prepared for him but they would have also wanted him to be more calm and 'stable' before he was allowed to that room and bed as well because would he just start destroying again..?...


..we've screamed and we've shouted about 'duty of care' and the welfare of the housemates with what Aubrey did and it was wrong for BB to allow Bear to drink and eat etc..they didn't consider his well-being in that and that doesn't sit well at all but this time they have considered welfare and well-being etc and we think that was wrong also..?...he was kept in the DR for his own safety and for the safety of the others as it would have only taken a split second for him to physically harm someone, either intentionally or unintentionally in destroying property and he was too erratic in his behaviour for those risks to be taken...'I'm calm now, yes let me out'..?...well no Bear, because right at this moment in time you can go from zero to beyond reason in a split second and before we could intervene to prevent harm....if we were housemates ourselves, would we really want him back in the house with us..?..would we really feel safe and 'cared for by BB' if he were let back into the house..?...because many of those bedroom faces looked quite worried and fearfilled....he displayed no signs of panic in the DR, only a loss of control with anger and aggressive emotion....they can only go on and primarily with what was being displayed and make a decision for the safety of all....

If that cup he threw was a foot higher on the glass it would have exploded all over the camera runs, luckily he hit the bottom where the window is much stronger.

I can't get my head around people revering him as a housemate, the manchild is scum & the house would evolve without him.
His arrested development is arresting the development of the house dynamic.

Ever heard of controlling your response to events?